How to refuse when being pursued by someone you don’t like?

In interpersonal communication, learning to say no is a required course, especially in relationships between men and women. We cannot control others to have a good impression of us, and we cannot force ourselves to confess to someone we don’t like. Accept that although rejection is inevitably hurtful, polite rejection may not make the relationship stalemate. So how should you refuse when someone you don't like confesses your love?

1. Be firm and refuse bluntly

As the saying goes: "If you keep breaking off friendship, you will be confused by it." When the other person expresses his love for you, if you don't like the other person , you must give the other party a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other party a chance. You have to refuse directly, and never contact him again after rejection, and never ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity to the other party and refuse efficiently

Many people do not dare to refuse other people’s confessions because they are always afraid of hurting their own self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a long-time friend caught them off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of friend's confession, you have to know how to be tactful. Just give him some hints and tell him the type you like and the future you imagine yourself to have. Tell him to back off. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity and minimizes the damage.

3. Don’t refuse in person

If the other person confesses to you in person, you are afraid that refusing in person will hurt the other person, and you don’t know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other person slowly digest the information.

4. Send good person cards

Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, leave him enough face, let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, So you don't want to deceive him, it doesn't want to cause him any harm. Many people now know the meaning of good cards. Once you deal a good card, he will naturally know that you politely rejected him.