My lover's husband died in a car accident yesterday. I'm not very good at talking when calling from other places. I want to send a comforting message to comfort her and ease her sadness. ...

Sadness is inevitable. People died to make you more independent. You need someone to lean on. Go to the Christian church. When you pray, pray for God to be with you. God is a powerful creator who will help you spend the rest of your life. Where there is faith, there is hope, and there are brothers and sisters in the church. The world is a big family. Don't force yourself to be happy, because that's not your smile. When you should cry, let your emotions control you. Wait for yourself after the rain until you really put it down. . .