Write a letter to yourself at the age of 20.

20-year-old self, in the mood for love, pays attention to appearance, but don't forget to increase inner cultivation. Next, I arranged to write a letter to my 20-year-old self. Welcome everyone to read it.

Write a letter to yourself at the age of 20.

Yourself:

20 years old, just graduated and stepped into the society. At the beginning of real growth, I wrote myself an expectation and a piece of advice. People always leave their parents and friends. A person grows up, even if sometimes he has to be forced. Hehe, how can I put it? Some responsibilities are filial, and some things and what he wants need you to pursue hard. In my opinion, for you, giving is directly proportional to getting, at least in your place. There is no pie that costs nothing. Don't always think about taking chances. You've been unlucky, haven't you? Escaping from reality is something you often do. Whenever you want to do something, you will find yourself a bunch of excuses to escape. Why bother? Finally, you have to do it yourself. The difference between doing it early and doing it late is that you waste your youth again. Think about the places you want to play and the food you want to eat. Without your efforts now, nothing can be achieved. Since I hate it, why indulge in these short-lived fantasies, let alone worry about happiness? . . .

Society is a complicated thing. You have just entered the business, so you should bow your head to everything you learn, because you have no arrogant capital, and it is a blessing to suffer. Patience is no big deal, but you have to have your own bottom line, and you can't lift it without lowering your head. Grasp your own principles, every failure is just that you don't work hard enough. No complaints, no regrets, sum up.

Plan for yourself. Without a plan, you will be in pieces forever. You can't be so confused forever. Your parents are old, and your brother has to go to school. You can't stay at home forever. Children who don't grow up are no longer suitable for you. Walk firmly on the road that will never return, at least be happy, dear, I wish you happiness.

In life, you can only make more progress and gain more gains than others if you go further than others think. Planning, you need to think about your next plan in advance.

Remember your goal, remember you can't forget it at any time, don't give up your goal, remember, don't let life lose you.

Determine your own words and what you want to say, and think quickly, because this is the prerequisite for your success than others.

XXX

XXXX。 X. X

Write a letter to yourself at the age of 20.

Dear me in my twenties:

1. When the man you secretly love asks, "Are you a good girl or a bad girl?" Laugh at him to his face, turn around and ignore his phone calls.

When the boy you like asks? Are you a good girl or a bad girl? Smile at him, turn around and walk away, ignoring his call to you.

2. Apply sunscreen. At least around your eyes and above your currently clumsy upper lip.

Wear sunscreen. At least around your eyes, and the edge of your perfect lips now.

Just because you share blood with others doesn't mean you have to give them a day, if they are desperate to make you feel small, misunderstood and wrong. You have given them enough opportunities. Cut the umbilical cord.

Even your blood relatives, don't allow them to despise you, misunderstand you and accuse you for no reason. You gave them a lot of opportunities. Please get rid of their bondage.

Register a small automatic savings deposit, which will be automatically deposited every time you pay your salary. You will pay a down payment for your future freedom.

Handle small savings deposits, and you can save some money every time you get paid. You are predicting the bill of freedom you will get in the future.

Rejection doesn't mean that you should stop doing what you like. Doing what you like is marriage. It shouldn't be your kneecap. Embrace it.

Rejection never means that you should give up those hobbies. Pursuing one's hobbies is bound to encounter setbacks. Don't let setbacks stop you, embrace them.

6. If you have a problem with a valuable friend, bite the bullet and say it. Don't disappear in front of her or him

If you disagree with an important friend, put down your face and talk to him or her. Don't disappear from his or her eyes.

7. Tell the truth. When you lie to them, people can really feel it, which makes them distrust you or themselves. This is incredible.

Tell the truth. Others can really feel that you are lying, which will make others distrust you or yourself. Telling the truth is a great thing.

8. You were instilled with the idea that you should get married before the age of 30. If you are still single, everything else in your life will fail. That's a big bucket of steaming things. Be picky. The happiness you seek is actually filling your life. When you have vomit in your hair, your husband is looking forward to a hot meal and a clean house, and you look like the cutie he married, you will look back on this time with great longing.

Your growing environment makes you think you should get married before the age of 30. If you are single at the age of 30, you will feel that everything else in life is a failure. This idea is to make a mountain out of a molehill. When your hair begins to split, your husband is waiting for dinner, and you have just finished cleaning the house, and you are no longer the lovely you your husband married in the past, you will be very eager to return to the present time.

