The 23-year-old girl in Harbin lost contact. Do you think it is because of emotional problems or family problems?

1at noon on October 6 12, an important event happened at Mr. Shen's house in Harbin, which was obviously an eleventh holiday. Everyone should be happy thinking about where to play, but the atmosphere at Mr. Shen's house is very tense because of the news from Mr. Shen's daughter.

The letter told her mother bluntly to take care of herself. The whole article feels that the girl is very regretful and helpless, and her words are like saying goodbye to her parents. Sure enough, when Mr. Shen saw something was wrong, he immediately called his daughter and learned that her mobile phone had been turned off and could not be contacted. Since then, my daughter has lost contact. Mr. Shen said that there has been no dispute and unhappiness with his daughter recently. Since then, Mr. Shen has been unable to contact his daughter for two days, and his residence is empty. In fact, from the last short message the girl sent to her mother, we can see how helpless and regretful she is and how hopeless she feels. Maybe the girl has lived in depression and distrust for a long time, and no one can give her a little encouragement, give her the motivation to move forward, and make him spit on himself or even give up himself now.

I think girls send such messages because of family reasons or some reasons for making friends. He never mentioned his emotional trauma in his text messages, so it should not be an emotional problem. He only said in the text message that he felt useless and confused, and regretted not dropping out of school before. Obviously, a 17-year-old girl is going to work in an enterprise, so premature contact with society is undoubtedly a very serious psychological blow to teenagers who have not yet fully stereotyped.

Girls may have suffered from depression before sending such a short message. He may be on the verge of final collapse. The pressure of life, leaving the society prematurely, may also be the pressure from his parents, dropping out of school, going to work and moving out early. At the critical moment of children's growth, parents must give support and encouragement, otherwise it will easily lead to inferiority complex, which will turn into more serious suicidal psychology. Parents are the most important instructors on the road of children's physical and mental health, and may also make their children's hearts collapse because of some words from their parents. It is the responsibility of every parent to take good care of the psychology of every growing teenager.