High EQ confession routine

The high emotional intelligence confession routine first gives the girl you like a journey to the West, and then knocks her three times. You can also check your IQ by the way. This stalk also originated from The Journey to the West, one of our four classical novels. As we all know, before the Monkey King found the Tang Priest, he went to Lingtai Fangcun Mountain in Niuhezhou to study Buddhism. Bodhi was also angry when he accepted the Monkey King as an apprentice. In order to punish the Monkey King, the Bodhi patriarch knocked on his head three times and went out the back door with his hand behind his back. The Monkey King also got the message, because this knock three times is to come in from behind to find the master in the dead of night, and then the Bodhi ancestor taught the Monkey King seventy-two somersaults. This stalk was also derived today, and someone made such a joke. For example, you knock on a girl's head three times and ask her to come to you at midnight. Is it an interesting confession routine? I have something to talk to you about. About what? Fall in love. Will you be my girlfriend? If not, I'll find another way. Do you like dogs (or cats or sheep)? I like it. Wang (meow, meow, meow). I have an ancestor's chromosome that I want to give you. Would you like to be buried in my ancestral grave after death? It is said that my daughter was my father's lover in his last life. Would you like me to be your father in my next life? Or be my daughter in my next life? High EQ confession routine 3 Now the confession routine is bullshit! What age are you still confessing? What other high emotional intelligence confession routines are there? I said, don't do those useless things, just do them when we meet. Ask the girl you like to go out to the movies (eat, go shopping ...). I am willing to stay with you until late at night, holding hands. Kiss a girl if you want to hold hands. Doesn't confession give people a chance to refuse? Don't give girls the chance to refuse to express their feelings, be strong! ) high emotional intelligence confession routine 4-do you have a boyfriend? -No.-So you do now. This routine comes from the movie Norbit. The fat woman Rasp Tia confessed to Norbit: Rasp Tia, do you have a girlfriend? Norbit No, Lasputia Well, you have done it now. You didn't give the girl a chance to react with such a simple and direct confession routine, and then she became your girlfriend inexplicably. But to master this confession routine, you need to have a certain momentum and personality charm. Pointing to the English word "hubband" in the book, ask her what it means-Husband-how can I remember what it means-it's obviously husband-wife-husband-wife, practice the confession routine in the name of academic discussion, make the girl you like argue with you seriously with an unexpected opening, and then suddenly realize your confession routine. High Emotional Intelligence Confession Routine 21. Confession Syllogism-Distinguishing Categories In the confession syllogism, Teacher Xiao Yu divides confessions into three types according to their functions: relational confession, emotional confession and rational confession. Each kind of confession has a different scope of application, among which relational confession and emotional confession are more common, but the most important and unknown confession is the third kind-rational confession. 1, relationship confession: indicate the ultimate goal of your relationship with her (being boyfriend and girlfriend or getting married). Features: Is the woman expecting or worrying, for fear that you are not serious. I hope your attitude is clear. 2. Emotional confession: Express your love for her. Features: Girls have a certain sense of security and are willing to listen to sweet words. 3. Rational confession: express your objective views on this relationship, positive and negative. For example, I like you, but I also know that we are not suitable. These questions are 1, 2, 3, 4 ... I'm not sure what the future will be like. I just want you to know how I feel now. Features: Girls are entangled in contradictions, and you are attracted to her but also have shortcomings. In rational confession, some people may worry that if you say "I'm not sure what will happen in the future" to a girl, will it mean that you are shirking your responsibility and have no confidence in the future? In relationships that require rational confession, women are generally not in a weak position. They have their own judgments about each other and their relationship, and they also know the scope of your ability. So for her, it is more meaningful to see you awake to the present situation than to see your confidence in the future, and it can bring girls a sense of security. By the way, the so-called woman's sense of security is not only to help her solve problems, but also to fully understand her feelings and needs. It would be better if you really have the ability to solve problems, but the reality is often unsatisfactory, so