How can a woman be "cruel" to a man if she wants to get his attention?

Have you ever seen such a sentence:? If I haven't contacted you for a long time, it is to respect your freedom of loneliness; If I haven't sent you a message for a long time, it is to respect your right to be calm; If I haven't greeted you for a long time, it's that I miss you silently. ?

Some seemingly cruel and indifferent actions are actually not because they don't love each other, but because they don't want to disturb each other's lives too much, and they are waiting for each other's active approach.

Many women are like this in the face of feelings, and their hearts have already set off layers of waves, but the surface has always been faint; I can't wait to take the initiative to contact each other in my heart, but on the surface I am still reserved and don't bother. These women's different opinions are actually because they are full of expectations, expecting men's initiative and looking forward to men's concern.

Liang Moyu is so awkward in front of feelings. She actively pursued Xia Cheng, but after Xia Cheng promised, she often made some cruel moves, which made Xia Cheng wonder about her true intentions.

She can't contact Xia Cheng for several days, or she can completely ignore the text messages sent by Xia Cheng. Can she? Cruel? Leave some hurtful words, or break up after quarreling. Liang Moyu's move made Xia Cheng feel strange. Obviously, she took the initiative to pursue it, but she didn't cherish it after catching up.

Actually Xia Cheng don't understand, behind these cruel Liang Moyu, because want to get more attention from him. Most women are like this. In order to prove a man's sincerity, they would rather do something to hurt him. In order to get men's concern, I would rather suffer from missing.

Most women have different opinions. What they do on the surface is actually not what they really think. They are just used to testing men and testing them with behaviors that men can't understand. So men have to understand, women? Cruel? In fact, I want to get your concern by treating you like this.

Cruel? Don't take the initiative to contact you

Many women become bold and active after falling in love, and always want to stick together with men, even if they are separated for a moment, they feel unbearable. But if you take the initiative for a long time, women will also want men to take the initiative. What about being a woman? Cruel? When you don't take the initiative to contact men, you actually want to get men's attention.

Women have been controlling their inner impulses, just to see if you will take the initiative to contact him; Women have been looking forward to feeling your love, just want to know how much you love her. Women are determined not to take the initiative, just hoping to attract men's attention.

Men should understand that women will be tired if they take the initiative for a long time. When she stopped taking the initiative to contact, it was not because she didn't love, but because she was tired. She wanted to take the initiative for you.

Cruel? Scold you for not making progress

After most women and men are together, they will look forward to a better life in the future, hoping to be dependent on each other forever and hope that men can bring happiness to themselves. Women pin their hopes on men, but when men don't work hard for it, women will become cruel.

Woman? Cruel? I scold you for not making progress, in fact, I want your concern. This is also a provocation that inspires men to work harder. Women hope that men can shoulder their responsibilities, make changes for her and bring her a happy life.

Men shouldn't scold you like this and think that women look down on you. She just wants you to think more about her and each other's future.

Cruel? Don't answer the phone

Every woman has her own little thoughts, and wants to test the love of men more and see if men will worry about themselves. When two people talk, they can't see each other's sincerity at all. Only in the face of some unexpected situations can we truly see each other's sincerity.

Woman? Cruel? I don't answer your phone, in fact, I want to get your concern. She tested you like this, just to really see your anxiety and care. In a woman's ideology, the more a man loves her, the more anxious he will be because he can't get in touch; The less he loves her, the less he asks.

Maybe men will be tired of dealing with these temptations of women, or maybe men will think that women don't trust your love. But men should not forget that most women are insecure, aren't they? Cruel? For you, I just hate your sincerity and want your concern.

Men don't understand women's minds, so they are likely to ignore women? Cruel? The intention behind it is very likely to be attributed to the deep heart of a woman, and it may also lead to the weakening of feelings. This difference in thinking can easily lead to misunderstanding, so if a woman wants to get a man's concern, she should communicate openly with him.

Emotional communication is very important, which can bring two hearts closer together. Xiao Jing hopes that women will stop testing men's sincerity in the wrong way. Men's love doesn't need to be tested, as long as they feel it with their heart, they can really understand it.

For men, give more love to women at ordinary times, and women will not try their best to test and ask for it. Falling in love is not easy. Take good care, so that love will not go far.