"Baby, my wife is back, don't talk yet." My husband's message was sent to the wrong person. What should I do?

Love is a necessary process of marriage, but the forms of the two are completely different.

Love is sweet and romantic, but it is only the interaction of aesthetic feelings between men and women, simple and beautiful.

Marriage is tolerance, responsibility, heaviness, dullness and triviality in daily life.

Most couples don't have a correct understanding of marriage before they get married. They are still immersed in the honey juice of love and have too good expectations for their married life. Therefore, when there is a difference between reality and expectation, the psychological gap will be great.

Couples can be happy in marriage if they can correctly handle the psychological gap after marriage and their marriage and family life. If they can't face it correctly and can't stand the temptation of the outside world, the bottom line of marital loyalty will be broken and they will regret it for a lifetime.

Li Sheng's marriage experience just illustrates these reasons.

0 1、

Li Sheng and his wife Wen Hui have been married for seven years. They have a son and a daughter. His wife is gentle and virtuous, keeps the whole family in good order, and does her duty to Li Sheng's parents.

After marriage, Li Sheng started a company in order to give his family a better income. After years of hard work, the company has slowly embarked on the track, and the income level at home is getting higher and higher.

Others envy Li Sheng very much, thinking that he has a successful career, a good wife, children and sound parents. They think this is the blessing of how many virtues and abilities he has accumulated in his last life.

However, Li Sheng gradually became dissatisfied with his present life.

After seven years of marriage, the sweetness in love has been washed away by life, and all the passions are gradually fading away.

Before opening her eyes every morning, Li Sheng can guess what pajamas her wife is wearing today, what breakfast she is making, what time she likes to watch the food channel, what the children are crying, and what her wife will say to her before going out to work.

Day after day, year after year, the familiar and dull life made Li Sheng feel lifeless. He suddenly missed the love time with his wife, and he suddenly longed for the long-lost heart to beat and fluctuate again.

At that time, Lu Xiao entered the life of Li Sheng.

Lu Xiao is the front desk for the new recruitment of Li Sheng company. She just graduated this year. She looks beautiful and has a beautiful figure. The fair skin sets off the delicate red lips, and the eyebrows are curved but cute.

Lu Xiao is young and energetic, gentle and charming. Her appearance seems to have opened a bright opening for Li Sheng's daily life.

They often get along with each other because of their working relationship, and gradually become ambiguous. Slowly, Lu Xiao becomes Li Sheng's underground lover.

Later, Li Sheng always went home late on the grounds of overtime, and his care and companionship for his family gradually decreased, and his communication with his wife was even worse.

Li Sheng's alienation and change puzzled his wife Wen Hui, who began to ask him questions. At the same time, she is worried about whether her husband is unhappy at work and pays more and more attention to him.

Li Sheng was afraid and ashamed of his wife's questioning and concern, but he became more and more impatient, less and less willing to communicate with his wife, and less and less time to go home.

Rumors about Li Sheng began to spread to Wen Hui, and she began to constantly question Li Sheng. Her family, which should have been warm, became quarrelsome because of these things.

Because Li Sheng has always denied it, and Wen Hui has always been dubious, and no one wants to destroy it after seven years of marriage, so although they quarreled, they still maintained the integrity of a family.

However, a wrong message changed the whole fate of the whole family.

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One day, Wen Hui got up early as usual and went out to buy food, while Li Sheng waited until Wen Hui went out to pick up his cell phone and talked to his lover Lu Xiao on the phone in the room.

After a long time, Wen Hui came back from shopping. Because there are so many things to move, she can't open the door with the key. Wen Hui stood at the door and called Li Sheng to open the door. Li Sheng heard Wen Hui crying and hung up the phone.

"What are you doing? You frighten me so loudly. " Li Sheng complained when he opened the door.

"Clear sky Wan Li, if you haven't done anything wrong, can I scare you by calling you a few words?" Wen Hui responded sarcastically.

"What are you talking about? You are always guessing and arguing there every day! " The words sound just fell and Li Sheng's cell phone rang in the room. It suddenly occurred to him that he hung up without saying hello to Lu Xiao, so he ran back to his room and hung up.

"Who is it?" Wen Hui looked at Li Sheng's expression and was very suspicious. He questioned the position of the room door.

"Customer, ask about the project, and I will reply a message." Wen Li answered loudly in the room and quickly sent a short message to Lu Xiao. He is worried that Wen Hui will see his mobile phone when he enters the door. After editing, he quickly sent it and turned off the screen of his mobile phone.

At this moment, Wen Hui's mobile phone text message rang, and Wen Hui opened the text message conveniently, and the content of the text message instantly left her mind blank.

After a while, Wen Hui put his mobile phone in front of Wenli and said coldly, "Let's get a divorce."

"What are you talking about?" Wen Li took the phone and suddenly had a sense of foreboding.

Wen Hui's mobile phone message came into view: "Baby, my wife is back, let's stop talking." The sender is Wen Li.

It turned out that Wen Li was too flustered to send a short message to Lu Xiao to Wen Hui, and this short message finally revealed the truth of Wen Li's infidelity.

Wen Li wanted to deny it as usual, but he couldn't go back to this lie, and Wen Hui changed from doubt to confirmation. He no longer believed every word Wen Li said.

Wen Hui insisted on a divorce. Wen Li cried and knelt down to keep Wen Hui, but she was unmoved. She is tired of this marriage, and she doesn't want to live with another person who cheated her.

Wen Hui has worked hard to manage this marriage and maintain this small family for seven years, but he never thought that all his efforts were in exchange for the cruel betrayal of the other half.

Isn't marital loyalty the most important word? If you lose these two words, what should you take to maintain your marriage? What is the meaning of marriage?

At Wen Hui's insistence, she and Wen Li finally divorced. They divided the property and the child was awarded to her. On the day of the divorce judgment, Wen Hui packed her bags and left home with a pair of children.

Wen Li never thought about divorce. He just wanted to find an exit in his dull marriage life, but he didn't expect to get burned in the end.

Because of this incident, Lu Xiao was also criticized by everyone. Unable to hold back the public opinion, she resigned, broke off the relationship with Wen Li, left the original city, and was with the boy who had pursued herself.

Wen Li sits alone in this once infinitely warm "home", which is about to be sold and divided. He regretted what he had done. He once had the best things for himself, but they were all destroyed by himself, and all this will never come back.

And this incident may also be his lifelong regret.

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Loyalty is the bottom line of marriage. Once it breaks down, it will bring water under the bridge.

When two people move from love to marriage, the sweetness of passion fades away and will be attributed to the daily life of daily life.

Husband and wife changed from initial love to inseparable affection.

What keeps a marriage together is no longer your sweet words, but your loyalty from beginning to end.

If you break the bottom line of marriage, it will hurt not only the relationship between two people, but also the whole family.

Couples must have a correct sense of marriage before entering marriage, and the companionship of running water is the most valuable emotion.

People should learn to cherish the present life and the people in front of them, so as to grasp happiness and not get lost because of it.