Should I send a blessing message to my ex-girlfriend during the New Year?

Look ahead, that's what I want to say to you.

No, because it's really unnecessary. She wishes you happiness in the space, perhaps guilty or just bored. There is no need to look at her space and delete everything about her. Start over. You have listed the reasons for sending and not sending, and obviously there are more reasons for not sending. You are a man, aren't you? Be decisive.