50 trivia about love, how much do you know?

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Hugging for 20 seconds can produce oxytocin, making the other person trust and like you more.

Kissing is good for your body, promoting cardiovascular health and preventing oral diseases. A husband who has the habit of kissing his wife every morning has a life expectancy of about 5 years longer than a husband who does not have this habit.

Looking at photos of your sweetheart can relieve pain, holding your lover's hand can relieve anxiety, and hugging and painkillers promote the same biological hormones.

Expressing gratitude to the people you like will stimulate your own happiness. Couples who keep their new relationship a secret experience a surge in romantic experiences with each other.

Two strangers are likely to fall in love with each other if they are forced to sit together, talk, and keep eye contact.

Your pupils dilate when you see someone you love. When people who like each other look at each other, their heartbeats will synchronize. The feeling of a deer jumping around when you see someone you have a crush on is a stress response caused by adrenaline secretion.

When you first fall in love and stare at the other person, your brain suppresses the secretion of chemicals needed to make rational judgments.

It only takes 4 minutes to determine whether you like someone. Love and cocaine trigger similar neurological reactions.

Small fights between couples can help maintain an intimate relationship. Asking for their opinions can make them like you more. Watching romantic movies together can reduce divorce rates.

Like hunger, love is a primitive biological instinct of human beings. Love and obsessive-compulsive disorder have similar physiological manifestations.

02

When a woman straightens a man's tie, dusts his clothes, and adjusts his hat, the man will feel his "masculinity" to a great extent, so It is also easier to have a crush on her.

The average person spends two weeks kissing in their lifetime. Kissing requires the exercise of 146 groups of muscles. Love words are more beautiful when spoken into the left ear.

The longer they spend together, the more similar they will become to each other. Lovers who are too similar or too different often have difficulty lasting for a long time.

Love will quickly reduce serotonin, making it easier for you to love the other person more and more. Lovers with hypoglycemia are more likely to have disputes.

Those couples who look so sweet to you will still quarrel, have cold wars, even fight, and separate. But you don’t know it. You only see the affection they show when they are in a good mood, and mistakenly think that they are. This is their daily life. And they have long accepted the fact that there will be times in this life when they are not satisfied with anyone they are with.

Judging from the results of zoological research, muscular males are more likely to fall in love with other people and tread multiple boats because of their strong testosterone. It seems that humans are no exception to this.

The probability that you like him and he also happens to like you is only about 0.5. You like him and he also likes you. The probability that you will find that you are still compatible after being together for a while is probably less than 0.05.

The more two people have sex, the closer the relationship will be, especially for women. During sexual intercourse, the human body secretes a chemical called "oxytocin", which increases with the number of sexual intercourse. The more oxytocin, the easier it is to develop a close and dependent relationship with the other person.

Heartbreak is real. Divorce, betrayal, and breakup can all cause real pain in the heart area.

Whether you like someone, whether they are compatible, whether you are in love or not, and whether you can get married are four different things.

03

Studies show that marrying your best friend can reduce the risk of divorce by more than 70%.

On the first date, he was taciturn and aloof. Please don’t rush to give him a cross yet. Experts tell us that when they meet for the first time, men's language adaptability is not at the same level as women's, and the more they face the woman they like, the dumber their mouths become.

Choosing a good date location can greatly increase your divorce rate.

In a relationship, boys will say "I love you" faster than girls.

Wearing a wedding ring on the ring finger of the left hand originated from a romantic saying in the West in ancient times: there is a blood vessel connected to the heart, which means that the hearts are connected and the souls are connected.

Men subconsciously prefer women who say "no" to them, because women who are always submissive make them feel "no opinion" and are therefore more likely to be deceived by other guys.

The most common things that men do in order to relax themselves are lying down and watching TV, playing games in front of the computer, drinking or drinking, strenuous exercise, and masturbation.

The maximum period of infatuation is 4 months. If you exceed this time, you really like the other person. The degree to which the other party likes you is directly proportional to the speed of replying to your text messages.

Don’t love or accept someone’s love when you are vulnerable, because that may not be true love.

There is only a difference between zero cheating and countless cheatings. Don’t be narcissistic and think that your charm can be so great that you can make a prodigal son look back. The situation is easy to change, but the nature is hard to change. It is easy to forgive, but difficult to trust again.

In a relationship, the more you love the one, the easier it is to give up first.

04

Suspension bridge effect: If the first meeting is in danger, it is easier to fall in love with the other person.

Exposure effect: Under the premise of a good first impression of him/her, the more times you see the other person, the more you will like him/her.

Dark effect: The probability of finding a suitable partner is 20% higher in a dark place than under light.

Love compensation effect: People tend to like people who like them.

Romeo and Juliet effect: The more parents interfere, the more unmarried young men and women fall in love with each other.

Murphy's Law: If you are afraid of not getting the other person, you are likely to not get it. The more afraid you are of losing the other person, the more you will lose.

The 72-hour rule: If the first date is successful, 97% of men will call the other party within 72 hours.

Matthew Effect: If you are an extremely selfish person and you only think about yourself, you will naturally become better and shine, and people will be attracted to you. On the contrary, when you love someone wholeheartedly and you only have eyes for him, the marginal utility of your feelings for him will diminish. Over time, it will lead to boredom and the person will be empty.

The eight-second rule: If two people look at each other for less than one second when they first meet, there will be no spark between them. If they look at each other for less than one second, then there will be no spark between the two people. If they look at each other for less than one second, they will have a good impression within two seconds. If they look at each other for three seconds, they may feel admiration. If two people look at each other for more than eight seconds, they are in love.

Love triangle theory: intimacy, passion and commitment = perfect love.

05

The longer two people know each other, the smaller the chance of getting together. If two people are not attracted to each other when they first meet, then the longer time passes, the more difficult it will be to generate attraction, because the attraction curve between people is a parabola.

True love is not simply giving, but also includes appropriate rejection, timely praise, appropriate criticism, appropriate debate, necessary encouragement and effective supervision.

The more times you fall in love and the richer your emotional experiences, the higher your emotional threshold will be and the less excited you will be.

Something like an oath really cannot measure fidelity. It can only prove that each other was sincere at the moment when it was said.

If a girl says it’s okay, then it’s probably something. If a boy says it’s okay, then it’s usually okay.

Men are long-term and passionate, while women are dedicated and ruthless. If two people really want to be with each other all the time, the man should be more restrained and restrain his youthful nature, and the woman should be less pretentious about being mature.

Boys are most disgusted by girls nagging and complaining, and girls are most disgusted by boys being silent.

There is a protected child in everyone's heart. This child represents the completely opposite side of the leaked personality. No matter how mature a man appears, the little boy in his heart will be childish.

When a woman has many men, the little girl in her heart longs for love.

Girls become picky when they miss the person they want to marry the most, and boys become adaptable when they miss the person they want to marry the most.

In the relationship between the sexes, the one who gives selflessly and does not ask for anything in return is the final winner. Because, they will get what they want without any reward.

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