How to make a boyfriend change his mind

1, first determine whether it is a real breakup or a fake breakup.

There is an obvious difference between a real breakup and a fake breakup in communication, that is, whether you have been hacked. If it's a fake breakup, then the other party generally won't break up with you.

As long as the other person is still willing to answer your phone calls and reply to your short messages, it proves that he is still willing to communicate with you in his heart, so there is great hope for redemption. But if you don't answer the phone, SMS WeChat QQ doesn't return, and you are blacked out, then you have to work hard to save it.

Step 2 take it apart

If the other party is determined to break up with you and has no intention to discuss with you, then respect the other party and break up immediately. For example, he said that we have broken up, so don't bother me in the future, so stop begging and pestering me. You know, it won't make any difference, and even he will be more sure to leave you.

3. Try to improve yourself.

When you were together, did he complain that you were not slim enough? Have you ever complained that your cooking is tasteless? Have you ever complained that your temper is not good enough or that your life is too closed?

The period of breaking off diplomatic relations is a good time to adjust these shortcomings. You can go to the gym to run, you can learn to cook, you can sign up for some classes to meet friends, you don't have to spend time thinking about the sweetness together and cry every day, and you don't have to analyze such a passage in his circle of friends like doing an English reading problem. Instead, you should take advantage of this disconnected time.

Step 4 show up

At this time, you are not the same as you were with him before. You've lost weight, your cooking has improved, and your temper has converged a lot. If you have been obsessed with him, you can start to create opportunities to meet, if it is a different place.

You can build a bridge through your friend, just let your friend say in his ear, "Do you know how good xxx is now?" Even if he remains unmoved, he will regret letting such a good person leave him. If you don't have the same friends, show them in a circle of friends. If he doesn't reply to your circle of friends, you can try to praise his circle of friends on your own initiative, but don't comment or send personal messages.

5. Wait for any turning point.

Maybe he is impressed by the changes in your circle of friends and is willing to try to get to know you again. At this time, you should sit down and seriously analyze and reflect on the real reason for breaking up before, and both sides make new commitments, otherwise this issue will once again become the fuse of contradictions between you.

Maybe he has a new lover. I believe you won't be excited about this situation at this time, because you are good enough and you will meet better people. Select the blessing and delete it. Anyway, he made you a better person.