My girlfriend hates that I can't afford her. After breaking up, she married the rich second generation. What should I do now?

My girlfriend and I met in junior high school. In high school, we were only together. At that time, we had a good relationship and our girlfriends got good grades. She especially helps me with my study. In the eyes of teachers and classmates, our feelings are positive and can promote each other, so many students envy us. Later, because my girlfriend made a mistake in the college entrance examination, I didn't do so well, but I chose the same city as her because I didn't want to be too far away from her. In the same city, it is easy to meet, and feelings will be better maintained.

Because I am from the countryside, my family conditions are not very good, my parents provide for me to go to college, and my family life is also average. So when I was studying in college, I needed to work part-time during the holidays to earn some living expenses for myself. My girlfriend and I meet once a week, and it takes about 20 minutes to drive to my girlfriend's school. Every week, I will take her to different places to play, because I want to leave her with different memories. Although we always go on a poor trip, we still have to spend some money. I never let my girlfriend pay. I'd rather work part-time for two more days than let my girlfriend pay for me.

Two years before college, we had a good relationship and my girlfriend cared about me. We always talk about where to work in the future, how many places to travel, and how to get married and have several children. Every time we talk about these things, I feel happy. I didn't expect that I, a poor boy, could have a girlfriend who never left me. I don't know if it's a blessing in my life.

But then, my girlfriend gradually changed. Although the conditions at home are not very good, she always likes to buy some expensive shoes and clothes, learns to wear heavy makeup, and becomes lazy in life. She doesn't like my frequent part-time job either, saying that I don't have time to accompany her. I sometimes say that she has changed. She always said that all her friends are like this, that girls should dress up well and watch her dress up beautifully. Actually, I did the same. But my girlfriend always asked me to buy her some cosmetics, saying that as a boyfriend, I should have a girlfriend. I really love her, so I work hard to make money. Sometimes I go to the Internet cafe at night and attend classes during the day, just to buy her a lipstick.

Later, in my junior year, because my girlfriend was a normal major, I went to my hometown county high school as an intern, which was our alma mater. I was going to take a postgraduate exam, thinking that while she was internship, I also took the time to study. To my surprise, my girlfriend broke up with me two months after she went to practice, because she fell in love with another man and made me forget her.

I asked her why, and she gave me the reason that I couldn't afford to support her and give her the life she wanted. Later, I found out that my girlfriend's new boyfriend is the son of a real estate boss, and he still has some money at home, but he is about ten years older than his girlfriend. In the face of her betrayal, although I don't want to accept it, I have to accept the fact. For this reason, I didn't pass the postgraduate exam that year, and I fell for a while, feeling very depressed. I have never forgotten her.

My girlfriend got married after only five months with that man, but my relationship with her for six years ended in vain. Later, I was admitted to graduate school. After graduation, I worked in a private enterprise, got married and had children. The relationship between husband and wife is ok, and life is not bad. But recently, my abandoned ex-girlfriend called me. I don't know how she got my phone number. She said she wanted to borrow money from me, saying that she was crying while talking. I was really amused to hear her say that. She left me for money, and now she asks me for money. I am really speechless for such a woman, but I can't refuse her directly. Do you think I should lend it to her?