A letter to my nephew

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A letter to my nephew Fan Wenyi

Nephew:

Hello!

it's been more than a week since school started, but after thinking about it after work, I decided to write this letter to you!

Before you were born, your uncle went out to study, and then worked. In your childhood memories, your uncle actually didn't spend much time in the ocean depression or only stayed for a short time at a time (mainly during the holiday period), and you didn't know much about your uncle when you were growing up. Moreover, you rarely come to me after you graduate from college and even after you work. We are not as close as an uncle and nephew in the usual sense. But apart from your parents, I am the closest person to you by blood. We are all family members. Twenty years' work and life experience tells me that as newlyweds, a couple can be invited to visit my uncle's house for the first time, and it is human nature to reciprocate! Although you came and went in a hurry, uncle was very happy. You have grown up and will gradually face the society and everything in your work and life independently. I will learn a lot and experience a lot in my later life journey.

before grandma passed away, I had little contact with your father economically, and we were independent in our work and life. Every time I go back to my hometown, I always have two drinks with your father to catch up. It should be said that I get along well. However, since grandma left, the relationship has become worse and worse, and there are more and more contradictions. I think this must be something that everyone does not want to see. The main reason is money. From the afternoon of grandma's death to the evening, the elder sister-in-law, sister-in-law, your father and uncle discussed the most questions. The first is what kind of specifications should be used to handle the funeral. The second is because grandpa can't make decisions objectively and involves the property and economic problems of his hometown. Grandma passed away, because your father came back late, and the account of the funeral was taken care of by my uncle at that time. Everyone agreed on the funeral proceedings soon, because the old man's money was more or less in the hands of his elder sister-in-law, your father and uncle. At that time, everyone's handling opinion was that everyone would quote a specific amount with the old man's money, and then discuss the distribution. The elder sister-in-law reported it first, and the second aunt also reported it. When he arrived at your father, he considered it for a long time and then said to remember. Your father didn't quote him the amount until late that day. This made it impossible to discuss things and broke up in discord for the first time. After that, your father repeatedly asked him to take care of the account. I said I didn't want to take care of it. As long as the two sisters agreed, I immediately handed it over in front of everyone. Later, your father called me and asked me to divide the check. I didn't agree. I said grandpa was still here and I couldn't divide it. Later, when I came to Dafeng, I told my uncle and aunt about it. My uncle and aunt also expressed their opinions. They said? Grandma has four children, and every family can live with them. Grandma saved so much money before her death, so he doesn't trust you, so it's better to share it. How to divide it? It doesn't make sense not to give a penny to two sisters, but it's impossible to divide it equally. Then they put forward a distribution opinion:? Two sisters give ten thousand dollars each, and the remaining two brothers share it equally? . Tell me clearly, brothers, let's discuss things, and forget it if your father doesn't want to pay the bill. Don't hurt his feelings, saying that your father has no schooling, and his work and life are not decided by me. Tell me to stand up and let bygones be bygones. Don't take it to heart. Then one day, when I was still at school, your father rushed to school. First, he said that he should be given the account. I said that I had it, but now I have to give it to you. This matter cannot be decided by you alone. If the two sisters agree, I have no opinion. Later, your father asked for half of the old man's cheque, but I didn't agree. I said that we should share this inheritance, not just the two brothers and sisters. From the traditional folk custom, we can not share it with the two sisters, but from the present society, men and women are the same. If legally speaking, the four people should basically share it equally. I said that I had asked my uncle and aunt about this matter, and we divided these checks according to their opinions. Then your father agreed to split up, called his two aunts in the evening and came to my house the next day to discuss the matter. The next day, after many discussions in my family, your father made a decision to divide the check. At that time, I proposed to keep a small part, because my grandfather was still here, and it was convenient if I needed money urgently. Everyone agreed, and I was still in charge of the account. In the process of burning seven, I also showed the account to everyone many times, mainly to your father, of course. I take care of accounts, but I don't use money directly. Who uses money in my account and keeps accounts? In this way, grandma's funeral was finally properly handled.

