The girl said: you don't have to send her a message if you have nothing to do in the future. What's her psychology?

If a girl says this to you, there are only two possibilities, either she has no feelings for you or she is angry with you. As a boy, you must not be discouraged at this time, and you must make a final effort. No matter what the outcome is, we must gain something in every relationship and improve it. Let's briefly discuss and share:

What if you don't feel anything for yourself? Boys may be depressed in this situation. This needs to be analyzed in two situations. One is to say this at the beginning, which means it's over before it starts. Don't pay too much attention. Modern people live so fast that they pay attention to time cost, economic cost and interest cost when they fall in love. There is no need to pester and beat. They love themselves as humble as a dust in the air, but the other party will never find the dust and fall in love with it, because no matter what you do, you are not the other party's dish. Just for a moment, your status, money or family attracted her, and the person who got her couldn't get her heart. In love and marriage, men and women should be equal. It is better to give up than humble love.

The other is to date for a while. If I say this to you, you may be just so-so in her mind at first, and she may also need emotional communication. It's just that you didn't show your charm in the process of communication and didn't deepen her inner desire to continue communication. This situation may be due to the technical level of love. She let you into the examination room, and your test score was not high, and she was not satisfied. Inner frustration is inevitable, but you have to die to understand it. You can send a message to let the other party understand. Some women are more frank and will clearly point out what women want from their partners. Some women are more introverted, can't give directions, and have to summarize themselves. Anyway, there are a lot of herbs in the sea, so why love a flower alone? A radish is a pit, which means nothing. You just don't fit in. You're ready to fight again.

She's mad at you. What should we do? This situation can still be saved. You just have some contradictions and disputes in love, and you still have a place in her mind. At this time, you should reflect on how to win back her heart.

Communication between men and women is actually very important and skillful. In the process of communicating with the woman, the man must always convey the meaning of my fair lady and a gentleman, but the key is how to let the other party capture your effective information. The cultural differences between the East and the West are actually very interesting at this point. Westerners like to express their personality, express their feelings directly and express their emotions, while orientals are more euphemistic, and will not refuse directly, but will express implicitly. You should be able to hear between the lines, guess, guess the beauty's heart. It's not better here. It has its own characteristics. But the girl was angry. She may think: You love me, and you should know what I think. And you may think: How can I know what you are thinking if you don't tell me? There are many examples, so I won't give them. But there is a sentence pattern. Boys must be able to use it, and don't feel sick. "Dear, I know you are angry with me, you are very sad, and I am also very sad. I know I don't care about you enough, and you're sad. I am very sad and ashamed to disappoint you. " I use human language to express my feelings, such as sadness, sadness and grief, and I am determined that I will care more about her feelings. " ′

Attraction is very important in sexual intercourse. You should show your charm to the woman in time and seize every opportunity to show your advantages. At this time, your advantage is the greatest in her mind. Your gentlemanly manner, your various talents, fitness, cooking and so on. There are eighteen kinds of martial arts, all of which are out. Women are immersed in love at this time, and their IQ will be discounted. Men shouldn't be so sincere. It is not cheating to hide your shortcomings properly.

Conclusion: In fact, there is still a lot to learn and discuss, so let's call it a day. No one's love and marriage are smooth sailing. As long as you have a sincere, kind, enterprising, tolerant and happy person who loves to learn, everyone can find their own happiness.

Know others, know yourself, be a stranger and stay with you all the time.

Hello, I'm a stranger to psychological counseling, so I came to answer your question uninvited.

Judging from the description of your question and the screenshot of the picture you put out, the girl seems a little angry.

I don't know your relationship with this girl. It seems that you will talk a lot. It seems that you talk to her most of the time. You will pay close attention to her, not only her chat, but also her circle of friends, her daily life, and her Tik Tok to see what she has done and how she feels today.

It seems that her every move will touch your nerves. Just like this time, she replied to your message. You are worried or sad, so you come here for help. It seems that you like this girl, but she seems to be lukewarm and even disgusted with you. I don't know if it's just this once, or is it always like this?

Judging from the information replied by the girl, your excessive attention has brought her some pressure, and you will send some information about what she has done to make some judgments and evaluations. Maybe these things will make her feel uncomfortable She wants to be herself, not that she wants to be what you think. She wants some freedom.

Everyone is an independent individual and has his own way of doing things and ideas. There is no need to say that everyone is required to do what they want. Maybe what she said made you sad, but a stranger thought it was better to have a good talk and think about whether she was really good or not, and what she did was not particularly suitable.

Communication is the first prerequisite for solving problems, and communication should be based on equality.

Stranger psychology, looking forward to meeting and knowing you.

Ironically, to remind you that you don't care enough about her, she is not satisfied.

Man: What's the matter with you?

Woman: I'm fine. Go to sleep.

Man: What's the matter with you? Tell me.

Woman: I'm really fine. Go to sleep quickly.

M: Well, I'm going to bed, so go to bed early.

The girl turned and sent a circle of friends: I am responsible for everything.

What's the matter with you? Look at your circle of friends Tell me.

Woman: I'm fine. Don't worry about me. Go to sleep.

Man: Are you really okay?

Woman: It's really nothing. You go to sleep.

M: Well, I'm going to bed.

The girl turned around and sent another circle of friends: After all, no one can understand me.

First, I don't like clingy boys.

Second, the worst thing may be that I don't like you very much.

Actually, it looks very clear.

You have different personalities,

She can't do what you ask,

You can't tolerate her behavior.

Some emotions don't have to be forced.

You have to believe that there must be something suitable for you!

Some questions don't need to be asked.

For example, the question you asked, in fact, you already have the answer, and at the same time you have made a judgment on the other side, so why ask again?

1, you said that the other party always sends videos in the circle of friends, and it is still a provocative video, which shows that you are dissatisfied with the other party, have reached a conclusion and denied the other party.

Judging from the conversation, you have put forward your opinion to the other party. The other party doesn't agree with your opinion, thinking that you and she are not the same person, and the information you sent really caused trouble and made the other party feel dissatisfied. The other party already thinks you are a pain in the ass. what do you think?

There is no provocative video in the chat pictures you provided. I don't know if it's because you didn't explicitly mention it, or other reasons, but your idea may be incorrect, and different people accept it differently.

4. There is a possibility that you are a person with strong desire for control and possession, but in fact, if you don't violate the law and morality, everyone has the freedom to decide his own life-I suggest you reflect on it and encourage you to change if you have.

5, I suggest you stop here, not the same person, do not enter a house, why bother to find it. Isn't it great that everyone is different?

Above, for reference.

1. It is possible that she understands you and supports you to concentrate on your career. 2. It may be that the days when you used to get along with each other made her go from fanaticism to rationality, thinking that you are not suitable for getting too close, hoping to maintain the relationship of ordinary friends. It is necessary to analyze your previous relationship, what you have experienced together, and analyze the specific problems.

May be rejected.