Classical Chinese advised my father to drink less.

1. I will tell you the truth. My father died three years ago, and got sick because of drinking ... When I was a child, I often thought that when I grew up and had a job, I must buy good wine on TV for my father to drink, but he never listened to us and didn't eat or drink much every day. Finally, one day when I was in class, the head teacher informed me that my father was ill, and my heart was shocked. ...

Now, I miss him very much He left before I could repay him. I think it's really hard. Why do you drink so much wine? I once vowed not to drink, because drinking would make me miss my father more. I didn't tell my friends why, so my friends despised me. It's not that I can't drink, but that I don't want to drink. It's a matter of will, and they don't know it.

I hope you can convince your father.

2. A letter advising Dad to drink less. Dear Dad:

That night, you came back so late, looking at my mother's melancholy eyes, I thought to myself: What a good father you are at ordinary times, how much you care about me and love me. Because of drinking, the image of your good father has gradually turned into a bad father in my heart.

Mom loves you and advises you to drink less at ordinary times, but you ignore it. Don't you forget that time you came home drunk outside, obviously drunk, fell down at the beginning, said you weren't drunk, and forced yourself to take a shower. Mom was angry and left you alone. A person feels sorry for you in the bedroom, but you went in for about 20 minutes, and your mother was heartbroken. She found that you had been in it for so long, and there was no movement at all, so she pushed the door and went in to see you, only to find you sitting in a mess.

You threw up all over the floor after drinking, and my heart ached and I was at a loss. Finally, my mother reminded me to get hot water. First, she washed the vomit on the floor for you, and then she licked your body. I poured you a cup of warm water as my mother said, and asked you to drink a little after gargling to make you feel better. Dad, if you can get rid of this shortcoming of drinking, then you are my greatest, kindest and cutest father, and my mother and I will love you forever. Daughter, please get rid of the bad habit of drinking! Is it okay?

How to persuade dad to drink less and go home early? He thinks he is in good health. Take him to a general health index examination, saying that as long as the doctor proves that he is healthy, you will not persuade him to give up drinking in the future (challenge method), and let the doctor tell him all the consequences of drinking too much (this is the responsibility of the doctor, don't worry about whether the doctor will say it).

The circle he knows is difficult, so he tries to get the mobile phone numbers of these people from your father's mobile phone. Take care of the past one by one. Of course, you should take care of your father's face. Just say that his liver is not good recently, and his family are very worried. Please take care of him and drink less. Thank you. The more polite the better.

If anyone hits someone, please call 1 10, son. Learn to protect yourself and your family.

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If the above methods still can't be changed, then think of other methods. You should never leave your family. As long as you don't give up, there will always be hope. Divorce is the performance of escape and the worst policy. Don't approve unless you have to.

How to persuade dad to drink less and talk to him, tell you that you love him, talk about the harm of drinking, and give several examples of physical illness caused by drinking around. After a long time, he will understand.

Dad had better find a chance to go to the hospital for examination, communicate with the doctor in advance, and tell a white lie, which is good for his health.

I must say that it is very difficult to change your father, and it takes a lot of effort to achieve it.

It is useless to use brute force and lessons.

One way is to influence him with emotion, but I can't guarantee success. Just try it.

1。 You must let him feel the love of you, your mother and your family. Don't scold him or persuade him. You should arrange him well when he is drunk, don't let him catch cold, help him clean up, have a good rest, and don't repeat what you have said countless times. He won't listen. He is rebellious now, not unreasonable, but unwilling to listen. It belongs to poor self-control ability and does not listen to advice.

2。 Write a letter or a card to express your love for him, and then give it to him. Don't mention that you want him to give up drinking. Just say how much you love him, how good he was to you before, and remember those wonderful and happy times. Remember, just talk well, don't mention the pain and sadness now.

The first two steps are necessary, because we are all willing to listen to people who love us, but we will not listen to people who hate us and don't like us. Your father regards you as an enemy now. How can he listen to you?

So first of all, let him feel that you still love him and recall the happy and wonderful times before. Personally, I think your father still loves you, your mother and grandparents, but he can't help himself.

The purpose of doing the above two steps is to make him have a goal and an idea, and feel that he was happier when he was with you than when he is addicted to the wine field now, so that he will have the motivation and courage to change the status quo.

I hope this will help. Also, when these methods begin to improve the tension between you, you should persuade him slowly and give him encouragement instead of staring at him like a policeman catching a thief. Sometimes you should understand him more. After all, decades of habits are not so easy to change, and he is certainly not so conscious, so it takes a long time. At this time, if you are disappointed in him, it will be a great blow to him if you talk too much. Be sure to understand him and support him.