Were you treated viciously when you were a child?

1, my biological grandmother and aunt sent me away. My uncle will come back, my grandmother will give me a bath, and my armpits will rot.

I was only two or three years old. I want to eat a red date when I see zongzi on Dragon Boat Festival. My grandmother asked me to get pliers. I'll bring them back and tell me which tooth is greedy. I don't want to eat when I pull it out with pliers.

The old aunt in the pork shop at the door knows that I am a single parent and asks me every time I see it. Where is your father?

I also met four hooligans. He attacked me once.

Anyway, there are many such things. But I still love my mother and my family. Except "that", of course.

It's a miracle that I can live to this day!

The regret of my father's life is that he gave birth to three "money-losing goods" without handles. I also came because my sister died unfortunately, and I had an "indicator". After all, with two girls, the village was not allowed to regenerate at that time. As a last resort, my mother had a vasectomy, and my father's last hope was dashed. I became his punching bag, and even a despicable life was not as good as a cat.

I was told that I should leave this world. At that time, all the dolls in the village were for midwives in nearby villages, and few of them went to the hospital. As soon as I landed, my grandmother, the girl with five big feet and three thick feet, thought I was a girl film again. In order to give her son another chance to burn incense, she covered my little head with a small quilt. At this time, the midwife who had just washed her hands came back. When she saw this scene, she grabbed my kicking feet and dragged me out from under the small quilt pressed by my grandmother, shouting "His aunt, you!" Good luck is also life, given by God, don't commit iniquity! "water under the bridge. My grandmother didn't say anything, sighed, dumped them and left. Later, the midwife came home and told her family that born this way was doomed to be a bad karma.

The father bossed around at home all his life, and the three grandchildren were cynical when they met people who were not as good as themselves. When they encounter hard stubble, they can't wait to hide. My neighbor's four sons, separated by a wall, asked my father to give them three meters of the homestead I confirmed for free because the children were too old to live. The attitude was very bad. What a shame! Father agreed and smiled. The family asked us to tear down the annex of my house in one day to make room for them. I heard it when I was making a fire at home, and the angry flame rose. When my father came home, I just ... Why doesn't he let his neighbors in the west let him go? If something goes wrong, there is a government, and there are many places that can be justified. Why did you promise such a shameful thing? "

Dad, who was laughing outside just now, blushed like a purple liver in an instant. "If there were no boys in my family, would people bully me?" There are many people with hard fists. What can you two do if you lose money? "I'm angry, too." We don't want to be unwilling. After a while, I asked him, why, by the way, dare to rob? What happened to that girl? What do you mean, don't say there are two girls, but there is no one. It's a shame, even if one of us is panting! "I said, and stood up and looked for the theory under the kitchen hall. My father, the passive father outside, saw that I was going out to make trouble for him, and suddenly pulled me over, picked up the burning fire stick in the kitchen hall and waved it at my head. The stick grazed my scalp and burned my hair. My mother ran over and put the flame on my head. At that moment, my heart was really gray.

I am very angry, and no one in my family has anything to eat. Father and the whole family started to tear down the house together, and neighbors stood in other people's yards, watching us move purlins as jokes. I was just wearing messy hair and carrying wood with my life, hoping to die instantly. At this time, the shameless father also greeted his neighbors loudly and smiled brightly, as if it were a happy event. That humiliation is not as good as my own evaporation. That morning, everything became the deepest memory in my heart, and I tried my best to forget it. When I come back in the middle of the night, I often moan in my dreams with pain.

The next day, I trimmed my hair with scissors. Although bitten by a dog, it's better than burning a hole in my head. That day, I cooked a meal for the whole family and didn't eat it myself. After watching them finish eating, I breathed a sigh of relief, secretly took my change of clothes at noon and 1 16.20 yuan, and stepped into the long-distance bus to work. ...

Now I have a family and a daughter. My husband and wife like my daughter very much. My daughter often asks me, "Which is better, a boy or a girl?" I answered seriously: "Hello, my mother likes my daughter since she was a child. God is very kind to me and sent me an angel. " These words are really from the heart, so I don't believe that having a daughter must be inferior. Do you live for yourself or for others? No one can save the weakness in your bones. Even if I give you eighty sons, you should have three meals a day, with daily necessities.

