My boyfriend is in the army. He lied to me that he would not go home during the Mid-Autumn Festival, and he went home by himself. He's not answering his phone or answering his text messages.

He went home without telling you twice, and he didn't want to see you during the rare holiday. There are generally two reasons: first, there are emotional problems between you, and he wants to alienate you through actions, and finally achieve the purpose of breaking up. Second, he has things to deal with alone at home, and he doesn't want you to worry or know.

Think for yourself what the reason is. It's not the way to find family for two people's emotional problems. After all, what you want is his heart, not his people. . Even if you find his family, it doesn't make sense for them to persuade him to come back to you.

I wish you happiness.