2019-08-05

?Be a person with a mine in your heart for the rest of your life

?There was a hot word on the Internet for a while: There is a mine in your home.

?Now this word is also common in real life.

? This word was originally derived from an emoticon of Teacher Zhao Benshan. Awareness usually means describing others as very rich, or complaining about not knowing that being frugal is a waste of money.

Then extend to more areas. Occasionally I buy a slightly expensive piece of clothing or a slightly expensive bag, or occasionally treat me to a big dinner, or I accidentally get taken advantage of, and a friend will say: There is a mine at home!

But in my opinion, having a mine at home is a great source of confidence. Having a mine at home means that you are not just ordinary rich. If you have money, you can be willful, calm and comfortable, live the way you like, do the work you like, and live the life you like. If your family has a lot of gold, your actions will be determined by your heart.

One day, I was chatting with a friend about mines at home. My friend told me a golden saying: Some people have mines at home, and some people have mines in their hearts.

I deeply agree. I think that in order to be confident, you need to do the following five aspects.

?1

Extreme

I think one of the most precious minerals in the heart should be the ability to achieve the ultimate in something. The internet has been flooded with news that Wu Yishu scored 610 points in the college entrance examination and was successfully admitted to Tsinghua University. And it's not just because of her college entrance examination results that she's famous. Two years ago, she became famous on the Internet because she won the championship of the second "Poetry Conference". At the age of 16, he read more than 2,000 poems by heart. To do something to the extreme is her confidence and confidence. It is an inexhaustible treasure in her heart.

Meng Man, associate professor at Minzu University of China, commented: "The truth, goodness and beauty of poetry penetrate into her heart. Wu Yishu's humility is not pretended. But the poetry was in her heart, and when she stood there calmly and calmly, the poetry came out. This is the so-called 'poetry and calligraphy in the belly'."

?Wu Yishu’s greatest confidence is to make the poems and books in her belly perfect.

?Her starting point for the rest of her life will be Tsinghua University. She has a bright and splendid future and must be full of confidence.

2

?Learning

? ? To catalyze a skill into an industry leader, you must have enough patience and time to learn. Learning is like a person's vitality. There is a saying: Some people are alive but are actually "dead" long ago. I think this "dead" person should refer to a person who has lost the ability to learn and change himself.

In our local area, there is an old entrepreneur born in the 1950s. He graduated from elementary school. From a rural boy to a manager of a construction company and then to the chairman of a real estate development group, he has made impressive achievements in his life.

Not knowing how to learn is his mantra. What he tells people most is his study experience at Tsinghua University, which changed the fate of his company.

When the business reached a bottleneck, he was particularly confused in his 50s. However, he did not give up or be satisfied. Instead, he spent two years driving 3 hours a month to Beijing to study. Several business management courses.

It was the fresh blood and novel ideas that allowed his company to get out of trouble and become one of the top real estate giants in the local area.

? 3

Reading

?Reading and studying are different. It has strong learning skills, focuses more on academics, career and self-improvement, and is more pragmatic.

Daily reading is not so utilitarian, it is an attitude and lifestyle.

?Reading makes people understand and gain spiritual satisfaction. The book contains not only the stars, the sea, and poems, but also distant places that we cannot reach for the time being.

Books are the crystallization of human wisdom, allowing people to gain more life experience and increase the thickness of life without leaving home. There is a saying: Carrying a book is like living through three thousand lives, but living without a book is like living one life. That's what it means.

?I once had a colleague who was a well-read woman. Her calm demeanor, determination and self-confidence are beyond the reach of me who am deeply in the running-in period of marriage. She is like a calming needle for me. I love to chat with her about workplace relationships, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, couples and parenting, women’s growth and life attitudes, and I want to hear her opinions on everything. Her views on some issues can often see through the phenomena to see the essence behind them. Her analysis is penetrating and penetrating, making people convincing.

? For the rest of my life, through reading, I will continue to acquire the deposits of life wisdom, and my life will be confident and calm.

?4

?Thinking

Being diligent in thinking gives us the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and we do not follow others' opinions blindly.

Another tragedy happened a few days ago, which made people sigh with regret. A 27-year-old girl committed suicide after leaving behind 14 credit cards and a debt of 870,000. One can imagine what kind of life she leads. She also wants to have "crazy love" when others have it, brand-name bags when others have it, and poetry and distant places when others have it. As long as she had some thinking ability and faced her own abilities and desires correctly, she wouldn't have reached this point.

? What I said here reminds me of an article written by the sloth teacher in our writing class. Mr. Sloth is the founder of Dushu Culture and a popular writing lecturer with millions of readers. He has published two books: "Make your life different as soon as possible" and "Everything you lose will be reunited with a better you". ?Teacher Sloth, in her article "After paying off the mortgage, I only have 7 yuan left in my bank card", she described that period of her life: For the small house that I longed for, I began to write articles for external parties. While doing my job, I use my spare time to run my own public account and write articles for the public. I write in the shared living room when I get off work, and find a coffee shop to write during holidays. My daily life is: working at work, writing after get off work, and basically no other spare time.

? Her boyfriend described her: like an ant moving, whenever she has a little income, she will transfer all the income to a bank card and deposit it regularly, and then save it bit by bit.

At that time, she must have had many friends with whom she made appointments for dinner, shopping, and travel. But she clearly knew her situation and what she wanted. Don’t follow the crowd or follow the trend. Live your life firmly and work towards your goals.

To be able to do this is probably because I have seriously and soberly thought about the life I want to have in the future.

With the precious resource of diligent thinking, I think she should be more calm, calm and confident in the future.

? 5

?Persistence

Li Xiaolai said in his book "Treat Time as a Friend": All success in learning is only achieved by It relies on two things: strategy and persistence, and persistence itself should be the most important strategy. Persistence is actually repetition; and repetition is ultimately an investment of time.

Li Xiaolai talked about Mr. Zhong Daolong’s example of making great efforts to learn English: he insists on dictating 20 pages of A4 paper every day, and will never give up until he achieves his goal. He also has to make up for the meeting late at night. From January 31, 1980 to February 1983, I wrote a cabinet of dictation records in three years, used up a handful of ballpoint pen refills, broke 9 tube radios, 3 semiconductor radios, 4 cassette players, and broke dictionaries. 2 copies. He started learning English at the age of 45 and later became a senior translator. He is also the author of the book "Reverse English Learning Method".

? Therefore, persisting in one thing with great patience, perseverance and perseverance, and achieving results will increase one's confidence in the future life. That’s why, there is no stable job, only stable abilities, right?

? Spend 80% of your time to do one thing to the best, learn to learn, get used to reading, be good at thinking, have perseverance and perseverance, and for the rest of our lives in the future, I hope we can all be people with a clear mind. A confident person.