How to refuse a meal with high emotional intelligence without hurting people?

1. Tonight happens to be the birthday of the elderly at home, and I want to go home early to prepare the banquet.

My children will have a parent-teacher meeting, so they can't come after dinner. Let's get together next time.

My friends are coming in the evening, and I have to drive to the airport to meet the plane, so it is not convenient to drink.

4. In the process of refusing dinner, we can skillfully use language to relieve each other's feelings and say, "Do we still need this for our feelings?" "No need, there is nothing to talk about." In this way, the other party will be embarrassed to invite dinner again, because they feel alienated.

5, on a business trip, I can't catch up. If you make an appointment in advance, you can also use a temporary business trip to refuse.

6. You don't need to give specific reasons, just ask the other party to invite you in the future, or say that it is inconvenient recently and you must attend in the future. Tomorrow after tomorrow, there are so many tomorrows. For a dispensable dinner, this delay will disappear.

7. Say that you are not qualified to be invited, there is no need to organize a dinner, and say that you want to entertain each other. Many times, if you say this, the other party will not insist, because if you insist, both parties will be embarrassed.

8. On Monday weekend, at the end of the month, at the beginning of the season and at the end of the year, you can excuse the dinner by saying that your business is too busy and your boss is too anxious, and it seems that you are very important and the company cannot do without yourself.