When I was a child, my parents went on a business trip and sent me a letter to stay at my grandmother's house for a week. My mother secretly gave it to her 15 yuan, and she was squeezed into the wall by my fourth aunt to sleep. My grandmother wouldn't let me pee in the spittoon at night, saying that I couldn't pee after I peed, so I had to go to the public toilet (every other road) and let me pour the spittoon the next day. Snacks (candy, melon seeds) are placed where I can't get them at all; I can't eat delicious food when I eat. They put all the fat they didn't like in my bowl and praised me for my good food. I have developed the habit of eating fat now [covering my face] [covering my face]

I remember I was about 65 when I was at school, and I was very confused. Why did I graduate from junior high school at the age of 65,438+08 and be admitted to senior high school? At that time, my living conditions were so poor that I broke into the front line of agricultural production without the opportunity to go to school.

My parents prefer boys to girls, so I bought a dozen apricots and put them at home. My brother shared it with my younger brother, and I also took one. My father took it away and gave it to my brother. Mother looked at this scene and smiled proudly. My brother doesn't like studying. My mother sent him to school seven times in a row. I was admitted to a key high school with the first place in the township, and my father was furious. Swearing at home for three days in a row, grandpa walked more than ten miles, gave me the tuition, advised my mother to let me go to school, and told her that girls knew how to honor their parents if they had the ability. Junior high school or high school, don't mention the taste of starvation. After studying hard for three years, I only dare to report to the normal school, because the normal school has no tuition and gives me living expenses.

I help my family build a house after work, and I take half of my brother's bride price. I will pack all my parents' clothes and pocket money and go to my parents' house to bring my own food and meat, so that my parents will be happy to let me have a meal. Parents are still dissatisfied. "I regret letting you go to school and you didn't come to wash our clothes." "If you are not allowed to go to school, someone in this family will clean up." Finally, we had a quarrel. I asked them to figure out what I still owe them in my life. They say that you will never be able to repay the kindness of giving birth to you and raising you.

When I was a child, any elder could not help but think that I looked too much like my little aunt who died a long time ago. My grandmother even thought that I was the reincarnation of my sister-in-law, and I would continue to come and continue my career.

So my grandmother was very kind to me, probably because my sister-in-law's death was man-made, but it had a great impact on my life, and I almost died.

When I grew up, I asked my father again and again, only to know that my little aunt was drowned, but my grandmother was supposed to be unwell that day. My 6-year-old sister-in-law kept pestering her and cried to let her go out to play for a while.

In the previous rural families, it was normal for a 6-year-old child to go out to find friends to play by himself, but grandma never imagined that asking her sister-in-law to go out to play turned out to be the last farewell of mother and daughter. Her sister-in-law didn't come back until dark. That night, her grandparents beat all over the village.

The next morning, someone saw my little aunt's body floating in the pit behind the village, and there was no breath. Grandma fainted several times and blamed herself very much. If grandma hadn't driven her sister-in-law out, or her sister-in-law wouldn't have had an accident.

Until I was born, I looked like that sister-in-law as I grew older. Even a mole on the left face is exactly the same. Grandma always thought I was a reincarnation of my sister-in-law Therefore, among these grandchildren, my grandmother is the one who suffered the most.

However, it is this unfair treatment that makes my cousins jealous of me. Nobody likes to play with me. It is common for grandma to pinch me when she is not paying attention.

When the farm is busy, the adults are working in the fields, and our children naturally stay at home, and then several cousins discuss drowning me in the water.

Then they began to fill an abandoned large water tank with water. Unfortunately, all these plans were heard by a cousin, who rushed to other places to report. Grandma fainted when she heard it on the spot, and then dad rushed home at the speed of 100 meters. Just when dad came back, I was knocked down by my cousin.

That night, three cousins were beaten by my aunt, and crying resounded through the village. Unfortunately, I was ignorant at that time and soon forgot about it, and then I liked to follow my cousins, although they still didn't like me that much.

After many years, I have no memory at all. Every time the old people mentioned this, the three cousins would smile awkwardly, mainly because they were too childish.

When I was 16 years old, my grandmother died of illness. My grandmother held my hand and said she was sorry before she died. I think my grandmother should treat me as a sister-in-law.

1. When I was four years old, my parents divorced and neither of them wanted me. I remember clearly that they had separated at that time. This one takes me there and that one takes me here. Neither side likes me for fear that I will drag them down.

2. Later, the court awarded me to my father, but my father had a beautiful girlfriend. In order to be alone with my girlfriend, he sent me to my relatives and aunts in the country. I was more than four years old at that time. My uncle stipulates that I have to go outside to pick up cow dung every day, and I have to pick up a certain amount before I can eat it. He has to check it every day after he comes back. When it was dark, he asked me to meet him in town. He does business in town. I still can't figure out why he, as an adult, wants me to pick him up with a child over four years old, whether it is windy, rainy or snowy. My aunt has a daughter as old as me and a son one year younger than me, but she doesn't have to do anything. After taking my uncle back, if it is spring and summer, I will follow him to catch eels in the paddy field with half my tall vat. I am a four-year-old child, from getting up to going to bed, doing things that an adult can't finish. And my police dad, with his beautiful girlfriend, lived his immortal life.