By the end of 21, I remember that you were at home at that time, and your father and I settled all the accounts. Your father proposed to divide the rest of the checks, so I thought about it, so I would divide it up to avoid hurting my feelings. In this way, I still have my two-month salary for my aunt to take care of my grandfather (because there was a contradiction, your father knew it), and my grandmother's pension book was at your father's place (at that time) About taking care of grandpa in the future, your father also raised it at that time? He will take care of everything, and he will take care of everything in the future. I didn't promise. I said these are all things between the two brothers. How can I say that it's up to you alone? If I really don't have time, I can ask you or someone else to take care of it. After discussing with your father, it is decided that the two brothers will be alone for half a year, and the salary of Grandpa will go to whichever family, starting from February 211 (the Spring Festival is February 3). Later, your father said that he had done a lot during the funeral and asked me to be a brother to admit his hard work. I didn't know what to do at that time. I said, just do what you say, and your father kept silent. The next morning, I went to Xiaowuzi store to ask, and Xiaowuzi said? It's normal for the boss to do more work. Since the boss has opened his mouth, let's buy something. Why don't brothers have to calculate their wages? . I bought something about 2 yuan to your house, and your father said, I told your nephew, I just want your uncle's one yuan? I was really angry at that time, which was an insult to my personality. If I had dropped a dollar and taken things away, he would have looked ugly, but I didn't argue with your father and didn't do it. Can't I go? I will go back to Dafeng.

At the end of July, 211, because I was relatively busy with my teaching in senior three, I thought I would ask your father to continue to take care of grandpa, and then I sent a short message to your father to explain the matter.

In a blink of an eye, on November 29th, I suddenly received a phone call from your father saying that Grandpa was in the People's Hospital for emergency treatment. I immediately rushed to the hospital, and later my elder sister-in-law also visited the hospital. The hospital diagnosed cerebellar hemorrhage, which was dangerous and needed hospitalization. Later, a friend of mine was the vice president of the hospital (Dean Bai), who specifically consulted him about the disease. Dean Bai also said that it was really dangerous and needed to be hospitalized. After the cerebrovascular condition was stable, we would observe it again. Normally, this situation required hospitalization for 1 to 2 months or even longer. However, on the morning of December 5th, I received a phone call from your father, saying that I was going to leave the hospital. I said I couldn't leave the hospital, and cerebellar hemorrhage was dangerous and needed hospitalization. As a result, I was discharged. You go back after being hospitalized for five days for such a serious illness. You don't understand it, but you should always listen to the doctor's advice. This will completely push grandpa to death! I really can't understand what your father thinks! Is there anything we can't discuss? Then you came back a few days later, and you know it very well. Grandpa's condition is getting worse day by day. He can still eat porridge when he is hospitalized in the People's Hospital, but he can't eat it gradually when he gets back, because grandpa's nervous system can't control his eating and drinking without effective treatment. At this time, if he is in the People's Hospital, he will use intubation to send food directly to his stomach, and grandpa can still live. On December 12th, finally, the old man couldn't bear it any longer, and the forced feeding was stuck in the trachea. When he went to the people's hospital for rescue, the nurse looked at the checklist and said that the indicators in the blood were abnormally low, and the patient was seriously malnourished. What is sucked out of the trachea with a straw is black sesame paste! After a night of rescue, I still can't save grandpa's tenacious life! On the morning of 13th, when Grandpa stopped breathing, his heart was still beating strongly! Grandpa died because of your father's ignorance, ruthlessness and fear of spending money.

on the 13th, during the day, your father and I went to Mr. Yang Yuchun's place to approve books. It was normal to burn for seven days on July 7th, 49, but your father didn't agree, saying that we would burn for seven days, and the week was over. Yang Yuchun said that as long as the family always burns for seven days in 49 days, he asked if your father was at home. He asked for a long time that your father was at home, so why not burn for seventy-seven and forty-nine days? Finally, your father said that he wanted to get his nephew's marriage done in the cold, which surprised me. The old man just died this morning, so he thought about doing a wedding. According to the habits of his hometown, he could do it within six or seven days. But finally, considering that it takes a lot of energy to do a wedding, I At the end of the day, at night, my elder sister-in-law, my sister-in-law, your father and I discussed the matter together. You were there at that time, and I suggested that the account should be set up quickly. No wedding, funeral, red and white events have no accounts, but what did your father say? What do you want, no account, no business of yours? It's hard to believe that this is from your father. It's no small matter to arrange grandpa's funeral. Do whatever you say. But I consider not to let the neighbors see our brothers' jokes (grandma's death has made our family look down in front of the neighbors! ), I was holding back at that time. Otherwise, the funeral will be difficult. At least, please ask your uncle and grandfather to uphold justice. The so-called brothers get even with each other, how can they do things like this as brothers? Since ancient times, there has been no such thing as your father. Then I brought up the second funeral procession, and your father was also against it, saying no funeral procession, which was never happened in our village or on our farm, because the people in the funeral procession village would come to worship God, and the main family would need a table of 5 yuan money. To put it bluntly, your father was still afraid of spending money, but it didn't cost your father a penny, grandpa's money, wages and funeral expenses, and so on. Grandpa has worked all his life for decades, and retired as a bank director. He is also a prominent person in our small street in the heart of the ocean. He doesn't deserve the respect of the villagers, and he doesn't deserve to worship God? In the evening, you were there later, and your father agreed to report the funeral in Henan, but not in Hebei. It's another modest joke, how do the villagers let people see your family? The discussion didn't end. It was almost 11 o'clock the next day when your father agreed to offer funeral services in Henan and Hebei under the persuasion of Rurong and your grandfather.

