Why are boys so slow to reply to girls’ messages?

Boys are too slow to reply to messages, most of the time because they don’t want to talk at all.

Many people have read a book called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". From the title of the book, you know that men and women are creatures from different planets.

The article points out at the beginning that whether you are a man or a woman, you should remember one sentence: you are different. But we always make the mistake of assuming that if our partner loves us, his or her reactions and behavior must be "in tune" with us, rather than going against what we expect.

Unfortunately, as time goes by, the magic of love begins to fade, and the tedious affairs of "firewood, rice, oil and salt" take over. Men always expect women to think and react the way they do, and women expect men to feel and act the way they do. They put their differences behind them. They don't take the time and effort to understand and respect each other's desires and needs. Next, they all invariably appear in the following situations: demanding perfection, being bossy, fault-finding, lack of tolerance, stubbornness...

Why do men always hate to send you messages, or are always slow to reply to you? ? Because they really feel that chatting on WeChat has no practical meaning. A brain science expert once did a study, and the research report showed that:

Women have to speak more than 20,000 words a day, while men, the upper limit is 8,000. Women talk to express emotions, men talk to solve problems. There is only one situation when a man is willing to chat with you, and that is when he has not yet settled on you. Once he feels that he can't win you with his current strength, or you have almost fallen.

He will chat less with you, which is why the little brother suddenly stopped flirting halfway through. Or why was it that even though we were having a lively conversation last night, you called me baby and I called you sweetheart, you became cold the next day? Because, after their evaluation, they found that the project could not be won for the time being, or that it was already a sure thing, and they no longer needed to invest further.

In fact, only by respecting the differences between men and women can we understand each other's inner desires, creatively solve problems, and enjoy the flourishing, blossoming and fruiting of love in every season.