A 0-year-old boy of 165438+ spent 65438+ ten thousand yuan to buy a game account. What should parents reflect on behind the outrageous operation?

Parents should reflect on whether they have established effective communication with their children.

Parents either follow their children or love them.

1 1 year-old boy spent 654.38 million yuan to buy a game account, using his mother's mobile phone. As a parent, why do you think that mobile phones are given to children? According to the introduction of the boy's uncle, the boy usually gets good grades, and parents also allow his children to play mobile phones properly after finishing their homework. When playing mobile phone is regarded as a reward for completing homework, it is a misunderstanding in itself. Nowadays, children like to play mobile phones and games on their mobile phones. In the eyes of parents, this is just a reward mechanism for children to complete their homework, but in fact it is not a correct approach.

Parents care too much about their children.

A child bought a game account while shopping in Pinduoduo, and his own funds changed. Generally, there are some consumption records on WeChat, but it took parents more than a week to find out. Many parents think their children are too young to understand. In fact, they know everything. In fact, parents can remember their children when they enter their passwords unattended. If their children can't spend, they should lock their payment software first. The general password may be known to all children, so it is recommended to set a fingerprint password lock. In this case, no one can pay except himself. There are also some security guarantees. Of course, it is actually necessary to add a lock to the text message. Some platforms need SMS verification code. If SMS has a lock, it will have an extra layer of protection.

In fact, our parents love their children very much and feel that their children are obedient and sensible. But sometimes it is necessary to communicate with them to understand their needs and try to divert their desire for games with other things. I hope every parent can communicate effectively with their children.