Are you happy?

? Zetou Middle School, Wendeng District, Weihai City, Shandong Province? Ju Xue Fei

? This article 1690 words, reading time is about 4 minutes.

? 20 12 CCTV reporters went to various places to interview workers from all walks of life and asked them with microphones: Are you happy? For a time, "happiness" became a hot word, which triggered people's thinking and pursuit of happiness.

? When I hold Neil, a famous caring ethicist and a professor at Stanford University in the United States? When Noddings wrote Happiness and Education, the interview scene of 10 years ago emerged. So, are the teachers and students on campus happy these years?

? When I go to school in the morning, the expressions of the children pouring into the campus are mostly callous, reminiscent of Xianglinsao in Lu Xun's works. "Like woodcuts, my eyes sometimes turn." After school in the evening, the children suddenly changed their appearance and twittered like birds flying into the blue sky. My heart is full of sadness like a flood. Poor children, they are unhappy at school, learning is bitter, and going home is sweet.

? I have been a vice principal and principal for 14 years, and one of my important functions and responsibilities is to be a recycling center for faculty's bad emotions. Dissatisfied with the school's division of labor, assessment, evaluation and professional titles, women are often full of flowers, and men are often glaring. From this time, from this incident to the past, from personal suffering to family disputes, everyone is a grand novel, full of twists and turns, difficulties and twists and turns. Some people visit alone, while others attack in groups. An important prop is the unbearable medical report. At this time, my mood is heavy and the teachers are unhappy. How can we pass happiness on to children?

? A few days ago, 2 1 Century Education published a joke: Only the Animal Husbandry Bureau didn't assign tasks to teachers. According to the article, according to the incomplete statistics of the circle of friends, the non-teaching tasks received by teachers include but are not limited to: poverty alleviation, anti-fraud, drug control, fire fighting, sanitation, anti-cult, drowning prevention, fraud prevention, bullying prevention, electric shock prevention, fire prevention, theft prevention, earthquake prevention, gambling prevention, comprehensive polls, traffic safety publicity, civilized city creation, community health inspection, various performances in the community, and community condolences to the elderly. Yes, when these things become the main business, will teaching become an amateur? So, will teachers be happy?

? Long Baoxin, the translator of Happiness and Education, said that with the prosperity of economy and society and the continuous improvement of material life, "people's happiness is declining, interpersonal intimacy is disappearing, and people's spiritual support is slightly tilted …" Nell? Noddings pointed out: "Happiness is the satisfaction of needs, especially the satisfaction of some important needs." "Important needs refer to those that are met by society, that is, the needs of identification, recognition or belonging."

? Calm down and think, does my school provide an important element of happiness for teachers and students-"important needs"?

? I actively advocate teachers and students to read and write. Reading and writing can calm people down, get rid of impetuousness, improve their ability to teach and educate people, and enhance their core literacy. It has become a fashion for parents of teachers and students to read books at multiple levels; After the teacher published the article, he held a writing sharing meeting; Students' works were published in Tonight's Evening News, and they were commended with great fanfare. The town government generously donated 1 10,000 yuan of books to the school, which will be delivered to the school in the near future. In the afternoon, the text message reminded me that my mail-order "Lifelong Growth", "Deep Thinking" and "The more I write, the more I understand" arrived, and the desire for growth and the beauty of reading beckoned to me.

? Tomorrow is Children's Day. According to the requirements of superiors, the school trade union will actively carry out one-on-one assistance activities for "campus mothers", including "six ones": sending an inspirational book; Conduct home visits; Satisfy a child's wishes; Make a home phone call; Conduct a mental health consultation activity; Organize children in trouble to participate in a love transfer activity. Left-behind children, divorced parents, disabled students and other special students account for 2 1.6% of the total, and they will enjoy the care and blessings from teachers.

? In the afternoon, when I handed the book with the words "read every day, be friends with books" and "take poetry as a book and be proud of yourself" to the junior two students, his eyes sparkled. "Thank you, teacher!" At that moment, he was happy and I was happy.

? A few days ago, Cheng Xiao, a graduate student, said happily on WeChat that the graduation thesis was successfully opened, and several professors spoke highly of it, saying that the opening report was well written. I especially like your first chapter, the creative generation. I like this word very much. I like this opening report very much. "It is not easy to get interested in theoretical input, theoretical thinking and theoretical exploration." . I think the first thing he did when he came home at noon as a teenager was to stare at the dining table and eagerly examine his oral needs. Now, others' affirmation and recognition is the source of happiness.

? Nell? Noddings said in Happiness and Education: "In essence, education should help others fully develop themselves-cultivate them into people with enviable talents, useful and satisfactory careers, self-understanding ability, sound personality, a series of appreciation abilities and enthusiasm for continuous learning. Most of the responsibilities of educators are to help students understand the puzzles and problems about happiness, learn to question them, and learn to explore promising possible fields responsibly. "

? Therefore, the purpose of education is happiness. Schools should become the holy land of happiness, and teachers are the messengers of happiness, laying the foundation for students' lifelong happiness. Are you happy? When someone asks about our teachers and students, I hope they will not hesitate to smile from the heart and say, "Happiness, of course!" " "

Tuesday, 3 1 May 2022