You can’t catch a girl, but you still love her.

1. Be confident. No matter how ugly or poor you are, you must be confident. Maybe the girl you like likes you like this. So before pursuing a girl, you must have confidence.

2. Don’t think that you can catch up with all girls if you are rich or handsome. Girls with moral character will appreciate your connotation more, so when getting along with each other, you must show your Cultivation and grace.

3. Don’t be arrogant and show off your advantages and capital everywhere. This will give people a feeling of frivolity. Don't brag either. Girls are not fools, they can see your advantages. Girls like guys who have depth.

4. Being cultivated and connotative does not mean that you should give up your personality. On the contrary, boys with personality nowadays will fascinate girls, but the expression of this personality must be well controlled, and don’t be too impatient. Anticanine.

5. Be generous. Even if you have no money, don’t be so stingy in front of the girl you like. I’m not telling you to be extravagant and show off, but don’t be too fussy about it. Of course, many girls still like rich boys, but I have never looked down on such kitsch girls.

6. When pursuing beautiful women, you will definitely pay a lot, but you may not get anything in return. But don't talk about what you did for her all day just because you paid so much. This will make them look down on you. On the surface, a girl won't be affected by your efforts, but she is still very happy on the inside. She will definitely remember what you do for her. Try to maintain a hard-working and uncomplaining style!

7. Some people say not to give random gifts to girls. I don't agree with this. I think you should give them gifts and do more things for them. Girls with a conscience will feel that they owe you, and they won't have the heart to refuse your dates, etc. Only in this way can they get the chance to get along with you. Of course, the prerequisite for giving a gift is that the girl has a good impression of you.

8. The purpose of our pursuit of girls is to make them fall in love with us, so we have to do the same thing as Leslie Cheung in "Standing in Okinawa": always hovering in front of Faye Wong, not to see Faye Wong, but to Let Faye Wong look at him. We must learn to express our strengths!

9. Learn to say sweet words. Although everyone knows that sweet words are coaxing, girls just love to hear them. Don't be afraid of being disgusting and artificial. Even though I know it's false, I still say it.

10. Women are honored by those who please themselves. So we have to praise them often. Even if they are as ugly as Zhao Benshan, we still have to say that they look like gods. They may not necessarily believe it, but they must be very happy in their hearts.

11. Learn to do romantic things. Remember, any girl likes romance, even if she is usually serious. I once lit a heart with a candle under my ex-girlfriend’s dormitory. Many people think I am shameless, but I win the hearts of beautiful women.

12. As the saying goes, men are not bad, but women are not loving. When you get to know each other well, you can make a girl happy by being mean-spirited, saying naughty words, and touching her. Don't always be such a gentleman, that will give people a feeling of indifference.

13. Never slander your love rival in front of her. We must show magnanimity and secretly slander him! Complimenting your love rival appropriately will make her appreciate you more.

14. Be careful, pay attention to her usual words, and give her a sudden surprise. For example, when I was pursuing a girl, the night before she casually said that these shoes were a bit tight. The next day I went to town in the rain to buy her a new pair of shoes. She was greatly moved.

15. If you want to be her boyfriend, you must become friends with her friends. Buy her friends. When you are not successful yet, the person who will accompany her must be her good friends. Her good friends will speak good words for you, and you will get twice the result with half the effort. This also helps to understand her character and details.

16. Be persistent. When you ask her out, she may reject you for the first time, but don't give up. You have to find ways to ask her out and take the initiative to ask her out whenever you have the chance. Make her feel good about you every time you go on a date, and make her feel happy, and there will be more dating opportunities in the future.

17. Be hot and cold, advance and retreat. You can study with her in the same study room for 4 or 5 days in a row, send her text messages and call her for 3 or 4 days in a row, but suddenly you will be cold to her for one or two days, which will appropriately reduce her appetite and make her feel distant. Not driving you.

18. In fact, the best trick, and the one everyone loves to use, is to be good friends with her first. This way you will have more opportunities to perform and have more chances of success. But what many people fail to do is to get along too well, which will make the other person have no feelings for you. So to make you her friend, rather than letting her become your friend, try to show all your advantages, but don't reveal your past and your thoughts easily. It will be more attractive to keep a sense of mystery.

19. Be motivated. Even if you don't like learning, you still have to show your ambition in front of her. And in the process of getting along, you must show your shrewdness and competence. Girls in this era will not like cowardly and ordinary men.

20. Don’t act like she won’t marry you, but make her feel that you are very important to her and make her unable to live without you. If we meet a girl who likes to hang out with boys, wouldn't we be in a big loss?

21. When we are in a relationship, we can’t figure out her preferences and personality. At this time, you have to be a little mysterious so that she doesn’t understand you. When you get to know her, no matter what she wears or what she wears, His personality immediately changed to the kind of boy she likes.

22. Have a sense of humor, but don’t be too poor, and don’t tell a joke multiple times. Humor doesn’t mean you can only tell jokes. But I don't know how to have a sense of humor, since I'm very poor anyway.

23. When you feel that there is no hope of chasing her, you can give up for a while to give the other person space to think and give yourself time to re-examine yourself. Make a new plan and appear in front of her with a new attitude. This is called retreating to advance.

24. You can deceive her, but don’t let her know that you deceived her, otherwise you will be finished. It depends on your level of lying. Of course, it’s better to be sincere!

26. In fact, any so-called method of picking up girls and the dogma of chasing girls are useless (including the above points). Just like Feng Qingyang said: The highest state is to win without any tricks but with all the tricks! So no matter who you pursue, don't use these methods rigidly. In fact, every girl has her own personality, and not all girls are the same. One of my previous girlfriends didn't like clean boys and thought I was most handsome when I had a beard and smoked, which was really funny. So instead of learning how to pick up girls, it is better to be self-taught and pursue every girl with your heart.

Additional remarks

First of all, there are usually two reasons for this situation: First, she has a boyfriend or someone she likes, and she runs away to avoid trouble and trouble between the two of them in the future. Embarrassing, then you'd better give up, because there's no way it will result! Second, even she doesn’t know if she likes you, but your behavior may scare her and make her feel at a loss, because girls are always slower than boys, not to mention that she may not like you! The more you pester her now, the more disgust she will arouse!

You need to understand the situation first, and then take action! Don't get stuck in a boring relationship and be unable to extricate yourself. In the end, you will be hurt.