9. rediscover your intuition. I know you were taught from an early age to ignore it and please others first. Without contact with your intuition, you have no compass. Listen to it. If it rattles, please pay attention The more you listen, the more you can avoid the detour of chaos/self-destruction and keep consistent with your own satisfactory path.

Pay attention to your heart again. I know your growing environment taught you to please others first and ignore your own heart. But if you don't pay attention to your heart, you can't sympathize with others. Listen to your heart. If your heart is complaining, you must pay attention. The more you listen to your heart, the more you can avoid the tendency of giving up on yourself and grasp the mentality of entertaining yourself.

10. You are so beautiful now. Your skin is amazing. Your metabolism is tolerant. You have great energy and curiosity. Don't look at others to enhance your self-esteem. You're amazing. Have it and others will see it.

You are so beautiful now. Your skin is beautiful and your metabolism is vigorous. Your energy and curiosity are at their peak. Don't satisfy your self-esteem by imitating others. You're already amazing yourself. Grasp this aura and everyone around you will see it.

1 1. Be lenient with your mother. As you get older, everything she annoys and disappoints you will become a part of yourself. What you are doing now is a big bakery.

Be patient with your mother. Anything about her that makes you angry or disappointed, you will find it in yourself when you are older. You are brewing your own bitter wine.

12. Don't be competitive. To cooperate. There is enough space on the table.

Don't be competitive, but have team spirit. Everyone will get a piece of the action.

13. Your dream life will not appear in front of you, or it will not appear, just like an elusive, mythical unicorn. Whenever you listen to your intuition, get rid of rejection, respect your friends, accept criticism, enrich your savings account and realize your arrogance, you have built a particularly perfect life.

Your dream lifestyle may not appear, and if it does, it will not appear like a mysterious unicorn. Every time you listen to your heart, overcome setbacks, cherish your friends, embrace criticism, increase your savings, and recognize your arrogance, you are building your own unique dream life.

Love,

Love,

I am 40 years old.

I am 40 years old.

Write a letter to yourself at the age of 20.

Twenty years old, hello!

Dear, Zhan Xinjia.

Before dawn, there was lightning and thunder outside the window, and it rained heavily again. The world was in chaos. After a sleepless night, I got up, took a cold bath, wiped my hair, took a bite of zongzi and looked out of the window. The trees that are still flourishing on both sides of the school road have become vague shadows, swaying in the noisy rain.

Young and frivolous, shallow dreams. About half a month ago, I began to think about what kind of letter to write to myself at the age of twenty. The closer I get to the threshold of 20, the more I panic and fear. In such an era of laughter and crowing, I always feel that twenty years old is a bad color for a woman. In a few years, when we get out of the ivory tower, the days of struggling alone in the city will be a thing of the past.

Luther said that a lonely person always infers from one thing to another and thinks of everything in the worst place. Yes, I am a pessimist to a great extent, but Marquez told us that only loneliness is eternal. So I have been very entangled in my heart.

I have heard that the loneliest scene for a person is waking up and staring at a strange ceiling. Small room, four white walls, empty only you. You don't know where you are or even remember who you are.

I was deeply moved by such a scene.

I know I often fall asleep and get sick. Every time I wake up in the afternoon and stare at the ceiling, I always feel I don't know where I am. I always think I'm still in high school. Sometimes when I read a book about feelings or feel blocked, I sneak back to my dormitory and go to bed even later at night. When I woke up and squinted at the sky, it was generally dark. The familiar footsteps in the dormitory echoed in the corridor. I didn't dare to turn on the light, so I curled up in bed, gently lit the screen of my mobile phone, and lazily sent a message to the class teacher to pretend to be sick. Sometimes I will write a few short poems in bed, or read a novel, or run to the balcony, watching the cars and pedestrians coming and going outside the school wall and counting the lights in the opposite residential building. All romantic flirting can only be stripped clean in front of reality.

I want to cry when I think of it, and this feeling will never happen again.

Friends around me always think that I am a particularly happy person, and I have nothing to worry about every day. Every time I talk about this, I can't help laughing. All the joys and sorrows in recent years have been digested by myself. I'm not used to facing others with a sad face, and I don't easily get a sense of security from others. I can only say that I have been constantly balancing my mentality.

Many times you are unhappy, not because of society, but because of your own mentality. I know a girl who always feels that she is poor and her family background is not as good as others, so she feels inferior. If others say anything casually, she will hurt her self-esteem.

