How to chat with a girl you just met on WeChat?

How to talk about girls' opening remarks on WeChat?

How to chat with girls' WeChat prologue? Many times, I want to chat with the person I like, but I often don't know how to talk better. I often get the chat in the wrong direction from the beginning. How to chat with girls on WeChat opening remarks is shared as follows.

How to chat with girls' WeChat prologue? 1 How to chat with girls you just met:

1, the opening must be short to play the role of opening a chat, so it must not be too lengthy, and the number of words generally does not exceed 20 words. If you talk too much, it will bring great pressure to girls visually, and you will be tired of this man's verbosity.

2. In order to arouse girls' interest, new girls can send fun expression packs directly to make each other happy and interact easily, which is relatively simple and effective. But don't send too much, otherwise it will easily lead to fights and will not have good results. Some boys are too eager for a result, afraid that their enthusiasm will not be responded, and they are very concerned about girls' every move. In fact, if the other party doesn't reply immediately, it may be busy with other things. Don't keep asking, you'll get bored.

I used to have a low eq and couldn't speak. I always thought that I could catch up with a girl by being nice to her, and I always thought that I could win a good impression by being a serious man. I also tried to pester girls every day, often chatting with them, and what to do in the morning ... I often praised girls' circle of friends, but the other side ignored it, and finally got nothing, wasting a lot of energy.

3. Observe my sister's circle of friends and see if there are any topics to talk about, such as seeing many food photos. Wow, I found that I have the same hobby as you, that is, we all eat food and like to find food! If she often shares some chicken soup, you can say, "I just went to your circle of friends and drank several bowls of chicken soup, which almost made my nose bleed." This kind of active and humorous dialogue, combined with the high emotional intelligence of picking up girls, usually makes girls happy to reply.

4. Girls are generally not resistant to compliments. But remember to praise something. For example, some girls have some kittens and puppies in their pictures. You can say, your puppy is so cute. How old is it? Or when you see children in MengMeng, you can flatter them. You should like children very much. After praising, ask each other's views and opinions and interact.

How to chat with a girl you just met 2:

1, guide them to talk to you, and restrain their desire to talk. Let the other person talk more and talk less about her own affairs, and stimulate her desire to talk to you.

Say a little more: Really? Is it? What happened? Something like that. The more girls talk, the more you know, and you have a chance of winning.

When she said it, you added a similar sentence: Me too. I think we are very similar, in that case. Fill him with fantasies.

2, release your chat emotions correctly. All boring chats lack something called emotion. Such people are often men who lack passion and tension. (Chat routine skills)

3. Be curious. You look like a child I knew when I was a child. It's very sweet of you to fight with me at that time.

4. Push and pull

I have a lot to say to you, always in my heart. (pull)

I don't think this skirt looks good on you. (push)

Using these two skills skillfully in chat can make your chat with your sister more interesting and interesting.

How to chat with a girl you just met;

Chatting topics When chatting with girls, of course, you should choose girls who are more interested. Don't let a chat turn into a person talking. We can choose topics according to each other's circle of friends. For example, if a girl keeps a pet, you can say how good your pet is, and girls usually say their pets. * * * Friends with you, places you have been, etc. , can be used as a choice to chat with girls.

What's wrong with chatting with a girl you just met?

1, Feelings When chatting with girls you just met, you should be careful not to talk about emotional things, such as the emotional history of your predecessor or the other party, which will make girls have a bad impression on you. (Chat routine skills)

2. Too specific issues, such as a girl's job, salary and family, can be discussed but not too deep. After all, you just met, and you're not her boyfriend.

3. Topics full of negative energy If you always complain about the negative energy of work and life when chatting with a girl you have just known for a long time, it will make girls think that you are a person who only knows complaints and has no initiative.

How to talk about girls' opening remarks on WeChat? 2 How do couples maintain their early feelings?

First, make more phone calls.

It is essential to make a phone call to increase mutual affection. Give her a call when you are free to talk about some interesting things that happened that day, or discuss where to play at the weekend. In short, make sure to call or send a message at least once a day, so that your feelings will increase.

Second, find the same topic.

The so-called "couple" refers to the combination of men and women. Obviously, different genders have different personalities. It is very important for couples to talk. If they talk about topics that both sides like, the distance will naturally be particularly close.

* * * The same topic is a bridge to communicate with each other. With snacks in life, it is not difficult to observe what the other person likes to pay attention to. It is important to have a heart.

For example, if you find that the other person is watching a TV series recently, you just pay attention to it. Even if it is not much, you can discuss TV stories with her. Is it really easy to find a topic?

Third, small dangers stimulate inner feelings.

When people engage in some intense or risky activities, their physical and mental reactions are very similar to those when they are in love. In addition to playing roller coasters and watching thrillers, Epstein also taught everyone a little game in which two people alternately leaned back and the other caught behind them.

