What gift should I give you for the first time?

Actually, sending something is not the main thing. People want to see you. A gift? As long as it's not too stingy, such as buying some longan and honey. About fifty or sixty yuan is enough. The key is to control your mouth, uncles and aunts keep shouting, eyes are alive. Do your best to help, for example, help set the table, go to the kitchen and ask if you need any help. Under normal circumstances, the other parent won't let you do anything, but you have to ask. After eating, I need to help clean up. Then watch TV or something. Be generous and don't talk too much, or people will think you are not stable enough. You should leave about 40 minutes after dinner, or before 9 pm. Do not stay too late. When he left, he thanked his parents for their hospitality. That's about it, haha, good luck!