The money can't be repaid for the time being, but what if the borrower seems to be urging him to die?

Everyone has difficulties. Maybe he is in difficulties now and needs to turn around. If you can't make it clear for a while, invite him to dinner to make it clear and understand each other. Otherwise, in the end, he said, if you don't pay back the money, you will have no credibility. You say: He is stingy and keeps urging him to owe some money. The enemy should reconcile, not reconcile. One more friend is another way out.