My best friend’s boyfriend keeps sending me ambiguous messages, what should I do?

First of all, you must find out whether the message you send is ambiguous. Secondly, the message must be kept well.

If so, you must tell your bestie about it. However, you must use a certain strategy when telling the truth, otherwise your best friend will think you are sowing discord.

Be sure to seize key evidence. If you tell your best friend something innocuous, if she is in love, she will not listen to your words and will doubt your motives.

Furthermore, you must have an objective and correct analysis of this boy. If someone else says something ambiguous in a joking way, if you say it in a joking way, it will inevitably be considered frivolous. Remain polite and indifferent. After a few times, no matter how stupid he is, he should retreat. If you send a very disgusting and explicit message, you can rebuke him righteously. There is nothing wrong with that.

It’s easy to not know how to respond. Imagine that if your boyfriend sends an ambiguous text message to your best friend, just how do you want her to respond to him. The reply must be cruel enough, and don't remind her kindly with a good attitude towards your best friend. She will find out by herself sooner or later. You don't need to point out that women are blind and petty in love. If you don't handle a little bit well, you won't be friends anymore.

Speak your thoughts to your friend’s boyfriend very seriously. Make your point and ask him to cherish your best friend. If not, you have to pay close attention to your good friend's feelings for him. If you don't love him too deeply, you can let him go. The real way to avoid suspicion is to delete the friend's boyfriend after the friend's affairs have been dealt with. It's not too late to delete it now, so you need to make it clear to your friend.

I am most afraid of encountering this kind of thing. If you tell your friend, maybe your friend will have a grudge against you from now on. After all, if you are not her friend, think about it. If her boyfriend sends ambiguous messages to other women, she will hate the woman her boyfriend has a crush on, so I think it’s better not to tell her yet. But you have to express your rejection to that man. You can say a few strong words to make him respect him in the future, and warn him not to hurt your friends. If he can send you ambiguous messages, it already shows that he wants to be a scumbag. He has been unfaithful to your friend. Such a man may not be your friend for a long time. He will flirt with you everywhere and develop a backup plan. But if you tell your friend, he may just coax him and you will be fine. You are not a human being, so just rest assured for now, or wait until they break up later and then mention it later.