Why don't boys often return your text messages?

I think when two people are in love, it is a kind of respect and an attitude to return each other's information in seconds. If the other party can't reply to your message in seconds, there must be a reasonable reason and you can forgive it. If I say that I don't reply to your message for no reason, or I am perfunctory, I think maybe the other person thinks that you are not important to him. What is important is that in the world of love, there are always some people who like to ask themselves in their hearts, is the person I love? With doubt, there will be suspicion and contrast. So, we compared the speed of replying to information with the details of getting along.

1, see if the other party replies to the received information as quickly as they do, and whether they reply regularly or rarely. If the other party's reply is slow, or the reply is simple and indifferent, or even a lot of information is not answered, then the hope of "holding your hand and growing old with your son" is very slim. Everyone knows that two people who love each other always have endless words.

2. Even on WeChat chat, there will be news coming and going, one after another, without interruption and no excuse to leave. Even if you go to the toilet, you will never leave your hand, and you will never stop talking, not for anything else, but for love. As for people who don't love you, or people who don't love you anymore, they won't chat with you, even if they see the WeChat you sent them, they won't read it. Because the psychology of not loving has a sense of resistance to your information.

3, so, he won't reply to you, at least not immediately. Even if he does, it will be a long time before he simply perfunctory with a "uh-huh or oh" or emoticon. It's not that he doesn't want to talk, but that he doesn't want to talk to you. Because you are no longer important to him, he doesn't need to spend his energy and time on you. In other words, no matter how enthusiastic you are about a person, once the other person ignores your love, it means that he doesn't care about you so much. No matter how many messages you send to a person, once your message is not answered, it means that you are no longer important in the other party. No matter how much you love someone, once that person smiles at you, it means that your love is superfluous to him. No matter how much you can't bear to part with someone, when you meet someone who doesn't love you, you should also learn to let go, stop retaining, save yourself some face and don't give each other trouble. That's the wisest choice, and that's your elegant self. People who often don't return your messages just don't love you enough. People who don't love you, don't give yourself some lame excuses and unrealistic reasons to deceive yourself. People should face the reality and put it down when it is time to put it down. Letting go is also love, and blessing is also love, but in different ways.