What should parents do if they are forced to get married?

First, listen first. When they attack each other, your best way is to listen. The more you defend, the more you are forced. So nodding your head from time to time when you listen shows that you are listening to them. You understand their anxiety, but it is up to you to choose whether to listen or not.

Second, do what you want to do. After listening, what you want to say next is that you want to get married and talk about the benefits of getting married. Parents will feel very comfortable when you say this, which is equivalent to giving them a reassurance, so this is the most effective way to start negotiations.

Third, clarify the difficulties. Tell your parents why you are still single. Let them know that you have been actively dating each other this year, even if you haven't. For example, a boy can say, "Oh, mom and dad, you don't know. Nowadays, girls are so realistic that they don't like me at all. It is too cheap to buy him a gift of more than 300 yuan. They need tens of thousands of dollars for a bag, and I can't find anyone to fall in love. " Girls can say, "Oh, there are too many irresponsible boys now, and love rat is everywhere.

Fourth, give negative teaching materials. No matter what you say, parents will definitely say some examples that they think are successful, such as: "What do you think of girls who got married on blind date and are living well now?" At this time, you can follow their thinking, and then, give another negative example. You can say, "Oh, look at that man, he got divorced after a year of marriage, and who else, after only a few months of marriage, has been having an affair with his husband", and then you can say to them, "You certainly don't want me to get divorced in the future." If you are in a hurry, I'll find someone to marry at once. I can't live in the future, I will quarrel and get divorced. Oh, it's so painful. "You know, the word divorce is a taboo for parents. No one wants their children to be unhappy in marriage? So tell the consequences, and they will consider it.

Follow this step, everyone who is forced to get married, you will certainly successfully resolve this difficulty. Finally, I want to say that no matter how urged by your parents, you must remember that marriage is your own business. Don't get married against your will, and don't get married right away. You must choose someone who loves you and loves you. I would rather get married later than easily. I'd rather take the time to manage myself first and wait for the right person. After all, marrying the wrong person is much more terrible than marrying late. Love yourself first, then love others, you. Do you remember?