I'm giving up! ! ! Really have nothing to say! ! ! She said we were friends! ! ! But I didn't answer my messages! ! ! Ridiculous! ! !

It's too easy for boys to chase girls. After reading this article, you will become an expert.

Don't say anything until it's cooked. Some boys have only dated people a few times, and then they propose to establish a "further" relationship, which will ruin the soup in nine cases. The beauty of love is that everything is self-evident. Clear, clear, but not beautiful. It turns out that people are willing to come out and talk to you alone, which shows that girls have a good impression on you. But sometimes this feeling can't even be told by themselves, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty, so don't blame others for staying away from it. Look around at the love that died before it started. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the temperature.

Put away your fists to attack better. What should I do if a girl refuses me? Some people say that we should pursue hard and persevere. Actually, it is not. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it is hard for you to bear the dirty eyes of girls and the mocking eyes of peers. Better stop and retreat for a while. This not only protects your dignity, but also leaves a way out, thus creating opportunities for future counterattacks. Let her wander in the crowd. When she hits a wall, go to her again, and she will realize that you love her the most. Even if you really can't give up, you should pay attention to the ways and means to find her. Don't let her find you annoying. And this is usually difficult to do.

Don't be too explicit and learn to care about her quietly. Treat her with your honesty and kindness. Only in this way can you attract her attention among a large group of boys screaming around her. Remember, only you who are special will attract her special attention.

Don't enter unless necessary. A boy who always runs to the girls' dormitory will not attract much favor from girls. Some student union cadres often run to the girls' dormitory under the pretext of work, and then they stay there, which brings a lot of inconvenience to others and the effect will only be counterproductive. The root cause of this result is still too obvious.

Strategic contempt ... tactical value ... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together and so on. You'd better look at these things with a normal heart, and don't have a burden, you'd better suffer from loss. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she accidentally said. Some boys are easy to be romantic, which is the reason. However, we should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, the first conversation should pay attention to discretion, and it is best not to involve the scope of love. Let's talk about childhood. If you go straight to the point, that's too bad! Girls must be as alert to you as wolves.

Better kiss up less. You praised her for her beauty. If she is really beautiful, then you are only the 700th person to praise her for her beauty, and what impressed her most may be the first person to praise her like this. If she is plain-looking, you can't tell what kind of result you will have if you praise her like this. If she finds out you didn't mean it, you're dead. Remember, you can only coax a girl after she becomes your girlfriend. This is a sign that you didn't master the heat before catching up with her.

Don't be so macho. A boy finally invited the girl he had long admired to dinner, which cost him half a month's living expenses. Later, when he went to pay the bill, he found that the girl had paid for him and he wanted to pay her back. Girls don't want to. The girl stripped him of his face and he was very angry. The girl cried with anger. The girl paid the bill for him, which showed that she had a crush on him. He lost his temper instead of trying to please him, so it is no wonder that he is going to be single. Few girls will have a good impression on boys who don't respect women, remember! Remember!

Unite the majority. Almost every girl has one or two closest girlfriends. When everything else is blocked, they are your road to success. You can know whether girls are interested in you through them, and you can also convey your meaning through them. This is much better than what you said directly. Don't ignore this new force. I have seen the boy succeed in this way more than once.

Finally, I want to remind you that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; The way others fail may be your beauty. I only ask some questions of principle here, and I must not copy them mechanically. If it ruins your good deeds, don't come to me. If a girl doesn't like you, even the Jade Emperor can't help it. The ancients said: it is the best policy to defeat the enemy without fighting.

First of all, what kind of first impression should I make on MM (when I first contact MM)?

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't "succeed" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should let M.

M thinks you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future and you are not satisfied.

Be content with the status quo, and you will have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Self-confidence and responsibility.

Don't be such a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculous.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don't seem to care about nothing, it's too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things too clear, so that people can see you at a glance.

Chasing people.

Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they won't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (

Unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or kevin costner, goodwill needs to be realized through increasing understanding.

Yes, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must have psychology.

Stress. If I find that I don't like you after a while, wouldn't that be a trick? So if you start with ambition,

When you come out with a winning attitude, you will be bored almost immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a good friend with taste.

You can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chase you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl has no chance to "refuse" you-why didn't you chase her?

Reject you? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and enable you to communicate smoothly. Don't imagine agreeing to get married after three days of knowing each other.

Give you full contact and understanding. Feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax, don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. I have a good friend who told me to chase girls.

The key to children is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

If you pester people all day, you naturally don't think you are good. If you are properly indifferent for a day or two, the girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

Also, don't take out the ambition of "you don't want to marry" The price is too low. Sometimes you can play tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't let things turn into "you are chasing others" immediately, you need to get a chance to get close to girls. this is

It depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into an encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the most suitable one.

Invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can ask your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "You get something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will try their best not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you one.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend money together, for example, find a good restaurant to eat, or find an expensive restaurant

Girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people instead of.

Is to turn it into something to take home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good, talk about everything"

Friend ",on a sunny afternoon, you" accidentally "pulled her hand; ""willow shoots on the moon ",you have a sudden attack.

Kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are his boyfriend.

friends.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "

Therefore, don't rush to break the window paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is a "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem, and always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say.

He is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky, similar to the severe backwardness when playing Go.

The other side was forced to release the "winner". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "love

"Is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people pursuing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you

After studying hard and mastering the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with any twins.

Look at the problem from another angle. A rural nanny who didn't graduate from primary school will earn you 600 yuan a month, even if she is good to you.

700 yuan gift (overdraft), willing to "be a cow and a horse" for you, and you won't fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you will be bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MM are really snobbish (a few).

If you don't believe it, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time" and never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a failure".