I remember one night, not long after I slept, my aunt came in with an unknown woman, lifted my quilt and said, look at his skin, like a dead man. At that time, I was so scared that I pretended to sleep and didn't dare to breathe louder.

There are too many things to write one by one. I don't know how long it will take. A lot of things happened later, and I think it is a miracle that I can live to this day.

When I was a child, my parents often ignored me because of their busy work. In order to exercise my self-care ability and courage, my mother sent me to my aunt's house in the next town as a kindergarten teacher.

I'm so scared, but every time my mother sends me to menstruation's house, I leave without saying goodbye. I have never left my mother since I was born, and I have been cheated by my mother every time. My mother told me to go to the bathroom or tricked me into going out to buy me something delicious. Or she ran away while I was in the bathroom. My aunt always locks the door at home. Every time she estimates the time, it is roughly that her mother is almost halfway through, and her aunt opens the door when she can't see her mother on the road.

I looked at the direction of my home, the endless road, with deep thoughts of home, I secretly shed tears, because I couldn't even relax my emotions around my aunt, only deep fear.

Aunt said to take me out for a walk. I found some playmates about the same age near my aunt's house. I am very happy, but at the same time I feel different from them. When they are tired of playing, they will go back to their homes and parents. And I can only miss home silently in my heart and my mother silently.

At that time, there was no telephone, so I had to wait for my mother to pick me up. My aunt's family has two teenage brothers. Big brother always looks very serious when he comes home every day. He doesn't like me very much. He said he hated children the most. Children are in trouble and have many things to do. He does his homework in the house every day after school and studies until midnight. I have been very quiet and dare not make any noise, but my eldest brother always advises my aunt to let me go, saying that I have influenced his study. Every time I see my eldest brother, I shudder. I am particularly afraid of being alone with my eldest brother.

My second brother is very lively and cheerful. He often takes me out to play. Every time a child bullies me, he will rush to protect me and say that I am his sister.

Accompanied by my second brother, I gradually adapted to life in menstruation. After several months, my favorite mother didn't come to see me either. I thought my mother couldn't help crying.

When the eldest brother who left school first saw my runny nose and tears, he changed his usual indifference. He took my hand and said that he would take me home to find my mother. Although I don't like my big brother, I really want to go home. When I passed the canteen, my eldest brother bought me a lollipop. I don't want to eat it. I put it in my pocket and want to take it home to my mother. My mother must be very happy.

On the way, I suddenly had a stomachache, probably because I wanted to go to the toilet. My eldest brother said he would wait for me far away, but I spent a long time squatting, either wanting to go to the toilet or just having a stomachache. I called my eldest brother several times, but there was no response. I ran out in a hurry, but I walked far and far without finding my eldest brother. I think these places are all the same length. It's getting dark and my stomach hurts even more. I just stopped and squatted for a while, and it didn't feel so bad. I got up and walked again, and finally I saw the brightly lit village. I knocked on the door of a family. A kind aunt opened the door and asked me what my name was. What happened? I said I had a stomachache. My name is * * *. Aunt didn't waste much time. She went home with the money and went to the hospital behind my back. A check, it is appendicitis. The doctor said I met a wonderful person.

I am confused by pain and fatigue. When I woke up again, I saw the mother I wanted to see most. I can't control my emotions anymore. I cried. It turns out that this old lady belongs to my mother's village. She knows my name (there is no duplicate name in ten miles and eight townships), and she saw it when I was a child, but I didn't expect me to be so old.

Afterwards, my eldest brother said to take me out to play. I ran around and got lost. I don't know if my eldest brother left me on purpose, but this memory is really terrible for me.

When I got home, I told my mother that I was obedient and would never leave home again. My mother once tried to trick me into going to menstruation's house, but I cautiously refused. Although my parents are very busy, I can see them every night before going to bed. I am the happiest person in the world. The world of children is so simple and beautiful.

The story of a child who is only six years old this year:

Just born, my mother didn't have enough milk, and she was fed bananas by her own grandmother who thought she was skilled in medicine. Her grandmother is very strong. After reading two books, she thought she was a famous doctor, disobeyed the management of doctors and nurses and quarreled with the director of doctors and nurses!

