There is a girl who likes me. She sends me messages every day. I don't want to refuse her directly. What should I say?

Actually, I wish I could tell you this, but I can't lie anyway. ...

This sentence seems a bit cruel at the beginning. In fact, as soon as you say it, the other party should immediately understand your real intention. But this is not wrong. It is always easier to make a clear position from the beginning than to beat around the bush. Feelings in reality are different from romantic movies in literature and art. The simpler, the easier.

I am relaxed and comfortable with you, but there is no electricity between us.

It is really difficult to meet a friend of the opposite sex who can completely relax your mind and get along with nature, but if you are embarrassed to say no, there is no doubt that this is a wrong move! If you are a person who attaches great importance to love and friendship, then you must not be careless at the critical moment, and you must leave the relationship clear, which is also of great benefit to the future direction of your friend relationship.

I don't think I can give you what you want. ...

If you are sure that you don't feel attracted to the opposite sex and are not friends, you might as well tell him the truth directly. At this time, a white lie or silence is not an appropriate response. You know, real warriors dare to face the bleak life. ...

I haven't fully determined my feelings, and I don't want to start a relationship hastily.

This sentence is by far the most implicit answer, and it is also the least lethal sentence to a hopeful confessor. However, although this sentence is polite, it implies some risks. The other party is likely to think that there is still hope of success. If you have enough patience to wait and see and continue to work hard, you may stick to a series of pursuit actions, and you still can't really avoid the complicated emotional interference of correcting mistakes.

But if you also hold a wait-and-see attitude towards him, but you don't know what you really think at present, it is also a good choice to leave room in your answer to prepare for the future development of their relationship.

5, what I want is a plain and ordinary feeling, and a high-profile plot is not suitable for me.

Some people like to take confession as a surprise to mark the beginning of feelings, so they will blurt it out when you are not expected and prepared. In their story, you should be caught off guard first, then moved to tears, and finally be happy together.

However, reality often does not play cards according to common sense. The fact is that you really feel helpless about his confession, but you won't be moved at all. Remember, if he is really not your cup of tea, you must calm down and say the above sentence calmly.

I care about you, but I don't love you.

This is a tactful and direct confession answer, which can not only take care of each other's feelings properly, but also make the scene not too embarrassing and deadlocked, and clearly express your position. If you can't be a lover, you can at least be a friend and let him know how important his position is in your mind, which is also an effective comfort.