What if the son-in-law feels unhappy and regrets after marriage?

"Are you married? Is it redundant? The key is whether there is true love in your heart. 》

Sincere love marriage, love is mutual pay, can not mind the form of marriage, marriage is two people living together, it doesn't matter who goes to whose house, get married and adopt! As long as there is * * * to support both parents. Now most of them are only children, and every marriage is a combination of six people from two families. Do you want to get married or get married? Therefore, both men and women have a good attitude and a sincere view of love, which is the truly happy marriage! Why not come to the door? The house price is so expensive now! Who has a house to live in, but lives in his wife's house, no one can bully his wife. People should have a conscience! Show yourself well, be sweet and diligent, and you won't really suffer!

Hangzhou, Zhejiang "Urban Express" Zhejiang door-to-door son-in-law needs bullish telephone consultation for international students (Figure)

There are more women than men.

The quality of Xiaoshan's door-to-door son-in-law has improved and the demand has also increased.

Xiaoshan's door-to-door son-in-law needs to be bullish

At noon on March 18, Xiao Xu took the EMU from Shanghai to Hangzhou City Station, and then transferred to the train to go to Xiaoshan Jindianzi Marriage Agency.

Flat head, white shirt, green jacket, shiny shoes. Xiao Xu, who came in a hurry, came on a blind date this time, dressed meticulously.

Last month, he registered with a matchmaking agency and wanted to be a son-in-law

"About three years ago, when I was working in Shenzhen, I heard about Xiaoshan's son-in-law, and I had an idea at that time.

Later, I went to work in Shanghai, found a matchmaking agency online, and came over. "Xu said.

This matchmaking agency, which mainly introduces on-site son-in-law, is quite famous in Xiaoshan. She wants to be a door-to-door son-in-law. The membership fee is high: 8,000 yuan, and the introduction period is two years.

"Now the door-to-door son-in-law, not only in Xiaoshan, Yuhang, Binjiang and other places, but also in Xiaoshan, which is the most common in Guali, Ningwei and Yaqian. There are people all over the country who register with us to apply for a son-in-law. In recent years, there have been calls from international students studying in Japan and the United Kingdom. " Li Jiyan, head of the matchmaking agency, said.

What do Xiaoshan people want from their son-in-law? Li Jiyan, who has been in contact for ten years, said four things: good character; Good temper; Must have a skill and strong viability; I also wish you good health. He said that these are all hard levers. In Li Jiyan's view, in the 10 year, there are two biggest changes in the door-to-door son-in-law: First, the education and quality of the door-to-door son-in-law are obviously high. In the past, there were many foreign son-in-law in junior high school and senior high school, but now they have at least a junior college education, and their master's degree and doctor's degree have also applied for a son-in-law at home. They registered twenty or thirty masters and four or five doctors here.

In the past, most of them were migrant workers, but now there are more highly skilled talents, teachers, civil servants and other applicants.

Second, the current market is "more women than men", and the demand for door-to-door son-in-law is bullish. Some Xiaoshan families have begun to relax the requirement of recruiting son-in-law at home. As long as the son-in-law has a stable job and good quality, he can live in the woman's house. There's a house anyway.

The location of the first blind date

I chose the woman's house.

Tell me more about Xiao Xu. Xiao Xu, a native of Jiangxi, was born in 1979. He/kloc-came out to work at the age of 0/6. He used to be a cook and drove a forklift. Later, he learned to repair cars with the money he earned, and he has been doing it since he finished his studies.

Now, he works in an auto repair shop in Shanghai with a monthly income of more than 4,000 yuan.

"A few years ago, I was optimistic about the prospect of repairing cars. I opened a small garage with all my savings, but I have no experience and no deep life. I lost a lot until the year before last.

"Xiaoshan is very rich and the number of cars in the country is very high. I am here to be a son-in-law, but also for my own career. " Xiao Xu did not shy away from the original intention of being a son-in-law.

"Will this make people feel that you are too purposeful as a son-in-law?" I asked.

"(Being a door-to-door son-in-law) I am targeting a region, not a family." Xiao Xu answered very firmly.

"In my hometown in Jiangxi, there are fewer trends among my brothers and sisters." Ge Tingchang said: "There are two reasons for this. First, Xiaoshan's requirements for on-site son-in-law are reduced. For example, it is not necessarily required to live in the woman's house to reduce the pressure on the man.

"Second, now the son-in-law's own literacy and working ability are also improving, which is very popular with the woman's family, so that her status at home will also improve, which is of course conducive to the stability of marriage."

Source: Urban Express