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Who knows what a woman should do when a man lies to her?
My answer is: walk away quietly, don’t ask anything, don’t say anything, do your own thing, be kind to yourself, and don’t let this man who lied to you influence your emotions. Or affect your mood. Although you were curious, why would he lie to you? What is the truth of the matter? However, remember that men are children, and their curiosity will always be above yours. When they lie, they will feel guilty. Men who lie will care more about your performance than usual. So your lack of curiosity arouses their curiosity about you. Especially when they realize that you already know that he has lied to you, your silence, your calmness and your usual attitude towards him will put pressure on men with conscience, and they will reflect on it, and the result of their introspection will be their You will feel that you are not as good as a woman and will gradually stop lying to you. However, if you are furious at a man's lies, then the consequences will be counterproductive. They will think: Look, I lied and she was hysterical. If you tell the truth, wouldn't it be more terrifying? After that, they become more likely to lie, and next time they will find ways to make the lie more complete rather than not telling the lie at all.
For example, half an hour ago, you called his number for an urgent matter, but the line was always busy. You called his number intermittently and it was still busy half an hour later. Then you dialed his number. On the other phone, he lazily said that he was sleeping, and looked like he didn't want to talk to you. So, don't ask him, who was he on the phone with just now and for so long? Don't ask him why he lied? Why don't you want to talk to yourself? I think being a woman like this is losing yourself too much. We just need to say gently: I'm sorry, you go on sleeping. Then just hang up.
If he did not call you back at that time, then there are two possibilities: first, he may really have other more important things to talk about and consider; second, he may have some inner feelings. Don't care about you anymore. The first possibility is that most men cannot multitask and can only think about one thing at a time. The second possibility is that you not disturbing him is exactly what he wants, otherwise he will definitely care about your feelings and want to know if you have any urgent matters that need to be solved? But if the man still hasn’t said anything the next day, or even in the following days, neither a phone call to explain nor a text message to greet him, then I think something must have happened. Maybe you can also recall whether your relationship was normal before and after this phone call? Is he treating you more coldly than before? Or more passive? If the answer is yes, then there should be two possibilities: one is that something happened to him, and it is likely to be troublesome, either because of trouble at work or related to other women; secondly, he is stranded , then consider whether to continue dating you. In both cases, no matter which one it is, I think it will take time.
Give him quiet time to think and process without disturbing him. After three days, if the other party has not taken the initiative to contact you, then you should go to him and talk to him to understand the truth of the matter. You have the right not to be kept in the dark by others. If the other party is willing to communicate with you openly and honestly, then things will develop in your favor. If the other party is still fighting guerrilla warfare with you, then you should know that his interest in you has shifted. At this time, you need to What you do is to clearly state your attitude, give him a gorgeous turn, walk away gracefully, and then find a corner to have a good cry, and say to yourself that this is not the result you want, but you are not wrong. You just made a mistake. Then adjust your mentality and devote yourself to life with fuller enthusiasm.
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