What should I do if my girlfriend and ex-boyfriend still have a lot of contact?

Borrow a poem from Pushkin to comfort you-

If life deceives you, don't be sad, don't be impatient, you need peace in blue days.

Believe it, happy days will come.

Girlfriend and ex-boyfriend broke up. It doesn't matter which side starts to act first. What matters is how much you love your girlfriend. Is she worth saving? If you decide to live with her forever, then go on to watch the trilogy of saving love.

Steps 1 Open communication

Where does the conflict between hero and heroine in idol drama come from? You don't say, I don't say, you guess me, I guess you. Self-righteous affirmation of one's guess is an immature performance.

First of all, we should find a suitable time and place, naturally lead to this topic, so as to be calm and not impatient. Because you want to clear up the misunderstanding and move on to a better future, instead of accusing your girlfriend of driving her away.

Enough trust

Maybe after the last beautiful conversation, you know that your ex-boyfriend harassed your girlfriend on his own initiative, or your girlfriend repeatedly promised you: You are the only one in my heart, and I have forgotten him ... Wait, you need to be a man and accept your girlfriend with a tolerant heart.

Moreover, trust her enough, don't ask her what she is doing today, don't always monitor her ex-boyfriend's circle of friends, and don't have anything to test her girlfriend's sincerity. If you really do this, it's strange that your girlfriend is not angry with you.

The third step is too tired, let go.

It may also be the result of your conversation. Your girlfriend and her ex-boyfriend did come back to life. Brother, don't cry! It is also a kind of courage to admit that you are not as good as your ex-boyfriend (haha, it is easy to stand and talk *^o^*).

Conversely, once we break up, isn't it an ex-boyfriend? Oh?

Look, Pushkin is right. Melancholy days need peace, and happy days will come.

Not only do you have to live with your girlfriend for two or three years, but you also have to trust each other for 70 or 80 years. If you can't make a promise now, let the other party go as soon as possible.