Sometimes I feel very tired when I am with such a blx girl, and I think she has too much negative energy. I am always trying to enlighten her and listen to her, and I am forced to feel the world full of malice in her eyes. Sometimes, she has to find many people to spit in the same slot, even the same person several times. Even if this matter is over, she will turn it out again and again when she thinks about related issues in the future, as if this matter really caused deep harm in her heart. Over and over again for a little thing.

Many times it's not that others look down on you, but that you look down on yourself. Even if a problem is solved, these people can always find more reasons to belittle themselves. In the final analysis, the most fundamental difference between people is the difference in values.

I wrote a short poem before I thought of traveling alone in May.

? Pseudo-humans live contentedly/think they live fully and happily. /but/at any time/under any circumstances/unable to see the reality clearly/wrong attribution/self-paralysis/superstitious small probability/this is a very confusing and terrible thing?

So sometimes I need to stay alone in another unknown place, otherwise the hypocrisy in my heart will keep popping up and I can't stand everything around me. Even if the road is full of obstacles, even injuries, it is the same sentence. May this road be long and full of miracles.

There was a time when I was so hard on others that I couldn't tolerate even the slightest behavior that annoyed me. It may be a simple action, a sentence, or an attitude towards something, which will make me fly into a rage and leave.

A few years ago, I often felt very scared. I am afraid, afraid that I have lost my consistent persistence and that I have been polished beyond recognition by the world. In my memory, I cherish my stubborn self so much that I even feel that I need to be cherished. I am afraid that I will eventually become insensitive and can only passively accept everything that happens in this world.

What kind of woman do I want to be? This question seems to be asked repeatedly at this time of year. I think I will still be a strong and warm woman.

Think about these years, my favorite woman is reborn Meng Lijun. Fang's face is beautiful at the age of fifteen, and it is not easy for dragons and phoenixes to become auspicious. Eyebrows are as shallow as distant mountains and eyes are as cold as autumn water. When Huang He got married, she fled disguised as a man and changed her name to. She lives with her father and son Huang, but she still keeps a straight face. Even in front of the Manchu Dynasty, Wu refused to admit that such a woman was only based on her appearance, but also on her talent.

After I went to college, my memory of poetry gradually deteriorated. But I still remember clearly that she said that from now on, if she didn't make it clear, Python Jade would live a life of prestige. Why do you have to marry a husband? Just be one, once a wise man becomes famous. I'm afraid even a strong woman like my mother won't have such backbone. And like Lin Daiyu, flowers are flying all over the sky, red incense is broken, and the ruin is Li's least unreserved, which is not suitable for me.

When it comes to being a woman with backbone, I always think of Parker or Arendt. The former ended the same as Zhang Ailing, and DorothyParker died alone in her apartment. But Zhang Ailing will say that life is a gorgeous robe full of lice. Zhang itself is full of desolation, and it is not surprising that Zhang's life has been defeated by his feelings for a man.

And Parker's poems, every sentence is written in my heart. Maybe there is another sentence, I am too busy, and vice versa, which makes me feel that procrastination is not a terrible bad habit. Arendt, on the other hand, fell in love with the wrong person, but defended ethics, justice and love all his life. Women with knowledge and strength like them are really beyond my reach.

A few days ago, I watched "Our Youth with Nowhere to Place", and the film shooting effect was very good, and the drama was very dramatic. I think Zhou Meng met Li Ran at the age of 20, but who will I meet at the age of 20? Even if you are badly hurt once, wouldn't it be nice if you really loved once?

Obviously, they are two different people and two different plays, but I always feel that Zhou Meng was at ease when he was young. Good things are always so beautiful, even after years and reality, the purest things will never change, because they are beautiful.

But what about me? Am I pretty?

I have always believed in beauty, but I dare not say whether I am beautiful or not. I can't see clearly and I don't know how to see clearly. I think I may be a dream in reality. She likes flowers like me, and has the same view of love as me. She can change her mind. Maybe all the girls in the world used to be Zhou Meng, so beautiful and so pure.

Li Ran said, Meng Meng, only children think their own is the best, and someone will take them away.

Meng Meng said, you are the best.

Li Ran said that's because you love me.

I think, I will always be the child who thinks what I have is the best, so I love Gu Cheng and I love the little prince. I love them as much as I love myself. Maybe I will be 12 years old forever. Because in the summer of 12 years old, I was still a child riding a bicycle in a plain white dress, shuttling through the shady streets.

I picked up some bits and pieces of words casually and wanted to say them for a long time, but I almost forgot them when I edited them. I know I don't know anything, but I thought I knew everything.

That's it. May joy and peace be with you.

Liang's handwriting

June 3(rd)

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