Three secrets that men will never tell in extramarital affairs

Three secrets that men will never tell in extramarital affairs.

Three secrets that men will never tell women in extramarital affairs.

Recently, I saw a netizen on the Internet telling about her affair with a married man: she spent five precious years entangled with a man, but woke up after being scarred and chose the process of saving herself. After reading the article, I feel distressed for the torture she has suffered in the past five years, angry that she believes it easily every time, and glad that she can get away with it at the last minute. However, the following message stung me deeply. Seeing so many people who feel the same way, I am shocked that so many women foolishly fall into extramarital affairs and spend three, five and seven years of their lives waiting for someone who will never give them a future.

Some women involved in extramarital affairs are directed at the interests behind men, and they have their own intentions and goals from the beginning. However, more stories tell us that there are also some women in this group who think they have met love. They may not know that the other person is married at first, but after knowing the truth, they find themselves getting deeper and deeper. Doing is the impulse to possess, and then waiting silently in one promise after another, looking forward to the day when it will be completed.

I have seen a saying that "a man's extramarital affair begins with lust and ends with boredom", and a relationship that is not protected by law will eventually be defeated by time and time. Women who think they can steal men from their families often end up losing miserably. Therefore, in an extramarital affair, a man will never tell you this secret, and a woman had better know it earlier, so don't be careless.

1. What a person cares about most is always himself. Every man who has an affair will label his behavior as love. He thinks that as a married man, he still has the right to pursue love. He will blame his wife at home for the affair, because she can't bring the feelings she wants, because she ignores her feelings, because she can't be understood and empathetic.

He will attribute the extramarital affair to the woman outside, because she is beautiful enough, gentle enough, young enough and charming enough to make herself uncontrollable. It seems that this is a last resort. A man who is having an affair, what he expects most is that his wife and lover will be two planets that will never meet, each doing his own job and having the best of both worlds, so that he can enjoy the happiness of others. I saw a particularly wonderful case on the Internet: a man didn't want to divorce after his extramarital affair was discovered, so he simply pulled his wife and lover into a group and let them solve it themselves.

Neither woman wanted to quit voluntarily, so they started a competition. They try their best to please men, just as two concubines compete for the emperor's favor. In such a state, a man will neither divorce his wife nor break with his lover, because his extramarital affairs have not only not been punished as they should, but have turned himself into a real person who can openly uphold his rights. If you can have a threesome all your life, why not? He doesn't care about the pain and entanglement of two women. What he cares about most is himself.

2, men will weigh the pros and cons in extramarital affairs, and carefully calculate sentences. Men often promise in extramarital affairs that "I will definitely divorce!" But when the lover really wants a divorce, he will find that he has never planned to divorce, and he has never thought about giving his lover an identity and a home. In extramarital affairs, men are more sober than women. His career is the most important, followed by his family and finally the so-called love. There were obviously fewer extramarital affairs in the past than now. This is not to say that men are more conscious than they are now. The most important point is that many units will take extramarital affairs as an assessment, but it is almost impossible for people with "style problems" to be promoted and raised. Even in contemporary society, noisy wives at work often play a role in saving the situation after extramarital affairs are exposed.

Because for a man, his career and feathers are much more important than a so-called love. If a man wants a divorce, he will be very careful. He and his wife involve many interests, such as buying a house and a car, investing and managing money together, and sharing social and resources. He will make a decision after weighing the pros and cons to minimize his losses. An uncle cheated on his son when he was in junior high school. The object of the affair is a young girl in her twenties.

He swore that he had met true love, and he was determined to divorce and take the girl away. Although my aunt was very sad, she didn't make any noise. She said she could finish it and asked her uncle to write a letter of commitment to leave home clean. Just let it go. No man will give up everything he has worked hard for an extramarital woman and leave home clean. For him, these interests and family stability are more important than extramarital affairs. Men in extramarital affairs will weigh the pros and cons and be careful.

3. Men who have extramarital affairs are ready to leave at any time. In interviews with extramarital affairs, a large number of men think that their extramarital affairs are out of novelty and excitement, and they have no plans to maintain extramarital affairs for a long time. Some men are considerate and concerned about their lovers in extramarital affairs, but they will be very careful to protect their family information, not to let the other party know their family address, not to let the other party know their work unit, and never to take the other party to see anyone around them. Because from the beginning, they were ready to let themselves get away with it. A Shenzhen girl once met such a Hong Kong man on the Internet. They get along like all lovers. The man will come to Shenzhen to accompany her every other week. She knows that the other party has a family and the other party has a good income, but she knows nothing about the specific situation.

Until two years later, the other party suddenly disappeared, and she didn't even have a contact to find the other party. It's as if she had a dream for two years. In fact, this situation is not uncommon. Many women are immersed in love fairy tales woven by each other, thinking that they have the best feelings, but forgetting that extramarital affairs were originally stolen and not really their own. In extramarital affairs, men never intend to last forever. They are ready to leave at any time.

I hope all women can cherish their youth and feelings and never let themselves fall into a wrong relationship. Only when a relationship is established on the basis of law can it be truly reliable and firm, and there can be a connection point, otherwise it will spread out like a dandelion with a light blow. Extramarital love is by no means the right way; Only by doing the right thing can you be long-term and secure.