Why did my ex-boyfriend send me a message saying that I miss you so much? My ex-boyfriend sent me a message late at night saying that I miss you so much.

People will meet many people and many things in their life, but in the end we will meet the right person in our life, marry him and have children, and be happy forever.

A person's life is actually short, but it feels long. We will miss many people and many things, but in the end we will all find our own home. What doesn't go to the end is not sincere love.

A good horse never looks back. In a relationship, many people start a new life after ending the last relationship, but because of their predecessors? Harassment, but fluctuating their desire for love, in fact, at that moment, all your happiness will wave to you, because you do not deserve it, because you are scum.

If you are easily impoverished by your predecessor, then I should be glad of your present position, because the longer you spend with the scum, the more harm you will do. Life is always like this. If there is a positive side, there must be a negative side.

The current boyfriend sent it late at night? I miss you? How do women with high emotional intelligence answer? Maybe this article can teach you a good lesson.

@ Miss Wang, 35 years old, married for 6 years.

He was my first love, and our relationship has always been very good, but because of the distance, we finally lost to the distance. I suffered for a long time after separation. I don't want to be reconciled, because I know that we both really love each other, but separation means separation.

Separation is actually the result, and this result also reflects that we have many problems. Because of the existence of feelings, our breakup was also very peaceful, and each left a little dignity for the other side. I didn't delete each other's WeChat. Some time ago, I worked overtime in the company until late at night, and suddenly WeChat received his message. He said: How have you been recently? I missed you so much. I was surprised, and then I calmed down. Put your mobile phone aside and continue to work overtime.

At noon the next day, I replied to him: I'm sorry, I've been busy recently, so I saw it? I didn't answer his question directly, and he seemed to realize his rudeness.

Actually, why didn't I reply at that time? Actually, I just want him to calm down. If he had replied in time that night, maybe he would have lost his temper. When he calmly replied, he ignored his questions and gave the other party a reasonable step. Although he is separated, I still hope he can have his own happiness.

@ Miss Li, 25 years old, married for one year.

I have known my current husband for less than a year, so I chose to marry him. After marriage, we are very happy. We understand and trust each other, and there are no secrets between us. It is really because of this frankness that we live happily.

One night, I was lying in my husband's arms playing with my mobile phone. Suddenly, a familiar and unfamiliar name appeared on my mobile phone. Yes, my ex-boyfriend sent me a message saying: I miss you. I didn't feel a little scared because I read my ex-boyfriend's WeChat in my husband's arms. On the contrary, I was very calm and casually replied to him: I am playing with my mobile phone in my husband's arms and I am very happy.

It's just that there is no following. The reason why I show my love is to let him know that I am happy now and don't have any illusions about me.

@ Zhang, 2 1 year-old, separated for three months, and is currently single.

Actually, to be honest, I just got out of the shadow of lovelorn. I'm a junior at present, and I'm busy taking the postgraduate entrance examination. Time is pressing. The problem between us is actually because of my postgraduate entrance examination. He wants me not to take the postgraduate entrance examination, to work directly and get married after graduation, but I also have my dreams. Contradictions accumulated over time, and finally broke out and broke up.

Some time ago, I stayed up late reading and reviewing in the library, and my mobile phone suddenly shook. I opened it and found that it was him who sent me a message asking me if I still missed him. He missed me, and I was a little touched. In fact, I still couldn't let go, but I soon came to my senses.

In the past three months, I have thought a lot. We did have a lot of problems before. Even if we meet again this time, we will still be apart. Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, so I didn't reply, so I blacked it out directly. Maybe this way, we can all be happy.

In fact, I have always felt that it is a kind of kindness to reply to my ex-boyfriend skillfully, because you made him back down without hurting him. This kind of behavior is kind, and the real performance of high emotional intelligence is to refuse some ex-boyfriends to get back together, which is itself the performance of high emotional intelligence. A good horse does not return to the grass, has the happiness now, and does not touch the emotional red line. Such a woman is smart enough and lucky enough.

What would you do if it were you?