Li Lianglei issued a document saying that marriage, cold violence, property transfer, cheating and whoring. How can women avoid this situation?

Let's check the problem again first. Li Lianglei "issued a document calling him illegitimate, cold violence, property transfer, cheating and whoring". This is the hot news these two days.

This Ms. Li, Wang Leehom's wife, also sent this long letter to Weibo yesterday. Late at night, I responded to my divorce from Huang Lihong. It is said that Huang Lihong cheated in marriage and suffered cold violence from Wang Leehom's family for a long time. If you are interested in this "melon" in Wang Leehom, please go to Baidu to find out. What I'm talking about today is a supplement to the following question. How can women avoid this situation?

Today, I am a woman, followed by an emotional counselor. From a professional point of view, how to avoid this situation as a woman, including but not limited to marriage, cold violence, transfer of property, derailment.

1. Even if you get married, you can't be divorced from society.

There is a saying that getting married and being a full-time mother at home is the most dangerous job in the world. I can't say that this sentence is right, but it is. Housewives are out of touch with society and the world. They have no income, no financial resources and no friends. This is really very dangerous for a woman. Because it is dangerous for women to rely too much on men.

Feelings will turn from strong to weak, just like marriage, which has to go through so much daily necessities. If this situation does not change, women will become that yellow-faced woman over time. This is the story of red rose and white rose told by Zhang Ailing. Therefore, you must not be a housewife at home, you must have your own circle of friends and your own work income.

2. Economic independence can be equated.

Marriage is not only a combination of love, but also a combination of two people's goals. However, if we want to balance this relationship, two people must be equal in this interest. We can't say that we must be economically independent. At least have money, even if you leave each other, you can still live. And they can have a continuous source of income or personal skills that can be realized. There is no doubt that money is important to everyone, especially to men. To some extent, in marriage, as long as you master his money, you can almost master him.

We may have heard a lot about divorce, and then the relationship between the two sides broke down mainly because of interests and money. We don't need to say that we are strong in marriage, but at least we should be equal in money.