How to chat if you add your ex back?

First, after adding back to WeChat, don't talk or talk less.

Many students can't wait to chat with their predecessors after adding them back to their former WeChat in some way, as if they haven't talked to their predecessors in 100, and want to say it all at once.

I don't know if your behavior will make your ex hate you more, because his dislike for you hasn't completely disappeared when we broke up, so it's better not to talk or talk less after adding back to WeChat.

Student case:

The senior once helped a student successfully add back his predecessor WeChat through SMS. The general process is as follows.

The students collapsed, talked a lot with their seniors and wanted to save each other. In fact, the experience of love, both sides have inappropriate places, are not doing well, but students obviously make more mistakes.

I won't say much about her here. One thing is that her ex-boyfriend's birthday is coming soon. She promised to make him a cake before, but broke up without coming and making it!

So the senior planned a chance for her to recover in this matter.

Let her still make a birthday cake, and choose a birthday day, take a picture of the cake for him, and then match it with a paragraph.

After sending it to my predecessor, it worked immediately. Finally, my predecessor called me on his own initiative, but the senior refused to let the girls answer the phone. Later, her predecessor took the initiative to add back her WeChat. I don't want students to reply, so I want to enlarge the appeal.

Don't kneel down, don't let the other person feel that you can get your feelings right away, enlarge your attraction and enhance your curiosity.

Maybe you will ask: how to re-establish a relationship after not chatting?

The senior means that after adding back to WeChat, chat interaction is definitely necessary, but not immediately kneeling to chat. If you do this, you will only destroy all the changes you have made before.

You can first establish contact through friends circle praise or friends circle interaction.

Second, chat: what can and can't be chatted.

Of course, chatting is the main motivation to improve your relationship, so chatting with your ex is very important. Many people were hacked after adding their predecessors and were largely lost in the opening remarks.

Before chatting, you must first understand that even if you add back WeChat, the image you hate has not been completely eliminated in your predecessor's mind.

Generally, after breaking up, you will go through a freezing period, so your topic will disappear a lot. How to cut in is better? For example. Of course, it may not be suitable for everyone. It varies from person to person. Don't be blindly confused.

1. What can't we talk about?

Don't talk about the emotional state between your ex and you.

Don't talk if you have a strong sense of need.

Don't try to convince each other with words.

For example:

How have you been recently? (Good or bad, ice immediately)

2. I think of you. Will you miss me? (the sense of demand is too obvious)

3.are we still friends? (Start with friends and say nothing! Very embarrassed)

2.what can we talk about?

For example:

1. I have seen your circle of friends recently. Your paper is excellent. I will write my thesis soon. Please guide me! Chatting with a learning attitude makes him feel mature. )

Did you see you on the road just now? Because I'll tell you if it's him, and then you'll naturally open the topic.

3. Sending a funny video may adjust the atmosphere (you should pay attention to finding a video that he must laugh).

Through this kind of chat, everyone should feel that the chat atmosphere is more relaxed.