You can tell that two people are ambiguous at a glance

What is an "ambiguous relationship"? Ambiguity is usually a description of a vague and unclear relationship between a man and a woman. It usually refers to a very special relationship, neither love nor friendship, but a relationship somewhere in between. If love requires responsibility and commitment, then an ambiguous relationship may involve commitment but does not necessarily require responsibility. "Love without love will never change, so we flirt, we are ambiguous, but never fall in love." Zhang Ailing revealed the true motivations of those who choose to be ambiguous. To determine whether two people are in an ambiguous relationship, just observe the details. Ambiguity can be expressed in various forms, whether it is language or actions, among which three are particularly obvious. 1. Communication method Two ambiguous people often communicate more frequently than ordinary friends. He would always tell her what was in his heart, or he would always talk to her when he was lonely. The content of their exchanges seems to be more extensive, which can be friendship, family affection, or love. In short, they talk about everything and always understand each other's hearts deeply. Such people always get along as friends, and their words are more or less ambiguous, but no one will clearly clarify the relationship between two people. They enjoy this relaxed and comfortable feeling, so they will indulge in this ambiguous relationship. 2. Intimate distance: The distance between people can be observed by observing the close distance between them. Ambiguous people will approach involuntarily because of their emotional intimacy. This is due to people's own defensive psychology. Because they feel that the other party is reliable or can meet their needs, they can't help but get closer. When two people are in an ambiguous relationship, we will find that they have no scruples about hugging, holding hands and other actions, and it is even natural. But unlike their relationship as a couple, the two are actually still friends. 3. Eye information Eyes are the windows to our souls, and they are often the window through which the outside world can see into people’s hearts. While people are thinking through their brains, their eyes actually reveal some secrets. The way a person looks at another person cannot be faked. The eyes between ambiguous people are intimate, but they dodge each other. On the one hand, they enjoy this feeling of intimacy, but on the other hand, they choose to instinctively avoid the relationship between them. In addition, people who are in an ambiguous relationship will also feel jealous, especially when other people of the opposite sex are close to the other person, the angry and jealous eyes will become more obvious. Subconsciously, they possess each other. Whether the relationship between two people is ambiguous or not, we can observe it through the above three characteristics. The philosopher Plato once said this, which is still quoted by people today. "If you love, please love deeply; if you abandon, please do it thoroughly. Don't be ambiguous and hurt others and yourself." Those who are always unwilling to take a step closer and continue to engage in ambiguity are selfish in themselves, and at the same time, they have exposed their escaping heart. . Most people who live in this kind of false relationship are more likely to fall into this ambiguous relationship, which will only make themselves more painful and helpless in the end. If you like someone, you can enter the ambiguous stage, but after all, you have to understand a responsibility, because a person who truly loves you will never be ambiguous with you easily. Two people who are ambiguous can be seen at a glance 2 1. What content is ambiguous when a man and a woman talk? 1. Although there are many people who are well-rounded people in life, when they meet their love, they will behave relatively dull. Even if the other party has already given a lot of hints during the chat with them, in fact, in the When the other party is chatting with you, although he won't say a word about admiring you, he will seduce your feelings and feel that he is interested in you. 2. Before you have a confirmed relationship, he will care about you at all times, and will say some more explicit words from time to time when chatting with you. For example, if you are still in your thirties, If no one wants it, then I will take over. These words may seem like a joke, but they are actually testing you. 3. If your friend of the opposite sex, whether he is happy or sad, will tell you his emotions, but he will not hear a word of "I like you" from his mouth, in fact, he has already forgotten you in his heart. Become your own lover, because there is no pure friendship between men and women.

2. Ambiguous routines between men and women 1. If the person you like sends him a message, he will keep reading it and laugh involuntarily. Even if he does not admit it now, this is enough to prove that he has already understood it. Put this person in your heart. 2. Sometimes, when you send him a message, you just want to see the word "read". Even if he doesn't reply to your message right away, he will be very happy. There is no reason to like someone, and his emotions will directly affect your mood. But for a love idiot, when he has these situations, he doesn't know that he already likes the other person. What content is ambiguous when men and women talk? This problem is not very clear to many love novices. Although many people are very smart in daily life, they are relatively dull when encountering this problem. Everyone’s understanding of love Different, the reaction will be different. If you like someone, you can boldly express it when the hints are fruitless. Such results must be better than if you say some ambiguous words in life to hint the other person. There are many, because some people can understand what you mean with just a few hints, and some people need you to express it boldly. The word ambiguous actually has many meanings, and not everyone can express it during the chat. , if a person behaves ambiguously when chatting with anyone, then this kind of person is not worthy of love. Ambiguous two people can be seen at a glance 3 What content of a man and woman chat is ambiguous 1. Have exclusive affectionate terms. If men and women chat in a regular manner at first, they will not go beyond the boundaries. But I don’t know when. Exclusive affectionate terms began to be used, which showed that the status of the two people in each other's hearts began to change, and the relationship between the two people was no longer purely friends, and began to gradually become ambiguous. My Piggy Girl: The name of the game we played together was called White Pearl. One time I started calling her White Pig. Of course she objected, but I thought the nickname was pretty good and she never changed it. Later, we added each other on QQ, and I still called her Bai Zhu. She didn't protest, but accepted it happily. Later, she told me that although she was opposed to me calling her that at first, over time, she would feel that it was a term of endearment for her, and we have moved from games to reality, and it is very sweet now. Still call her White Pig. 2. Start talking about anything. When a boy chats with a girl, he no longer cares about the scale. He can say what he wants and ask what he wants. Even when he has nothing to say, he will find something to say, even when he should stop, he doesn't want to. Stop... This is actually a bit like a chat between lovers, indicating that each other has an ambiguous mentality. Shan Jin'er: There once was a boy who was ambiguous with me. Because my mother cut off my Internet connection, I called him at night. After hanging up the phone late at night, he texted me "Good night!! Sweet dreams!!" Another time, I didn't say good night to him, I only said " Goodbye," he said arrogantly: "You are not allowed to say goodbye to me, you have to say 'good night -'" Usually he also likes to send emoticons and words such as "rubbing his head and pinching his face". Although we had no barcode relationship with each other in the end, I know that we were once ambiguous with each other. 3. Talk about private topics. Private topics generally only occur between male and female friends or couples. If the relationship between a man and a woman is still ordinary friends, and private topics appear during the communication process, this is a sign of ambiguity. People who are close to each other feel that it is private. The topic is normal, so the woman who is not in a relationship talks about private topics, but is just ambiguous, and they have feelings for each other, so at this time you have to think about what to do next, whether to let nature take its course or stop. 4. Chat like a couple. Ambiguous words between men and women are probably talking a few words every day, sending emoticons belonging to boyfriend and girlfriend, and sometimes being coquettish or jealous. Even though you are nothing, you will still be careful. To test. It will give you the illusion that you have a partner, and you will clearly know that you are not boyfriend and girlfriend. What constitutes ambiguous chatting between men and women cannot be generalized, and even if you know that the other person is chatting with you ambiguously, there is no guarantee that you will be together, because it is very likely that she is only ambiguous with you, and may also be ambiguous with others at the same time, and you are just one of them. one.