When talking to a girl, she always ignores her. What should I do?

Many brothers and girls have encountered such a situation when chatting: the other party has not returned your message for a long time, or the reply time is particularly slow. Let you scratch your head, inexplicably, and even check your mobile phone and browse your chat history. Then I reissued one sentence after another under what I said, and finally looked at the full-screen message I sent. They didn't do anything at all, but they just couldn't sit still and spoke extremely. Normal chat has become a one-man show for me.

Chatting with a girl, the other person doesn't reply to the message for a long time or replies slowly. What should I do?

1, we should not regard this situation as a difficulty, but as an opportunity, an opportunity to hone ourselves and improve our emotional ability.

In fact, in terms of emotion, women are often more mature than men. Many of our so-called chat skills and interactive skills are actually learned from women. For example, chatting, I have long found that women have a natural instinct to "hold back". Even if they like a person very much and want to chat with him, they can often hold it for a long time as time does not allow. For example, a month later, when we talk again, just like nothing happened, we won't show the anxiety of not contacting each other for a month. Chat appointments are normal.

2. I strongly don't recommend that girls send messages or supplement messages without replying.

Why? Let's think about why girls don't come back. Either I didn't see it, or I saw it and didn't want to go back. There is no need to go back. I'll be back in a minute. If it's because she didn't see it, she will call you back when she saw it. What's the use of adding information if you don't reply when you see it? It will only expose your inner insecurity, without any benefit.

Constantly adding information is almost the most common problem for most boys in chatting. Open the chat record, it's all green (the color of your own message box), big chunks of green, and then white in the middle (the color of the other message box). A closer look at the white message is still a perfunctory "hmm", "oh" and "hehe".

Of course, it is not completely impossible to add information, which is too arbitrary, because after all, boys should take the initiative. I mean, not too much.

3. In dealing with girls who don't return information, you can bear it and win, but you can't bear it and lose from the beginning.

Of course, this endurance doesn't mean that you can't hold back from sending messages, but you can't add them frequently if you don't receive them for an hour or two. So my advice is usually to wait for half a day. If the other party still doesn't reply to you after waiting for this time, you can resend the message at this time. By then, people must have taken a shower and packed their clothes and everything. So you can definitely see the information. If I reply to you, then we can talk normally.

Because sometimes I really didn't see it, sometimes I did, but I didn't have time to reply at that time, and then I forgot. If there is no reply, everything will be clear. She's just not interested in you. Accept it. No big deal. In fact, pursuing girls really doesn't need to fantasize too much when things haven't progressed, and fantasize about what it feels like to receive gifts before they are sent out; It is a bad attitude to imagine what you are together before holding your hand.

It is also important to wait for the opportunity to reissue what information content.

Many brothers like to ask girls why they don't reply to his messages, which is a serious mistake. Because this kind of question will obviously expose your purpose, that is, to put it bluntly, to reduce charm and force. And even if someone tells you the answer, what can you do? Can it be solved? Can't solve it. So don't ask, just follow the above chat or reopen a new topic.

Another situation is that when you have been reading WeChat to see if the girl has replied to your message, you find that the message has not arrived yet, but the girl has sent a circle of friends. In this case, there is no need to interact, and there is no need to find any false expectations for yourself. Give it up.