The child was not put in the stroller, but on the mother's bedside, and almost fell down several times. When I put it in the stroller, I put a lot of clothes that adults wear in winter, which almost suffocated me. It's not over yet. After returning home, the mother of the child was beaten by her grandmother for crying, and her grandmother cursed to throw the child to death! The child's mother endured the pain, got out of bed and confronted her grandmother. The child's grandmother was scared to run away all night. Since then, the child's grandmother has never said anything about her beating, saying everywhere that she will wait until next month to let the child's mother beat her away, but anyone with brains can judge everything. How to fight a woman whose wound hasn't healed three days after giving birth?

Later, the child's mother and father divorced and raised the child alone. No one asked them how they were doing. Some of them are insults and rumors from children's grandmothers, grandparents and aunts. Their neighbors and friends have helped them a lot. It is said that the eyes of the masses are discerning, and rumors are useless. Is it true?/You don't say.

I thought it would be all right, but the children's grandparents, grandparents, aunts and fathers thought of a good idea, bribing the appraisal agency, giving the children a severe disability certificate, and using the residual insurance money as a subsidy for low-income households! One household with residual insurance premium 150 yuan, and the low-income household 1 10,000 yuan. I think this is over. I don't know for what reason, I tried my best to interfere with the normal enrollment of children and prevent non-children from attending special education schools. Because of interference, children delay the normal information collection, public schools can't study, and private schools have no places. The children's mothers made great efforts and made many connections, and finally found a school with insufficient places. Fortunately, the children lived up to expectations.

At this time, the child's father jumped out again. Because the child's mother asked the child's father about his schooling and asked him for help, his father not only didn't answer the phone, but falsely accused the child's mother of harassing his normal life!

After the divorce, the child's mother never received a penny of support from the child's father, and the child's father never asked if the child was doing well. Before, the child's mother didn't understand that a child who was fluent in English and got full marks in Go and Sudoku could not be taken care of by his grandparents and father. Later, I understood that admitting that children are excellent means that children are normal and children are normal. How can I get the subsidy? Is it over? No [tears] [tears] [tears]

It is ridiculous that the father of the child went to Qira, Xinjiang to teach for some reason. It is a great irony that both a tutor and his son have problems in school. After the child's father went to Xinjiang, he took the child to a Uighur widow's house. It's not hard to understand why the father did this, right? The difference between the father's birthday and the child's birthday is two days. The child's birthday is seventeen, and the child's father is nineteen, but he has never given the child a birthday, and there is no news! But treat my daughter as my own, love me, love my dog!

I don't know if the child's father changed sex because of the current instigation or after he went to Xinjiang. He broke the agreement, not only didn't pay alimony, but also competed with the mother for real estate, trying to get the child to move out of the home where he grew up! For this purpose, I put the information of the child's mother on the yellow website and named it Aoi sora, which seriously affected the work of the child's mother! He also instigated his grandparents and aunts to fight in the name of taking care of the children. The mother of the child also fights for the child. A telephone complaint went to the discipline inspection and called the police. In the end, he did not succeed!

After a while, the child's father didn't know what psychology it was, perhaps it was the instigation of his current wife, making up information in social software such as friends circle and maliciously slandering the child's mother!

Why? The mother of the child just wants to bring up the child quietly by herself, but is described by the grandmother, grandfather and father of the child as unwanted junk?

Why? The children's grandparents, aunts and fathers never look at the children, but they say that the children's mothers refuse to look at them and visit them, turning black and white and calling the deer a horse?

Why? The child is so young, do you have to bear this?

Don't be afraid, my mother will resist everything for you!

Don't worry, son! Hu Tian's arrival in Sri Lanka is a major task. He must first suffer from his mind, his bones and muscles and confuse his actions. This is not pain. This is God's test for you. After being admitted, life will be smooth sailing!

I was about 12 years old. I left my parents and went back to my hometown to live with my grandmother for a year and a half, which became an unforgettable memory for me. At that time, I was just a teenager. When my gender was confirmed, my grandmother insisted that I was a boy. As soon as I let it go, I became a girl by mistake. So I nagged every day and asked people in the village to identify fortune tellers. I feel extremely humiliated and want to die. Is this vicious treatment? In fact, grandma is patriarchal and can't accept the fact that I am a girl. Because gender is not recognized, everything is wrong and everyone should be blamed. In winter, I can't carry Ji Zi to collect dung, and I can't walk far, so I can't let go like a real boy. Later, the shredded radish fed to the sheep every day wiped off strips of meat from the side of the thumb, often dripping blood, and now there are scars. Desperately trying to prove that she is a girl, she cut clothes, embroidered and sewed at the age of 13, and later became a very smart woman. Decades have passed, and I understand my grandmother. She wants me to be a boy so badly.