A man in Henan quarreled with his wife and complained to his mother-in-law. How did her mother-in-law handle it?

The mother-in-law drove her daughter out of the house with a broom and finally satisfied the man. Finally, under the persuasion of her family, the man and his wife got back together. The man brought his wife back to her family. Because his wife disliked him driving fast and slowly, he felt unstable and a little upset in the car, so he criticized the man. What is the difference?

The man thinks that his driving skills are ok, and it is inevitable that this will happen when the road is fast and slow. They have an argument about driving. The man got off the bus in a hurry, gave the car to his wife and walked 8 kilometers to his mother-in-law's house to complain to her mother-in-law.

After learning about this, the mother-in-law stood on the side of her son-in-law, picked up a broom and drove her daughter out of the house, and warned her not to bully him again, which made her laugh and cry.

Many people envy this man. There is such a compassionate mother-in-law with high emotional intelligence. In this case, she can understand how to resolve the contradictions between young couples and avoid two people parting ways because of contradictions, because some contradictions have accumulated resentment, which eventually leads to cracks in feelings and even the end of divorce.

Many women who are mothers-in-law or mothers-in-law help their children and blame each other when the young couple quarrel, which will add fuel to the fire, intensify contradictions, make the two sides hostile and easily break up their feelings. Only by properly solving these contradictions in time can their feelings be unaffected.

This mother-in-law can roll with the punches when her daughter and son-in-law have conflicts because of driving. She is a very wise and reasonable person. Instead of helping her daughter, she clearly expressed her support and affirmation for her son-in-law, and supported her son-in-law with practical actions, which made her like her husband's family more.

If the mother-in-law helps her daughter and accuses her son-in-law, that is another matter. The mother-in-law solved the contradiction well, reflected her high emotional intelligence, and made a trivial matter of life more emotional.