Did Dr. Suicide die of "ignorance"?

In the early years, there was a very popular account on Weibo, which was called "Asian Doctor-friendly Organization". As soon as I heard the name, I knew it was an indecent comma. I used to peek at the screen a lot, and the doctors threw their hands on it, and it was also a mudslide. Xueba, who studied for a doctor, laughed at himself as a "vulnerable group" and called for "kindness" with an open fire. Is it melodramatic?

if you drink water, you will know when you are warm and cold. If you have friends who are studying for a doctorate, try to throw away two questions. Question one, when can I graduate? Question 2: Is your hairline okay? Two questions, if your friendship is not challenged, I will lose.

If it's just academic pressure, it's really unnecessary to be so melodramatic. But what if you meet a bad tutor?

Dr. Yang Baode committed suicide. He was enslaved and mentally oppressed by his mentor before his death. After his death, he was scolded by "Big V" for being melodramatic and "taking himself too seriously". Regardless of how much responsibility the tutor should bear, the suicide is true, and the oppression of the tutor is also true. The school has stopped her enrollment qualification. Won't your conscience hurt if you jump out and blame the victim?

Serving teachers is also a kind of learning, and what you learn is "the truth of being a man". Isn't it a little too arrogant to buy a dish and clean it up? The implication is that this baby is too ignorant.

what "principles of being a man" did Zhou teach? As a doctoral student, Yang Baode's "obligations" include accompanying his tutor to the supermarket, dining with him, helping him to decorate curtains, etc., and accepting his "meticulous care and teaching": How can you take a nap? How can you learn English in broad daylight without doing experiments? Your girlfriend doesn't deserve you. You should be with that person. If the students silently ignore her chatter, I'm sorry, resentment will come like a tide. "The teacher gives you her heart, but why don't some people understand?"

The friends are all stunned. I dare say that Grandma Qiong Yao hasn't created the image of "heartless, shameless and unreasonable" for a long time, so some people can't help but provide living materials. In other words, in the face of unreasonable tutors, Yang Baode chose to be "sensible", and he almost endured it, and advised those students who encouraged him to resist not to care. But for his "sensible", the tutor's response is even worse.

The only thing he is "not sensible" is probably that he really hates his mentor's actions, he didn't want to suffer from Stockholm syndrome, and he realized the "truth of being a man" from his unreasonable demands.

It is supposed that such a wonderful tutor is not universal, but after Zhou's "deeds" were made public, doctors couldn't sit still. Flipping through Zhihu and Weibo, the doctors denounced the tutor's posts. The content of tucao includes but is not limited to giving teachers free private work, "labor shares" companies run by teachers, running errands for teachers to get express delivery invoices, and some "easy to use" students who have been delayed from graduation by teachers because of "easy to use". The students are so excited that they just need to launch the "Metoo" campaign with another theme. After reading it, I have gained a sympathetic understanding of the existence of the organization for treating doctors well.

There are not many morbid tutors, but the morbid teacher-student relationship is far from a case. Students are deeply disturbed by it, but dare to speak out, forced to become doctors after a long illness, and contribute a lot of "coping plans." I summed it up and roughly divided it into two categories. One is self-healing, such as keeping a pet and calling "inner peace" to tide over the difficulties. The other kind is "devious", I'm afraid most people dare not try it easily. The central idea is to make teachers realize that students are "not vegetarian", such as pretending to be violent, deliberately burning test tubes and killing laboratory mice.

These tricks that make people feel distressed and even ridiculous are essentially chicken soup therapy, and no one dares to say "no" directly. They are reluctantly compromised. In essence, Liu Liu's remarks are also chicken soup, and it is the most poisonous one. Self-conscious doctors will not fall into this pit, but it is the social foundation that causes doctors' helplessness. Following the master's horse in front of the horse, which is said by Liu Liu, has a strong color of traditional teacher-student relationship. The relationship between teachers and students in the modern academic system excludes personal attachment and emphasizes equal cooperation and contract spirit. In the soul of an unscrupulous tutor, there is a domineering and selfish side of the former modern master, but those honest customs may not be inherited. It is natural for students to be served by domestic slaves, just as unscrupulous bosses think it is natural for interns to take takeout, and taking takeout is also to teach you to be a man.

In this atmosphere of being evil without knowing it, it is difficult to count right and wrong and rules. On the contrary, the tutor's right to give you hard shoes in minutes and the so-called "teacher's kindness" will make the fist of resistance fall on the cotton before it is played out. Those who suffer from it can only take chicken soup as a tonic and endure and endure in an unfair environment in a seemingly "adult" and seemingly "wise" way.

It may be difficult to tell whether Yang Baode was "forced to die" by his mentor. But this does not dispel the tragedy of the incident at all. Yang Baode regards his doctorate as the only way to change his destiny, and he can hardly find a way out. He is also born with "learning not to refuse" and learning not to compromise roundly. He can't find a balanced and self-consistent way in the morbid teacher-student relationship. What happened to him forced people to look directly at the injustice they were used to.

The evil in the ivory tower is often hidden, whether it is sexual harassment or the teacher-student relationship like master and servant. It's time to be serious, and don't "be sensible" and let everything pass with the controversial event. "If we let bygones be bygones, the future will only get worse."