Fourth, remember each other's birthdays.

This is very important. Birthday has a special meaning for her, especially for girls. If anyone can remember her birthday, she will be very moved. If you can accompany her on her birthday and give her a present on her birthday, she will be very moved, and the feelings between you will naturally be there.

Five, he reached the * * * knowledge.

It's normal to meet things with different opinions in life. Disagreement does not mean disagreement. When two people deal with problems, they can achieve the unity of things through consultation.

Ask the other party's opinion on this matter first, listen to his (her) opinion, and then express your own opinion, and turn your opinion into a compromise method to reach a level acceptable to both parties. Take a step back and broaden the horizon.

Six, a little closer

Being close to water helps to build a good impression between people. If two people consciously approach each other and deliberately let each other into their personal space, they will soon become close. In practice, two people stand about 1 m apart, and then get closer every 10 second until they are about to meet.

Give her a gift, or accompany her on important holidays.

There are many festivals. Not every holiday should be spent with her Not every festival should give her a gift. Just choose some special festivals that girls like, such as Qixi. If these festivals can accompany her or give her gifts, she will be moved.

Eight, tolerate the shortcomings of both sides.

There are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no perfect people. In the process of getting along, lovers should not criticize each other's shortcomings, but learn to be tolerant and try to accept his shortcomings. When the other person thinks that you don't mind and adopts an accepting attitude, he will be glad that he has met you so reasonably!

Always seeing each other's shortcomings will make you unhappy. If you get along with an inclusive heart, the relationship between couples will be more harmonious and sweet.

Nine, imitate each other

People are more likely to become lovers with people with similar intelligence level, background and personal charm, and sometimes just imitating each other can enhance their feelings. Practice method Two people stand or sit close together and move their hands and feet at will, but at the same time imitate each other's movements, so that both of them feel free and consistent.

Ten, give her more small surprises.

Girls like small surprises. Giving her a little surprise doesn't mean you surprise her every day. It's not a surprise if you give it every day. You should surprise her from time to time and give her the feeling of heartbeat, so that you can't even think of your own feelings.

How to talk about girls' opening remarks on WeChat? 3 First, add the opening remarks of girls' WeChat chat for the first time.

1, suspense preface

When chatting, make reasonable use of curiosity and make an opening statement full of suspense, which will make girls interested in you immediately. For example, the following opening remarks:

"I saw your nickname on WeChat and found a little secret."

"I found a feature in your circle of friends."

Out of curiosity, girls usually respond to your "secrets/characteristics" within a few seconds. If you want to inherit and arouse a girl's curiosity, you can answer her like this: "I dare not say, because I am afraid you will hit me."

In this way, in the long run, girls will naturally have a good chat with you. When you say something about her, she will strongly want to know what it is. When this happens, you will become a valuable exporter, you will become a prize, and girls will continue to chase you.

2, cold reading opening remarks

For example, you want to ask her where her hometown is? If you just ask "Where are you from?" This question ends the topic.

So we can ask questions in the following ways:

M: I guess you are from the south.

Woman: No, I'm from the north.

M: Really? There are people in the north who look very watery.

Woman: Haha, how was the chat?

When chatting with girls by cold reading, you can't just answer "Oh, ok, haha", because the biggest advantage of cold reading is that it can arouse people's curiosity. Whether your prediction is accurate or not, whether she agrees or not, your topic can be started.

Second, what should I say in the opening remarks of the first WeChat?

1, I think you should be a lively girl.

Our first tacit understanding is that if I don't talk, you will be silent.

We should all be locals. What do you think is the most interesting place in our local area?

I'm thinking a particularly strange question. I wonder if you miss me.

I heard that I can't eat plates and swallow bowls recently.

Aren't you the girl who ate three bowls of rice in the fast food restaurant downstairs?

7. I envy you for knowing me so young.

8. Playing mobile phones at work is not afraid of being caught by the boss and deducting wages?

9. Are you waiting for me to say good night by staying up so late?

10 My little darling, have you missed me recently?

Third, the first WeChat plus girl chat.

Just added a girl's WeChat, let's take a brief look at her circle of friends. If she sent a circle of friends that day or in the last three days, then let's give her a comment and leave a message, which may help to narrow your distance.

Secondly, the chat opening remarks can start with the content of friends circle. For example, girls like to bask in food in a circle of friends, and you can talk about food with her. This girl is idolized in the circle of friends. You can use this as an opening remark to attract her to talk to you.

Finally, when chatting with girls on WeChat for the first time, we should pay attention to the discretion and know what topics can and can't be discussed. Don't show strong curiosity about girls like checking your hukou. Too much curiosity is not necessarily a good thing. How do you usually talk to your friends? Just talk to girls in a natural and comfortable tone. But it should be noted that we should not be too intimate and familiar, nor too polite and blunt. I believe that girls are willing to chat with you as long as the opening remarks are smooth.