at this time, a calm and objective man can bring more security to girls than a blindly optimistic man. Of course, a perfect rational confession is not as simple as the example given by Teacher Xiao Yu above. If you really want to master it in an all-round way, you still need to pay attention to it in your daily life: 1, and take proper care to show the gentleman's side; 2. Appropriate weakness stimulates a girl's motherhood, and then a desire to protect you; 3. Initiative is very important; 2, confession syllogism-technical explanation 1, only express feelings about the past, not about the future. After all, the future is far away, and you don't even know what will happen tomorrow. How can you have confidence to be together forever? So when you confess, just express "what you gave me" or "what we experienced together", tell her these feelings and let the girl know why you like her. Instead of asking a girl to "pay again" or "experience again" in the future, it will only increase her pressure. 2. Replace subjective judgment with objective statement, and describe "your attachment to her" as "your attachment to the experience you have". For girls, your love often makes them feel a little overwhelmed and inexplicable. So, you just need to give her a reason to "like her". Relatively speaking, the experience between you is a good proof, which is much more objective and independent than your simple love, and it is easier to attract her favor. 3. Strive for short-term relationship first, and then strive for long-term relationship. Wrong: "What will I do forever?" Correct: "What shall I do now?" Nowadays, girls have become very smart. It's not that you write a few "bad checks" and she is willing to go with you, but that you will feel unrealistic after falling in love. Therefore, when you confess, promise the present first, not the future. Third, the confession syllogism-verbal support Don't underestimate the short sentences of confession. Sometimes, if you say it well and match the surrounding atmosphere, you can directly make the other person nod. And girls are easily influenced by the surrounding atmosphere. When confessing, if there is a romantic and sincere love story, and then substitute it into the atmosphere between two people, it is easy to turn on her emotional switch. When her reason is controlled by perceptual thinking, she will accept your confession more easily. I asked a lot of girls, and I said, what do you think of being confessed by boys? Many people's answers are: I don't remember. Anyway, whatever he said at that time, I felt very moved. In the eyes of onlookers, although sometimes what you say has no credibility at all, the girls you profess are different. They are in a state of excitement at this time. If you say more romantic and sincere words, it will definitely melt her heart. Open the initial word of the confession: "I don't know why I haven't spent enough time with you, and I don't feel this way with others." Express the emotional reaction that girls bring you: "At first, I thought you might just be a beautiful girl, but in fact you don't have any ideas of your own, but when I came into contact with you, I found that you are actually a girl with your own ideas." Speak your psychological needs directly: "I want to tell you that from now on, you are not alone, you will always accompany me." I want to go hiking with you in spring, pick lotus with you in summer, enjoy maple with you in autumn and go skiing with you in winter. I want to take you to enjoy the scenery of the four seasons. "High EQ confession routine 3 dares to confess to the person you like. Don't hesitate, I don't know what I'm talking about. Write your own words on paper, sometimes sneak a peek, practice in private for so long, and show them in front of the person you like. If you are shy, use these routines to express your feelings. Three high emotional intelligence confession routines, it seems that you are not careful when you speak, just for an instant. First, "Do you like water? "We know that the most indispensable thing in life is water. Without water, people can live for three days. Water is an indispensable part of our body. Men also use this as women. It's okay for people to like the word water, but men insist that the human body has 72% water, and you like me. Second, "shall we exchange gifts?" "Gifts are what everyone wants, and exchanging gifts is also a way for friends to maintain their feelings. When exchanging gifts with women, of course, women promise to exchange them. However, when girls know that the gift exchanged is you, girls with senior three know that they have been accused, and girls are very confused. Third, "Why don't you have a boyfriend? "In fact, the purpose of men asking this question is obvious. Knowing that you are single is not really curious about why you don't have a boyfriend, but you want to use the vernacular love line. Women didn't find it at first, but men's words let women know their intentions and use this line to express their love.