You know a lot of things here or you are directly involved, so I won't say much. By the end of the seventh day, your father still didn't take out an account. When will he take it out for everyone to see? It is unknown.

The above is trivial, but it's all real. Although what happened in my last life has little to do with you, I just want my nephew to look at it objectively, and I sincerely hope that my nephew will be an upright person in the future and handle all kinds of relationships correctly. Here, I wish you newlyweds happiness and early birth again!

Uncle

A letter to my nephew on February 14th, 212

Fan Wener

Child:

Today is the fourth day after you left! It's raining lightly outside. It's the first autumn rain since autumn, and it's dripping wet!

Today is the weekend. Because I am on duty this week, I came to school in the rain. My space alone is rare for freedom and quiet, and at the same time it adds a bit of loneliness. I have been busy for two weeks since the beginning of school, so my mood has never calmed down. Today, I finally looked up from my busyness and suddenly felt a little sad, just like the weather at this time of the season!

The autumn rain outside kept banging on the leaves outside the window, and my heart was in a mess. I simply picked up my mobile phone and called my mother (your grandmother) in the city. A voice familiar to the old man came from the opposite side. Your grandmother said that you had arrived at school safely, and the old man's words of relief came from the phone. The old man was happy that you had made a promise. Back in those days, our brother and sister didn't realize their college dreams. The old man worked hard all his life, and the dream finally came true by you. However, when the old man said that you were near to leave for a few days, a childlike attachment, my tears could not help but fill my eyes. I vaguely feel that the old man's heart is sour, and tears must be swirling in his eyes. I didn't dare to say more, so I hung up the phone, and a worry that had been hidden for many years hurt my heart again!

the past is long! Son, you grew up under your grandmother, and you regard your grandmother as your mother. All your spiritual dependence is pinned on your grandmother. Because of the family changes fifteen years ago, your happy life has become dark. For more than ten years, your father has been working outside, and he will go home for a few days a year during the Spring Festival. Thanks to your elder sister-in-law who takes care of your grandparents and grandchildren in the county, I can only do my meager best to give you warm care.

This is my second letter to you. Three years ago, you were admitted to a key high school with a score of 541. I wrote a letter full of affection for you with my heart and tears. I look forward to your college career after three years. Today, I finally got my wish and realized my family's college dream!

Looking back on the past ten years, my child, I can't bear to look back! I still remember your lovely and lively appearance, sweet words and lovely face when you were a child. How happy you were then. You are the first child in our family, so everyone regards you as the apple of their eye. Your grandfather is a gentle, kind and kind person who often carries you out to play, which is incomparable to the old man's family happiness. But the good times didn't last long. Grandpa suddenly fell ill and died in two months.

Our whole family was in a state of panic and grief. Later, a series of disasters followed, and you became a divorced child. In this way, you lived with your grandmother. Later, when there was no school in my hometown, my grandmother took you to the county to study. During this period, you experienced a lot of things at a young age and saw a lot of darkness in the world. I don't want to say too much on paper, because it is a kind of heartache and a kind of mental torture!

From primary school to middle school, you suffered from the pain of your heart, and gradually changed from a lively child to a silent man. Your father was not with you, and I was in the country, so I neglected to care for your heart. I just told you a few words on the phone to study hard, but I didn't talk to you too much about spiritual communication.

In your primary school, the whole family was busy with life, and no one cared too much about a child's psychological feelings. At that time, you handed in a lot of blank papers. It was not until one day that your elder sister-in-law went to school to pick you up that the teacher told you about your recent performance, and your aunt was scolded by the teacher, saying why she didn't care about her children's study? After returning home, my elder sister-in-law slapped you angrily. This slap has too many connotations. Only your aunt knows, and you won't understand the feelings of adults at this moment! Later, because grandma can't read, you often make you cry with your homework, holding grandma's hand and going to the classmate's house next door to ask her mother.

At that time, our whole family was living in chaos, and I had just settled down. Your elder sister-in-law had a sick child, and your father had to go out to work to support his family, so everything at that time could only be solved.