A classic work to adjust one's mentality

1. Life is unfair. Some people are born cute, some people don't eat fat, and some people enjoy success, but I hope you also have your own super powers, such as not being defeated by life.

There are three ways to be happy: giving up, letting go and forgetting. Happiness has four elements: what can be changed to change, what can't be changed to improve, what can't be improved to bear, and what can't be borne to let go.

Everyone has everyone's temper, and everyone has everyone's vision. People who can't control their temper are easily hurt by others' eyes, and people who can't hide their eyes are easily hit by others' temper. The process of learning not to lose your temper and put on a bad face is actually a process of long-term skill.

4. Four basic principles of life: know how to choose, learn to give up, and endure loneliness and temptation.

Before a word is exported, you are its master, and after it is exported, it is your master. Nails can be pulled out of the board, but words can't be taken back. Think more, think more, listen more, watch more, and be careful what you say and do. The advantage of doing this is to make yourself less regretful.

6. There are three things in life: first, choose a path that suits you, don't look around, don't be greedy, and don't get lost in flowers; The second is to know how to persist, avoid blindly following the trend, and stick to this moment to see the scenery of the next moment; The third is to know how to give up. What belongs to you is limited after all. Give up the stars and you will reap the dawn.

7. This is the ugliness of human nature. Once you get used to accepting, you will forget to be grateful.

8. See yourself happy and sad, and see your friends ups and downs. Without a tolerant heart, you can't see the beautiful world of spring.

9. The more people you know, the better. Don't squeeze into the circle that you can't squeeze in, let alone know who you met, and use it as bragging capital. Hold your horses and don't always try to please others. Other people's miracles have nothing to do with you. Don't chase after what you really can't get. Never pay attention to what makes you angry. Read more books and walk more. It is a trip on the way to school and work.

10. What life needs to prepare is not expensive tea, but the mood of drinking tea.

1 1. The mentality is not good, to put it bluntly, it is too short-sighted and narrow-minded. The word mentality, taken apart, means having a bigger heart. My heart is getting bigger every day, how can my mentality be bad?

12. You can earn wealth by speculation, but you can't get satisfaction from wealth; Cheating can get a girlfriend, but you can't get the love of your girlfriend; Cheating can get high marks, but you can't get knowledge from books; You can buy honor with money, but you can't get fame from the people.

13. There is no hurdle in life, only a heart that refuses to let go. Some things have to be turned over, and some people have to forget. Don't always live in the past and make yourself depressed.

14. The busier you are, the more careful you are about the details of life. Don't be consumed by unnecessary personnel. Don't wallow in the mire of life. Always know what is most important to you and who is most important to you. Stay focused and alert. Where time is spent, life is there. -Fu Nan

15. Some people say: "Money can buy roses, but it can't buy love; Money can buy clocks, but it can't buy time; Money can buy medicine, but it can't buy health ... "However, after a certain age, it is discovered that no matter how much the world devalues money, it will bow to it in the face of the hardships of life. As Oscar Wilde said, "I thought money was everything when I was young, but now I don't know until I am old." It is true. " In the world of adults, feelings are maintained by money. Without money, even love is hard to express.

16. Same bottle of drinks, convenience store 2 yuan, five-star hotel 60 yuan. Many times, a person's value depends on his position.

17. Life is a long-distance race. Winning or losing is temporary. Being calm and calm is the great wisdom of life. Calm is a heart medicine. When you lose your cool and your heart is in chaos, you might as well take this medicine.

18. No matter what everyone in the world says, I think my feeling is correct. I like it naturally, but I don't like it for long. Never envy other people's lives, even if that person looks happy and rich. Never judge whether others are happy or not, even if that person looks lonely and helpless. Happiness is like drinking water, understand it. You are not me, how can you know the road I have traveled and the joys and sorrows in my heart?

19. The communication between two people is 70% emotional and 30% content. If the communication mood is wrong, the content will be distorted, so before communicating the content, we must clarify the emotional level, otherwise the misunderstanding will only deepen.

20. There are two great happiness in a person's life, one is doing what he likes, and the other is being with the person he likes. To achieve these two great happiness depends on luck and hard work. Lucky people, if they don't work hard, their luck will gradually go far; People who are unlucky will succeed one day if they work hard enough.

2 1. A high salary is not as good as a long life, and a long life is not as good as happiness. If you are not afraid of low income, you are afraid of death. If you are not afraid of earning less, you are afraid of leaving early. To develop good eating habits is to store health, while to indulge bad hobbies and eating habits is to overdraw life. Without a healthy body, your bright life will be bleak in an instant!

22. In life, it takes courage to face yourself; To improve yourself, you need to listen to your heart; To manage yourself well, you must have a strong heart and cultivate self-confidence; Everything, as Bacon said: "Go deep into your heart, and then find all the miracles in yourself". With more experience, I like a person more and more. When I am alone, I will have more meditation, realize myself and surpass myself in silence. The road of life is simple but not simple!

23. Without expectation, you won't be disappointed, and you don't have to worry about things beyond your control. Face and accept the facts frankly. Most of our pride is based on our ignorance. The most eternal happiness in the world is ordinary, and the longest possession in life is cherish.

24. The golden sentence that makes people feel great: If you want to have a delicious table, you have to have good teeth; If you have money, you have to spend money Enjoy the scenery all the way, you have to go; Pick a golden mountain, you have to be able to carry it. The man who digs in the furrow is a good man, and the man who counts money in the hospital bed is a fool. All the way, you have to have a home, a leader and a mother. People should listen to grievances and worries, and praise excellence. Cool and beautiful. If you want someone to love you, you have to be pulled if you fall and slip. It is better to make friends with enemies than to plant thorns; Wealth is not as good as happiness and longevity is not as good as happiness.