What should I do if I am harassed by my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend?

1, tell your girlfriend and family: Don't pay attention to him, don't reply to his short messages, don't pay attention to him, don't pay attention to any of his requests, and keep all the short messages.

Don't believe anything he says: don't let your girlfriend see him again and don't give him money. It would be strange if such a person could keep his word. Besides, if you give him a thousand times this time, he will dare to ask for ten thousand next time. It's easy to get money, and I know you're afraid he'll make trouble, and he'll push his luck and be embarrassed.

3. "I want to ask how to deal with this problem":

If you ignore him, he will still harass crazily: take all the short messages or letters he wrote and report to the police station near your or your girlfriend's home; According to the provisions of the Law on Public Security Administration Punishment, the public security has the right to give him public security punishment, warning, administrative detention and fine.

Attachment: Article 42 of the Law on Public Security Administration Punishment: "Anyone who commits one of the following acts shall be detained for not more than five days or fined not more than five hundred yuan; If the circumstances are serious, they shall be detained for more than five days and less than ten days, and may be fined up to five hundred yuan:

(1) writing threatening letters or threatening the personal safety of others by other means;

(2) publicly insulting others or fabricating facts to slander others;

(3) fabricating facts, falsely accusing and framing others, and attempting to subject others to criminal investigation or public security administration punishment;

(4) Threatening, insulting, beating or retaliating against witnesses and their close relatives;

(5) sending obscene, insulting, intimidating or other information for many times to interfere with the normal life of others;

(six) voyeurism, sneak shots, eavesdropping, spreading the privacy of others. "

4. "Can I call the police or sue him for his behavior?" ：

(1) can call the police. Your girlfriend and family can call the police.

(2) If his behavior has a bad influence on your girlfriend or family and you, you can also sue him in court. If he fabricates facts, he is suspected of libel; If what you say is true, but you spread your girlfriend or family or your affairs everywhere, and you are suspected of infringing on the right of reputation or privacy, you can sue to stop the infringement, apologize and compensate for the losses.

5. "What kind of results can you get?" What kind of results can be obtained depends on how the public security or the court finally decides or how to decide. What I can tell you now is only the punishment that can be given to him according to the law, that is, when dealing with violations of public security, the public security can give administrative punishments such as administrative detention, fines or warnings, and you can ask to stop the infringement and compensate for the losses.