My girlfriend saw the news and didn't reply. I replied to someone else. What does she mean? Ask her if she is still angry.

Usually, if we boys send messages to girls on WeChat and girls don't reply, we unconsciously enter a waiting mode, that is, we expect girls to reply, and we will wait for her reply all the time.

There is a name in psychology called the waiting effect. People will be troubled by great anxiety when they are waiting. Anxiety will make time longer. Obviously, she hasn't answered your message for a few minutes, and you will think it's been a long time. At the same time, waiting will produce tangled and puzzled emotions.

So what should I do if I don't return your message like a sister?

In fact, not returning messages does not affect her feelings for you. Do you think everyone else is free? Every day when she goes to work, she always stares at her mobile phone, brushes WeChat, and returns as soon as there is news? That would be inefficient, okay? Besides, do you still care about the person you like who keeps his mobile phone at work every day? Even if a girl can reply to every message in her spare time, it doesn't mean how good your relationship is. If you think that chatting and contacting frequently every day will lead to long-term love, then you are really wrong. Chatting is not the purpose, the purpose is that the conversation between you two can attract her.

Think about how to make yourself an interesting person, amuse her in minutes, or broaden your knowledge and read more books. When a girl sees you, she can predict what you will talk about in the future. She thinks that the subsequent chat is a complete waste of time and meaningless. Will she keep chatting?

There are six possibilities for girls not to return your messages.

1: Girls are busy and have no time to chat.

2. The cell phone is dead, so I can't continue chatting.

The girl went to bed.

4. Your chatting ability is not good, and chatting is boring.

From your conversation, I know that I don't like you and I'm not interested.

6. When you talk to death, girls are disgusted with you and don't want to talk to you.

To avoid waiting, you should also do the following:

1. Don't be harsh on each other. It's really wrong not to return your message, but your relationship has not developed to the point where she can not mind after complaining to her.

Before sending the message, arrange what to do next. If she may be busy these days, plan ahead to send a message to take a shower and wash clothes.

3. Get into the habit of ending the conversation first. Chat at night, turn off your cell phone when you should go to bed, don't wait for her reply, and don't make yourself nervous.

It seems that nothing happened. She didn't reply to your message. After a while, you can casually say, "We haven't contacted for a long time, have we? We've just been idle recently. Are you busy? " Create a positive atmosphere by yourself, and make her feel that you only contact her after work.

5. For all the above, girls still ignore you, so consider whether to give up.