Ma Bao, how do you ask your husband for money every month?

As a palm treasure mother, I also encountered the same embarrassment.

At work, my income is similar to my husband's, even slightly higher than his. Later, I quit my job and took two children at home. My savings gradually ran out, and I began to ask my husband for living expenses every month.

I'm too strong to talk. Once I speak, I always get angry. Because that feeling seems to beg, in fact, I am eager for him to take the initiative to pay.

After a while, it is not a problem to quarrel for money every month, and he doesn't say no, but sometimes he asks a question, where is the money?

In order to solve this problem, I have been thinking for a long time. I also summed up the practices of several girlfriends and finally found a harmonious way.

First analyze the family expenses with my husband and estimate the monthly expenses.

Second, move with your husband and be sensible. Tell him that the money he gives himself every month is the same as the salary of the company, and he will automatically transfer money every month. He doesn't need to ask his boss for salary every month. Similarly, Ma Bao doesn't need to ask him for living expenses.

Third, it is not allowed to ask how to control Ma Bao's money. Because the plan has been made, it belongs to Ma Bao's due return for her contribution to her family, and she has the right to completely control this income.

Since this implementation, we have never doubted each other for money. I hope you can find your own way soon.

I really envy you, the scum of our family. I said I didn't buy enough milk powder, so you gave me three or five hundred. As a result, people directly ignored your existence! Now I'm leaving with the children, and my mother is taking the children. I am a white-collar worker, sitting in an office during the day and washing dishes at night. Haha, I will go to the restaurant to wash dishes after tutoring my children's homework at night. Some people near me think I am ashamed. I don't think I steal or rob my labor income. For the sake of children, I don't care about the so-called face, and I don't feel ashamed.

Me, too. I didn't ask. I didn't offer. Six years, gave birth to a second child. My mother resigned with a monthly salary of 7000. At first, he was a little unaccustomed to asking for money. He said that 20,000 yuan a month seemed a bit much. At that time, my penis was only a few months old and there was no milk. As a mother, I left my child in a rage and took his card out for a day to do hair care. I bought two sets of clothes for my child, 2000 yuan and a small bracelet, 7000 yuan. He takes care of the baby at home and listens to text messages. He doesn't know what he is thinking. He didn't call me anyway. Anyway, I used him about 50 thousand. At 7 o'clock in the evening, he called me to buy oil at home on the pretext that there was no oil at home. I go out for a walk in the park after eating slowly, and then go to the supermarket to buy oil and other things. He didn't blame me. It means that I am cruel [picking my nose], so I don't want to talk about living expenses now, only when I have to ask at the beginning of the month, and I don't want to quarrel anymore. It seems that I don't want to quarrel when I am old.

I'm glad to answer your question. Before that, like my husband, I earned 20 thousand a month. After that, I took care of the baby at home full-time, leaving only my husband's salary, but I never asked my husband for money every month. Why? The details are as follows. I would like to share some of my methods with you, hoping to help you.

Finally, I want to say that there may be many situations similar to mine, but since you dominate the family finances, you must not squander them. After all, what your husband did was a kind of trust.

After reading the answers of the treasure moms, I feel so happy in an instant. After more than ten years of marriage, I have been a full-time mother at home and never have to ask my husband for money. I have his salary card in my hand and give him a fixed pocket money every month. If there is any special expenditure, he will tell me and I will transfer it to him. I got rid of all the expenses at home. I have no money. He never asks about his family's money. I will buy whatever I want. He doesn't ask about the money at home, and he doesn't know how much money he has. The down payment for buying a second suite is almost 500 thousand. He said you were so rich [cover your face]

Is this the wrong question? It should be the husband who tries to manage his wife for money. My salary card was confiscated on the same day I fell in love. My daughter-in-law said that I didn't take it when I was in love, because I wasn't married, and now I have set a wedding date, so I confiscated it [covering my face]. Since then, I have never seen my favorite salary card, and I have pocket money every month, [picking my nose] [picking my nose] but it's not bad. I don't worry about what to buy at home. It's easier to hand in your card when you get married and save money. I thank my wife. Without her efforts and calculations, I can't afford to buy a house or a car, and I can't change my bad habit of drinking. [Pick your nose].

Reaching out for money from her husband, he gave it every second. It is better to have your own income than to have your husband take the initiative.

I have salary income, and when my salary arrives, there will be some interest on it. If you have no money, ask your husband for it. Be confident.

Because of what? I can afford this money because I have a salary and a large family expense.