What is it like to be friends with a girl who shows off her wealth?

My good friend bought two mobile phone cases of a certain brand two days ago. When they were mailed to his home, he discovered that they were not the same model as his own phone. He posted a blog in embarrassment, saying that he was a little confused. I placed the order without understanding it.

A good friend texted me in the middle of the night and asked me to read the comments on her Weibo. I ran to check it out. Many people joked that if you buy something without understanding it, who is to blame, but There are also a few people who are arrogant, saying why they love to show off their wealth so much after buying such an expensive mobile phone case. "It's just daily life, what does it have to do with showing off your wealth?" A good friend felt aggrieved, "If I'm showing off my wealth, can't I show off something more advanced?" Seriously, don't easily leave some weird things under bloggers That’s right, because bloggers will really click on your homepage to see...

My good friend and I watched that girl’s Weibo for a long time, and looked at her selfies and outfits She dressed up and looked at her cell phone model in a very tacky way. After seeing her negative energy in many daily situations, my friend felt that there was nothing unhappy about her telling her to show off her wealth.

The two of us then discussed that in real life, neither of us would be able to make friends with such a girl. She is not sunny at all.

I once met such a person, that girl, I simply couldn’t stay with her for one more second. There are many girls in our classmates who are truly white and rich, but they cannot face the daily life of white and rich girls. Today they bought a bag and posted a photo and she said they were vain. Today they bought a pair of shoes and posted a selfie and she commented that they love to show off. Some classmates earned money from part-time jobs to buy perfume for themselves. She said why it was so extravagant...

Can you still make others happy? The good mood was ruined.

What kind of mentality do you have to say these things, not to mention that they really have it?

It’s the same. Let me start by saying that my friend didn’t buy two big-name mobile phone cases just to show off. What if she bought a big-name mobile phone case just to show off herself? Aren’t you allowed to show off the things you bought with your own money? What’s wrong with using your hard-earned money to treat yourself well? Some people say that this is not good-looking or decent at all, because the more you lack something, the more you show off it. I thought it made sense before, but later I thought it made perfect sense! It’s all been said, but in the end, how you behave is best determined by your mood. Everyone lives according to their mood, and there is no need to be strict about who is online. Therefore, if you have time to criticize others for showing off their brands, you might as well spend this time studying how you can make a lot of money buying big brands.

Actually, ask yourself, who doesn’t want to be a cute and charming Gucci girl?

Of course, I didn’t say that buying big brands is such a high-end life that everyone should aspire to, but the weak are jealous and the smart people reflect on themselves. What we really want to see is the process of how others buy big brands. It's not just that she's carrying a big-name bag.

When I was in college, I knew a girl who was studying broadcasting and hosting. She started going to various high-end occasions when we didn’t know anything. She would wear nice suits and high clothes. With her high heels, many people maliciously speculated whether she was being kept, otherwise her enviable status among her friends would not have been possible.

Actually, what I know is that she attends various high-end occasions and serves as the host of various activities. She can earn money and practice her style at the same time.

How tiring is it to wear 9cm high heels? Sometimes I have to attend three events in one day and I feel paralyzed when I get back to school.

The big-name bags that everyone is pointing at were also bought by her with the money from her part-time job to support herself. When you go to high-end occasions, you must have high-end things to match. At this time, don’t be vain and materialistic. Not realistic at all.

There are also girls at the same level who want to imitate her, so they try to apply for a credit card to buy bags, and save money to buy the same high heels as her...

None of them have learned the lesson. Go, everyone sees that she looks good, but no one knows how hard she works.

The mobile phone case my friend bought was also written down one article at a time.

Tsai Kangyong has a sentence in "A Kindness Message to a Cruel Society" that I think is very good, "If you envy the wealth of successful people, please don't blindly imitate what they did after becoming rich, those famous brand watches. Bags, wine, cars, etc. are all things they did after they became rich. If you try to imitate them, you can only try to be poor and happy. The focus, the search like an ant, and the patience like a pupa are all things that are exposed to the weather and become disgraced. "We want to be cute girls, see the essence through the phenomenon, and don't always look at others and buy them. No matter what, even if they show off, they can really afford it. They work hard for every bit of their "vanity". Many of us can't do it. In this colorful world, we can't have a calm mind. In fact, it's not that unbearable to put your desires on the table. What's unbearable is not that you want good and expensive things from all over the world. What's unbearable is just the means to obtain them. That's all, it's upright, there's nothing to be embarrassed about.

In contrast, I prefer to be friends with girls who "show off their wealth" like this, observe their little secrets on how to make money, and then work hard to "show off" their wealth with them.

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