Search you in a circle of friends

When I came to school this afternoon, I just turned on my mobile phone and saw a search for you in the WeChat circle of friends. The content is roughly about a girl from Class 28, Grade 28, Experimental Middle School who got lost in Xiguan at six o'clock in the morning. I hope the insider can inform her parents. Seeing this message, I thought of a similar search for you a month ago.

He is a sixth-grade boy in the third experimental school. Instead of going home immediately after school at noon as usual, he rode alone to a crossroads in the west of the county seat and disappeared. There was no news until the next morning, which worried his family. Later, after searching for a long time without results, parents had to call the police. Finally, the next morning, the child found it and asked why it was because the exam results were not ideal, and the scolding and irony of his parents made him unbearable, so he chose to run away from home. If parents find a child, they will turn an apology into a million likes and let the child achieve the ultimate goal-positive attention. Perhaps, this incident inspired the equally confused girls to choose to run away from home to prove their existence and value, so as to express their dissatisfaction with their parents. Fortunately, around five o'clock that afternoon, the girl had a whereabouts and went to Jinan herself.

In just over a month, two teenage boys chose to run away from home to express their inner dissatisfaction and resistance. What's wrong with these children? What kind of educational disadvantages are reflected? Who knows the child's inner pain?

? I remember my husband told me last year that his friend's children also ran away from home. That's because the relationship between this friend and his wife is very tense, and it is also for the sake of the children to maintain the family situation. They often quarrel and blame each other in front of their children, which eventually leads to their weariness of learning and their grades plummet. It is said that the child ran away from home at that time in order to retain his parents and the family. Think about how pitiful the child is!

I remember hearing a sentence: "A family is seriously ill, and the symptoms will appear from the most sensitive and weak children." . This child with depression, anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder is just taking all the harm for a family. "Behind a misbehaving child, there must be a family with problems. The child is injured, helpless and confused. When parents need care and help most, some parents choose to ignore or even deny, humiliate and blame, which eventually leads their children to extremes.

We can't help asking: "Who will be responsible for the child's mistake today? Parents? Teacher? Or society? Shouldn't we all calm down and reflect?