The chat of blind date is perfunctory. Is there a play?

When dating, you must know one thing, that is, whether the other person has the intention to stay with you. After all, dating is not love, and no one wants to waste time and feelings with a unwilling person. When the woman is perfunctory to you after the blind date, she actually refuses you!

Women's perfunctory performance after blind date

I always play with my mobile phone when I am with you.

She doesn't like you very much. If you don't contact her actively, she can hardly remember you. I'm always playing with my mobile phone when I'm with you. I'm half-hearted about everything you do, and I'm particularly indifferent to you. Sometimes, you will quarrel because of playing mobile phones, but she doesn't want to change for you at all, but feels that she is not wrong.

Second, after the chat, I said I would go back and think about it.

If two people meet and chat, the woman says I'll go back and think about it, or discuss it before deciding. If so, then you are almost hopeless, and you have no hope at all. Girls are usually embarrassed to reject you directly, which is to save your face.

Third, absent-minded, all kinds of small moves.

I believe many boys know this. When introverted girls are dissatisfied with each other, they usually have a lot of small moves. The most common thing is to play with their mobile phones. When the phone is dead, just play with your hands, touch your clothes and often stare at unimportant things. It's better this way. Outgoing girls even take selfies as souvenirs, and even send your photos to friends. Oh, my God!

Fourth, the date after the blind date was pushed off.

After two people end their blind date, if they have a good impression, they will meet again, which is a preliminary communication. However, if you are pushed away by the other party because of busy work and recent events, in fact, people just refuse to see you again. Since there is no fate, there is no need for us to continue.

She won't listen to anything you say.

Everything you say goes in one ear and out the other, and she doesn't care at all. She won't care about your suggestions or dissatisfaction. No matter how many times you emphasize it, she only promises you verbally, and there is no change in action. In short, she is so perfunctory that she won't listen to anything you say.

Sixth, hurry to leave after talking.

After the blind date chat, if you find the other person suddenly relaxed, eager to leave, walking in the front of the crowd, or even leaving quickly without saying hello, it means that you are very unhappy and disappointed and just want to leave quietly. In this case, I didn't refuse you at that time, but I had to refuse you afterwards. It's best not to hope.

Seven, go Dutch.

Don't think about such a thing, it must be a man's duty! If the woman takes the initiative to check out or asks for AA system, it means that she has never taken a fancy to you!

Eight, don't want to talk more about yourself when dating.

When dating, there will definitely be a process of getting to know each other, so that they can know themselves better and lay the foundation for the next communication. However, if the blind date refuses your inquiry and doesn't want to reveal too much information about himself, it means that he doesn't want you to know her and have in-depth contact with you. So understand each other's behavior language, so you don't have to waste time and feelings.

Nine, when chatting with you, the reply is very slow.

When you chat on your mobile phone, she always takes a long time to reply to your message. It's not that she didn't see your news, but that she was busy chatting with others. In her mind, you are not that important, so she thinks it's no big deal to keep you waiting. Sometimes, she even forgets to reply to your message, and she doesn't know where she went when chatting.

I don't want to give you my phone number.

When dating, you will definitely say that leaving a number is convenient for contact, but if you find that the introducer asks you to leave a contact information for the other party, the girl is unwilling to give you her mobile phone number or just give you a QQ number, you should pay attention to this situation. She doesn't like you.

She just didn't have the courage to refuse you face to face, and just wanted to be an ordinary netizen (friend). As a result, we will talk about it later, and it is usually suspended.

Xi. I don't want the other party to send it.

After the blind date, out of courtesy or in order to get to know each other more, a man will send her home, or a girl is willing to let you send her home, which is a signal that she agrees to contact more. On the contrary, a man doesn't take the initiative to send her home, or a girl refuses to send her home, all of which are signals that he doesn't want to have too much contact, so it shows that people are not interested in you.