Can the feelings of men and women be misunderstood in short messages?

It's hard to say. Anyway, apart from friendship, men and women who are friends must have one thing, that is, both sides are unconsciously looking at and appreciating each other with the eyes of the opposite sex. While appreciating each other's sincerity and intelligence, men will also secretly pay attention to each other's posture, appearance, voice, expression, temperament, clothing and other things that have little to do with friendship. So do women. No man wants to be friends with a woman who is not feminine, and no woman wants to be friends with a wretched man. This is different from friendship between the same sex. And the special taste of friendship between men and women may be here.

What can really maintain a long-term friendship is that the two sides are always close and always keep a moderate distance, just like two independent trees, which are neither far away nor long together. If they are entangled too tightly, they will stay together for life. One strange thing about people is that once they are too close, they will breed contradictions and resentment, destroy the pure friendship before, and then drift away and even turn against each other. The friendship between the opposite sex has some impure eyes. When the heat reaches a certain level, it will inevitably heat up and sprint to zero distance. If you violate the law of friendship, it is no longer friendship. Once the spirit and the body are confused, the prisoner nature of two people will be exposed to each other like the body, which will inevitably breed grievances (because of this, most brilliant feelings can only last for one or two years, three or four years, and then they will be somewhat stale). When the fever goes down, it is impossible for love to return to friendship for a while. At this point, people are really strange and incredible. If you can't be lovers, you must be strangers. There is no transition zone in the middle, and few lovers become lifelong friends (some lyrics call this "degeneration" a friend). If someone really becomes like this, then these two people must be very emotional and intelligent people.

So I'm thinking, before approaching a friend of the opposite sex, you must make a choice in advance: do you want this feeling to suddenly bloom and be short-lived, or do you want it to slowly release fragrance and warm your life? If it is the latter, then never walk into each other and always keep a moderate distance.

The friendship between men and women is extremely subtle. Men and women always have different ideas; Men and women are so similar; Men and women are attracted to each other, but they are often the easiest to become strangers. It is difficult for people to get along with others, and it is even more difficult to get along with the opposite sex, because it is difficult to grasp the degree when getting along with friends of the opposite sex. They often pursue pure friendship, lofty ideals and perfect life at first, but as time goes on, with the strengthening of the attraction of the opposite sex, they get to know each other better, and often have a strange desire and feeling in their hearts, which is the initial feeling of love. It is precisely because of the most primitive impulses and ideas that men and women often have a desire for further communication. When their hearts are divorced from their original dreams and pursuits, they may be replaced by the love complex between men and women. Men can easily fall in love with women under certain conditions; Similarly, a woman can easily fall in love with a man under certain conditions, although the conditions and conduct are so incompatible at first. Therefore, the friendship between men and women should be pure, but few people can really do this. Therefore, it is not easy for men and women to get along. Often friends can't do it, but they become lovers. If lovers can't do it, they become enemies. In fact, the main reason is impure thinking. Which man is not in love? Which girl doesn't love spring? It is easy for men and women to go astray when they get along. It should be said that people with flesh and blood, people with feelings and people should be realistic. Who can resist the feelings of human love? Who can resist love from the heart? All feelings are ultimately a subjective emotion. Whether it's love or hate, it's actually no big deal. With a peaceful mind, sincere heart and rational love, we will face it from a big perspective and look at the problem from a long-term perspective, and everything will develop as we wish. With reason, life can be full and happy.

People live in this world. Some people are lovers, some are friends, some are confidants, and of course there are strangers.

It depends on how you get along! Good luck!