Is it useful for cancer patients to send comfort messages?

Illness will always get better, even if there is an incurable disease, do you still have to live?

The spring breeze gently blows the willows, and the peach blossoms bloom for a long time. I don't know if I have seen it. Viruses are rare in the world. Don't wander around. Pay attention to disinfection and hand washing. The virus can't last long. I wish you health and eternity!

The biggest threat to people's lives is driving, not traffic accidents.

Is it better? Some things don't have to be taken to heart. I feel sad that you are not feeling well. For my sake, you should get well soon! encouraging words

If we can't choose the disease, then we can choose the attitude towards it. The stronger, the more optimistic, the more positive, the greater the hope!

Come on, be strong. I'm still behind you! ! !

Come on, I support you. Oh, I'm your solid backing! ! !

Family and friends will always love and support you!

I will be worried if you are sick today; If you are angry tomorrow, I will be sad; I will rest assured that you will be healthy in this life; I am happy when you are happy in your life.

An optimistic life every day.

Nobody wants to die. We all know that death will come sooner or later, but we seldom think about it.

The coming of death may change a person's world outlook and values. For most people, when they know that their time is running out, they will cherish their daily life instead of muddling along.

One patient described his philosophy like this:

? The mortality of each generation is 100%. Everyone will die. We are not sure how long we can live. But I firmly believe that the quality of life is much more important than the number of years you live. ?

At the end of life, there is no right or wrong in the face of death. Do what you are happy and comfortable, and you can find inner peace in your own way.

desire for survival

We are born with a desire to survive. However, there is no clear answer to what effect this desire has on diseases, especially cancer. But there is no doubt that this desire for survival can improve the quality of life. Many patients with advanced cancer live longer than expected. Most of them have a positive attitude towards life. In them, we can see hope, tenacity, perseverance and courage. When asked how they did it, they always replied, Do you need me at work? ,? I can't die before my grandson is born. ? They won't give up. Passion for life can alleviate the pain caused by treatment. But this does not mean that just keeping a positive attitude towards life can prolong life, but emphasizing the positive aspects of life will make your next life more meaningful and happier.

What are you thinking as the days go by?

Each of us is unique, and each of us has his own view of life and death. However, most patients with advanced cancer usually have similar feelings and deal with life in the same way.

When patients are told for the first time or realize for the first time that their cancer will never be cured, most of their reactions are strongly denying that this will happen to them. They firmly believe that they will prove the diagnosis wrong. This is a way to deal with emergencies, but after a period of time, most patients themselves and their families can face the reality. A patient said:

"You can't avoid death by denying it. If you never dare to face death, you can't let others share your fears and worries, and you will miss many good things in life. ?

The patient's reaction usually starts from? No, not me? Go? Why me? This question. This problem stems from the patient's anger and indignation. He will complain about others and even feel sorry for himself. These reactions are normal. Sometimes, if you can accept and understand your anger, you may not feel angry anymore. You can talk to your family, friends or social workers. You should also remember that getting sick is not your fault.

In the meantime, you should know? Why me? There is no answer to this question. Anger can't solve the problem. All you have to do is compete with death for time. In order to prolong life, patients will make many promises. For example,? If I could live another month, I would volunteer every day. If I live to see my son get married, I want nothing more. ? Paying attention to your commitment and fighting for it can relieve the pressure.

Sometimes you feel desperate, because many aspects of life are out of your control, and to some extent you have lost your independence. At this time, what should you concentrate on to cherish? Family, friends, etc.

With the aggravation of illness, you will not be disappointed with your own gains and losses, but will fall into great fear of losing your loved ones. After great sorrow, there must be peace of mind. At this time, you may prefer not to be accompanied. The patient's family and friends should realize that this means that the patient has reached the end of his life. At this time, a warm smile and a gentle touch are worth a thousand words.

Your inner strength

Most people will collapse when they know that their illness can't be cured. They may even lose the desire to live, but time will change everything. However, your inner strength will help you get rid of despair. Someone said:? Before this happened, I had a five-year plan, 10, or even a 20-year plan. Now I realize that I will die one day, but I am still alive today. The important thing is that I will live here and now. ? Patients can make short-term plans days, months or even a year in advance. This will make them feel that they still have a lot to do and a long way to go. Your plan can include things you like to do, and you can organize some activities to spend with your family and friends-picnics, concerts and so on. Or you can try to realize your lifelong dream during this time, such as taking a long trip. Without a plan, you will feel that your life is full of trivial things. But everything should be done according to one's ability. If patients feel exhausted, their resistance will decrease, so it will be more difficult to fight the disease. Some people compare this disease to an impending war. One more day means victory. A female patient with advanced breast cancer said this? I got satisfaction from this war. My doctor and I are both fighting cancer, although we all know that we will fail in the end. ?

Many people rethink what is important in life. Some people say so. Illness made me rethink my life, and I became no longer haggle over every ounce. I simply said every day. ? In short, your inner strength can help you live a full life every day.

What else can you do for yourself?

Suffering from a serious illness is a very challenging thing for patients. As before you get sick, you will still encounter happy and unhappy things, and your ability to deal with these things will be different in the future. You may feel depressed in the morning, but you may feel better in the afternoon. One day, you may not be able to do anything, but another day you will be full of energy. When you are unlucky, try to think of something happy and tell yourself that it will all pass.

An active life is a way to help yourself, such as actively participating in social activities and inviting relatives to visit. At the same time, let others help you and tell them what you need them to do for you and what you can do for them. They will put forward pertinent opinions. Your doctor will advise you to exercise more, take medicine on time and eat nutritious food. These measures may not mean much in a short time, but they can preserve your physical strength and self-reliance ability. A patient said:? No one knows exactly how patients want them to help. They need some hints. Say it yourself first, or no one will tell you. ?

Besides, if you feel unwell, don't pretend to be good. You should share your feelings with your family.

Face challenges

It's hard to accept that your body is not as strong and reliable as before. As cancer worsens, you may not be able to stand on your own feet as before and have to rely on others all the time. This dependence on others may hurt a person's self-esteem. Your role at home and at work has also changed. If so, just remember one thing, that is, the characteristics that make you a good parent, a good friend, an amiable elder and a careful partner have not changed.

A female patient said this: We shouldn't know ourselves and care about ourselves until we know that we are terminally ill, but many of us do. I found that I am much stronger than I thought. I'm braver than I thought, and I'm glad to know that. ?

You can also continue your daily activities, such as light exercise, volunteering or traveling. Controlling pain and taking necessary medication at home can help patients with advanced cancer to be more independent.

If you can't take part in more intense activities, you can organize family photo albums, scrapbooks and personal collections. You can also work on the computer or keep a diary to record your feelings and experiences. You should remember to save energy and use it on what you really want to pursue.

You should also remember that whether you are bedridden or not, you can control many aspects of your life by yourself. You can decide your daily activities, your hobbies and what will make you more comfortable. For example, you can wear your own clothes, or use your own sheets and pillows. Sometimes, you can decide when to take a bath or rest, and so on. Maintaining your independence is of great help to many patients. But sometimes your family or friends will arrange things for you for your own good, and sometimes you need to rely on others to take care of you. But when you face such a situation, you should remember that you know what you need most than anyone else.